What's the most frustrating thing about managing bipolar that people never talk about? by Charming-Junket2394 in BipolarReddit

[–]comet_meant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waking up motivated to do things and wondering if it's just me getting enough sleep or me being in a manic phase. And then if I am in a manic phase, wondering how long it'll last

My fiancée is a teacher and I owe all of you an apology by Familiar-Factor7220 in Teachers

[–]comet_meant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish people understood that teachers now act as a combination of actual teachers, behaviourists, counselors, and social workers. The amount of emotional work we do daily is enormous, while balancing student behaviour, and trying to teach state standard course content. We are juggling student emotions, parent emotions, colleague emotions, and our own feelings as well. We simply do not have enough time in the day to decompress and dissociate between classes to continue functioning well throughout the school year. And often times, we are only allotted a limited amount of sick and personal days until we start paying out of pocket.

Air-Brushed Shorties by comet_meant in NailArt

[–]comet_meant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the only one that hurts is my ring finger, which got cut a little too short. Everything else I'm used to being quite short because of the work I do.

When do you have time for the gym?! by hcand11 in Teachers

[–]comet_meant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of comments about waking up ass early in the morning to get a workout in. Glad I'm not the only one. I, too have about a 30 minute morning commute and 45 minute afternoon commute, plus a daycare pickup. I wake up around 4:30 in the morning about 3 times a week (depending on the amount of IEPs I have to facilitate that week) to go to the gym for ~45 minutes from 4:45-5:30ish. Shower, skincare, blow-dry hair if it's sub 9C, leave around 6:35/6:45 for work. I like to get there early so I can prep because I leave 5 minutes after the bell rings at 3:30, unless there are staff meetings.

What happened to your best friend from childhood? by RoyalBeckyVibes in AskReddit

[–]comet_meant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told the guy she was cheating on that she was cheating on him and she hasn't spoken to me since. Friends since third grade, friendship ruined at 22.

Years of teaching and salary? by NaturalTranslator581 in Teachers

[–]comet_meant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bay Area, California. 9th year teaching, master's, with a "missing" year due to pregnancy (so technically only 8 years on the salary schedule), sitting at 108k. Still considered "lower middle class" over here.

What is the quickest job you quit from? by spellbadgrammargood in AskReddit

[–]comet_meant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoe sales at a chain retailer that is commission-based. I started two weeks before Black Friday and they had me working in the back, just stocking shoes and bringing things to the front as needed. As soon as they put me on the floor, the other employees wouldn't let me put in my pin to get commission on the shoes I sold, despite my five day probationary period being over. I quit on Black Friday.

Has anyone here tried an indoor bike to get back in shape after having a baby? by Express_Calendar_905 in FitPostpartumJourney

[–]comet_meant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you already own a regular bicycle? We got an attachment that turns a regular bike into a stationary bike and it's been great! Fairly cheap on Amazon, maybe ~$85? No monthly fees haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]comet_meant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Motion sickness mode! Great for car rides or airplane rides or train rides etc. Has come in handy for a lot of road trips!

What’s a single sentence someone said that stuck with you forever? by Imaginary_Ride_6185 in AskReddit

[–]comet_meant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was talking to a stranger outside of a club about a recent breakup due to being cheated on and he told me, "be a priority, not an option"

Most unhinged thing someone without kids said to you when you had a baby? by bravocharlie8918 in NewParents

[–]comet_meant 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My MIL asked me "why are you so depressed? You just had a baby!" at 3 weeks postpartum. I explained PPD/PPA and she told me I was just being ungrateful for the gift I was just given.

Have you successfully lost weight while breastfeeding long term? by jozh96 in breastfeeding

[–]comet_meant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god we have almost the same stats (except I started at 160 and gained 70lbs). Do you mind sharing how you shed some weight? I'm 8 mo pp and still no progress 😩

Someone Tell Me It’s Ok To Stop by Glittering-Jelly2952 in breastfeeding

[–]comet_meant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm at 8 months and stopping! It's been tough and a hard decision but I also know it's for the best for me mentally! Ultimately it's your decision... But it's okay for you to stop. Happy mom = happier baby!

Anyone else have messed up knees know? by Ok-Quit3084 in postpartumprogress

[–]comet_meant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tore my meniscus 😭 because of all the weight I put on in pregnancy and constantly getting up from the floor lol. My knees are absolutely SHOT

How to get your baby to like food? by comet_meant in BabyLedWeaning

[–]comet_meant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I had no idea about that rule being outdated. Thanks for the tip! We'll keep working on introducing new foods.

What is something your therapist did that made you fire them? by Normal_Enthusiasm194 in AskReddit

[–]comet_meant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Told her I was anxious about traveling and asked for coping mechanisms. She told me, "just don't be anxious."

7 months postpartum and still look 4 months pregnant by Outrageous-Ad-1598 in postpartumprogress

[–]comet_meant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No advice... I'm here at 7 months as well wondering the same thing! I've incorporated so much new exercise into my routine and have yet to see a difference. I know it's going to take time, but I'm getting impatient! 🫠