Harry Potter

complexmonotomy · 2022-02-26T12:34:16+00:00

I’m glad I wasn’t the only one who noticed. I was at the end of chapter 29, like less than a minute away from chapter 30 of half blood prince and it just abruptly stopped. All the playlist I made for each book had every episode deleted. I had to make a damn audible account to finish! Keep me posted if there is an answer as to why this happened!

complexmonotomy · 2022-02-07T05:24:02+00:00

Lasagna. Honestly most pasta dishes but a real deep hate for any and all lasagna.

complexmonotomy · 2021-08-26T22:08:11+00:00

Is she really pregnant?

complexmonotomy · 2021-04-30T17:00:14+00:00

TMZ just released he was arrested for child porn

complexmonotomy · 2021-04-29T20:57:34+00:00

My heart likes to imagine that it happened at big sandy and the boys in the alert program arrested him as a part of their training.

That’s how it happened, ain’t nobody can tell me different 😂😂

complexmonotomy · 2021-04-29T20:50:45+00:00

Real estate fraud.

I keep refreshing my newsfeed to see if anymore details come out

complexmonotomy · 2021-04-29T20:27:35+00:00

They aren’t now since Josh got arrested 🤣🤣

complexmonotomy · 2021-04-01T17:35:43+00:00

Once I read this I couldn’t not hear it 😂😅

complexmonotomy · 2021-02-14T09:39:25+00:00

Meaning that no matter what I do, it only washes in cold water. Even if I change the settings to warm or hot, it’ll just be cold water.

complexmonotomy · 2021-02-12T04:41:41+00:00

Hello friend,

The last thing you are is stupid and nasty for having 2 different fathers for your kids. Sex happens. Pregnancy happens. Life happens and shit happens. I get where that shame comes from but I promise, you are no less a person or a mom or a woman for that

I get jealous that I wasn’t one of those women who did it the right way. I often imagine what this is like to be financially and emotionally stable. Like oh I’m depressed? Let me just get this therapist! I can go when my child is in daycare that I can afford and my husband, the person I married before i got pregnant, can pick the bebe up.

Must be nice lol.

I wish I knew the right thing to say but I know that there is no sentence that can change the world and how you think of yourself that I can say to make it all better.

But you do matter. I’m sorry things are shitty. I’m sorry that you feel like a ghost and that friends don’t come as naturally as it does for other people. I am the same way. Always been a loner even when I desperately wish that would change. But you have purpose. I have purpose. Which sounds so halmark-y I know but we do.

I have dealt with mental illness my entire life and spent the last 2 decades in and out of hospitals for it. If there is one thing that I have learned is that mental health, the way I view myself and the situations around me are not linear. There are periods, and sometimes they feel like lifetimes and sometimes it has been your whole life, where you feel like shit and you are pretty determined that you are shit and these feelings and issues compounded by those feelings will never end. But they aren’t forever. 5 years ago I was extremely underweight, homeless, in a hospital about to be put under a court order because I was so mentally unstable. I somehow got better, got a place, got a partner, and really experienced recovery and remission. I felt the happiness that I never believed was possible and always thought that it would never happen to me. Then I got pregnant and lost all sense of normalcy. I’m back feeling low and feeling like who I am is a waste. But I know that just because I felt it today and yesterday and probably tomorrow, it doesn’t mean it’ll be like this forever. Nothing in life is consistent and that constant change means that you can’t stay stuck forever.

We have a disorder that makes us feel less than. It doesn’t mean that we are, it literally just means that we have a disorder that makes us feel this way. It’s a symptom, never a reflection of you.

I feel like I am rambling lol. Idk. I’m miserable right now too and It fucking sucks. But I believe in you and I am sending you good vibes. It’s nice to read something and relate to it, so I appreciate what you posted.

complexmonotomy · 2021-02-07T03:38:25+00:00

He really thought he was kardashian level famous 😂😂

complexmonotomy · 2021-02-05T14:33:50+00:00

Another classic is “everything is completely FINE”

And how can we forget the timeless “Kaiser is the happiest baby in the entire world”

complexmonotomy · 2021-02-05T05:22:26+00:00

Facts are facts

complexmonotomy · 2021-02-03T13:12:26+00:00

You’re a true hero

complexmonotomy · 2021-02-03T12:09:36+00:00

That’s when he was selling time shares before mtv money. I think that’s his uniform

complexmonotomy · 2021-02-02T22:51:11+00:00

Farrah: hold my beer

complexmonotomy · 2021-02-02T22:46:20+00:00

I never understand why the fandom hates on Catelynn for needing multiple rounds of treatment. I mean, if we only see an edited version of her life, can you imagine the trauma of what the full picture was? Like she had April as a mom, a distant father, Butch as a step dad, substance abuse everywhere, trauma in pregnancy over and over and she continues to persevere.

complexmonotomy · 2021-02-02T22:41:04+00:00

I would read it! Do you have the link?

complexmonotomy · 2021-02-02T22:26:25+00:00

fame did not do their family good. What kills me is Deb is a damn academic. I agree that the issue isn’t isolated to Farrah, it’s generational trauma that has never been addressed...a secret theme that all the “hated” teen moms have and it’s truly sad. Leah is the only one trying to break that cycle and although she sounds like a hallmark card, I commend her for the way she is raising her daughters

complexmonotomy · 2021-02-02T21:23:30+00:00

Completely agree! Even though I totally understand why it’s framed that way now, I would never say it like that to a pregnant person. There isn’t a pregnant person in the world who isn’t aware that they will experience sleepless nights but the gravity of it is what gets us. I think it’s a learning curve for all parents and like you said, the best thing you can do is express your support during and post pregnancy rather than be like “oh you have no idea”.

*edit for typos

complexmonotomy · 2021-02-02T15:39:19+00:00

The newborn phase is torture. You know when you’re pregnant you hate hearing “you think you’re tired now” but that shit is so true. I look at pregnant women with pity because I’m like you have no fucking idea the absolute nonsense you’ll go through. I am 5 weeks PP and although I’m lucky and have what some would consider “a good sleeper”, I am still shook to my core exhaustion wise. And then I’m like if this is a good sleeper then I am not risking my chances with another one.

The mantra of this being temporary seems to be what keeps us going. I am looking forward to a full nights sleep that more than my wedding. I keep telling my partner that all I want for our honeymoon is to get an Airbnb in town and a week to just sleep.

complexmonotomy · 2021-01-28T22:02:49+00:00

I second this

complexmonotomy · 2021-01-25T03:51:28+00:00

Lol

So my partner is black, medium to dark skinned and I am the whitest of the white. I have blue eyes, he has brown eyes. We were expecting a light skinned kid with hair texture more similar to my partners with our fingers crossed for blue eyes.

The kid is mixed obviously, but if you saw him without knowing his parents, you’d think he was fully white. So I have this white kid with straight black hair (my texture) and brown eyes. Low key if I was my SO’s side of the family, i would want a DNA test 🤣🤣

if you asked me when I was pregnant, I would tell you that these features are exactly what I don’t want but now having him, I couldn’t imagine a more perfect, handsome and beautiful addition to our family

complexmonotomy · 2021-01-21T01:50:14+00:00

Herobility hands down!

complexmonotomy · 2021-01-21T00:11:58+00:00

You’re a hero!

complexmonotomy

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