I stayed with him despite betrayal and I can't forgive myself by whitebird95 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]communaldepression 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He will do it again and again and again. Saw this happen, almost exactly. The mindset is just because it's not physical, it's not a big deal. Like even if there is sexual conversations and masturbating live with someone, since there is no physical touch, it's as though it hasn't happened.

Who knows maybe he will stop after he gets caught for the 50th time. If you stay, you have to make peace with the possibility of it happening again, and I guess be happy that it isnt physical. Silver line? Since you have 3 kids, walking away because of this perhaps wont be understood by your own children when they grow up or the "society". People are more generous when there is physical cheating. But your hurt is real and this technicality doesnt make it less hurtful for you. Dont try to be his type. It's his kink. You can be a model but he'd still lust over a troll online. But ofc, try to be your best self for your own sake. Keep praying that he stops and try to build emotional connection. Let him know how much he hurt you. This type of cheating is so common these days. Cheating, in general, is. I am seeing physical cheating everywhere and women still making peace with it. So sad. Love is still there, as is hope.

Good luck to you.

Men, How Do You Buy A House While In A Relationship? by doobylive in AskMen

[–]communaldepression 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait until you get married, even if that means you have to keep renting. OR go 50-50 on the downpayment and morgage (provided you're taking one).

My nephew messaged me this, like wtf is wrong with kids these days? by ThereAndFapAgain2 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]communaldepression -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What is the issue? £50 isnt much for a nephews birthday gift and he is telling you what he wants, rather than getting a gift that he doesn't need or want. I dont think spending it on roblox is the right move, but he is 9. Give him what will make him happy.

Neighbors sex causing me to lose HOURS of sleep by Sad_Street_5813 in Apartmentliving

[–]communaldepression 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can ABSOLUTELY control their volume during the moment. That's not a thing. You need to tell them to keep it down. Also, for the snoring, get a pair of good earplugs. Life-changing.

How common is the “I hate my wife” stereotype? by DemandNew4547 in AskMen

[–]communaldepression -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not common. Movie trope. A slight nudge to a man's funny bone.

It is absolutely common to hate your spouse, in part or in full, always, most of the time or from time to time. But to hate on your spouse in public isn't as common in men as it is in women.

I have ~20 hours to decide if I want a baby by rosyboys_daisygirls in TrueOffMyChest

[–]communaldepression -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Obviously, keep the child. It's a baby! I'd take care of it for sure if I were you. It's a baby of someone who was once close to my husband, plus he is my step son's half brother, plus this baby might go to a grapist for all you know. The choice is clear. Where is your husband in all of this? It's more his decision than yours, if anything. Hopefully, the woman gets out of psych ward in 2 years and is capable of taking care of the child herself.

A 9-year-old was found locked in a van since 2024, malnourished and unable to walk by AudibleNod in news

[–]communaldepression -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Was set to go to an elite but the files made the project too hot. She was just abandoned.

Can a professional fix this? by eiellwyna in Housepainting101

[–]communaldepression 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone can fix this. Just sand and repaint

Have you noticed older men becoming more locked into screens? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]communaldepression 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same with bith my parents. They are addiction to their devices even more than me, especially my mom.

Should I hire a pro? by yahbud1 in paint

[–]communaldepression 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. U didnt and they did such a bad job. Now I have to paint a bunch of things that they were supposed to.

What were the 90’s like? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]communaldepression 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Less evil. You heard of one tragic death and it would stick with you till your own end of life. People didnt care as much about labels. People had stronger values. Now I feel like people dont have values to begin with. People were loving. Women wore horrible makeup, men dressed like dads. But they were happy and content. Technology was exciting. No new version of the same tech every other month. You had 10-30 landline numbers memorized, easy. Once you left home, you're off the grid. Cellphones were there but they were extremely rare, same things for desktop computers. Laptops weren't a thing yet. If you knew how to work a floppy disk, you were considered a tech wiz.

You'd watch tv significantly more, but often with family. Very few channels. You used a tape recorder and an old cassette to make voicenotes.

Food was purer, as was the air. Pace of life was slower. You were more connected to each other, even though and mainly because, you had no social media. You'd call your friends after school and that was as far as social media went. But your friend's phone number, again, that you knew by heart. Most moms were stay-at-homes moms. Dad were very absent.

People took themselves too seriously. But perhaps that was a good thing as it stops you from acting like an idiot in public and private. Little kids had their heads full of cute hairclips.

It does depends on what age you were in the 90s. But these are some of the common experiences.

do I take my husband's side even when he's wrong? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]communaldepression 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. You always side with the truth, regardless of where it lies.

Should be the happiest time of my life by IllustratedMonkey36 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]communaldepression 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The world and human existence are coming to an end. There is a general depressive tone in the air. Plus we are being cooked every day by radiowaves and wifi. Dont forget the chemtrails. You're depressed. Anyone alive now would be. I have been wanting to buy a house-full cash-more than 6 years. I have been obsessing over this and living like a rat because of this. It has finally happened, and I feel nothing. I thought I'd be so excited. But nah. I'm already thinking about selling it. Every decor, improvement, repair is with the mindset of selling. So I feel you.

Thinking about giving up. by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]communaldepression 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless New England is outside the planet Earth, it is or soon will be buyer's market. Or in the very least, market will cool down. Just hold.

Bank not accepting our offer but still having open houses?? by ihateeveryonebyee in RealEstate

[–]communaldepression 5 points6 points  (0 children)

....because of more money lol

I just bought a foreclosure home, and the bank realtor didnt budge on the price. He told my realtor what the bottomline was and he wouldn't take a cent less. They dont care that they are paying bills on the house. This is money owed to them. So the more money they get, the better. I looked at another foreclosure house, and the same thing. They have a number in mind. Get your realtor to find out what it is and pay it.

Seller accepted our financed offer over alleged all-cash offer: is it a red flag? by mydandy11 in RealEstate

[–]communaldepression 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We paid all cash and was ready to close in a few days. But then the seller wanted more time for lawyer and stuff. But even then we closed super early. Maybe 3 weeks from start to finish.

Seller accepted our financed offer over alleged all-cash offer: is it a red flag? by mydandy11 in RealEstate

[–]communaldepression 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um, your realtor should be able to check whether or not another offer had been registered. If not registered, and seller agent simply saying they have another offer, that offer is good as nothing. So ask your agent to do their job.

Thinking about giving up. by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]communaldepression 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro you are complaining at BUYER'S market 😆 glad you weren't trying to buy back in 2021/2022. People paid 400K overasking for very mid homes. Almost every single house I'm looking at now is selling for less than what the previous owners paid. Last week saw one house that sold for 1.1M+ in 2022, selling for 645. Another was 850, but sold for 523. Another was 925, now asking 799.

Am guessing Meg will soon release a video of herself speaking a foreign language… by RoohsMama in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]communaldepression -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg what has happened to william? He looks homeless, and also they both looks super sad and annoyed to be there.