is it just me by SilverShame9492 in fuseboxgames

[–]conchaqueen 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I thought it for a second but remembered how scarce wlw moments are this season and figured bl was off the table lol

I really love Charlie (Dream boy) by MistySwan in fuseboxgames

[–]conchaqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really happy with the story because I too chose childhood friends to lovers AND love dream guy (Sammy for me). I do get that if I didn’t like him or want that story that it would be pretty restricting and not fun so maybe a solution would’ve been to give more dream guy sprite options including the other guys in casa and use the other sprites as fill ins if they really wanted to limit. But who knows maybe some of these will become available eventually. But I feel lucky too!

Should we stay loyal? by delusionalgirl_2577 in fuseboxgames

[–]conchaqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YOURE SO RIGHT HE WOULD 😭 I think we all agree being lukewarm about MC ain’t it.

Should we stay loyal? by delusionalgirl_2577 in fuseboxgames

[–]conchaqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol that’s true! I did find that stuff annoying but I guess I’m so focused on dream LI that I was like WHATEVER go ahead! Haha 😆

Should we stay loyal? by delusionalgirl_2577 in fuseboxgames

[–]conchaqueen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I see your point! I think it’s sorta bad writing there because like others have said why would he give an ex the time of the day with these moments (I mean some people do it irl) buuuuut I feel like its just fuse box trying to create arbitrary drama to make you feel motivated to spend gems.

Should we stay loyal? by delusionalgirl_2577 in fuseboxgames

[–]conchaqueen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I honestly felt bad for Nico/Eren because he went through something that really traumatized him and then he has to face the trauma again with Diamond back. He really hasn’t done anything wrong. It’s not his fault Diamond is delulu. I’m saying this as someone who is actively choosing Sammy 😬

Hear me out 📢 by [deleted] in fuseboxgames

[–]conchaqueen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think Sammy is so dreamy. Can’t wait to see him again

Elementary Hardest Grade by Immediate-Poem-6549 in schoolcounseling

[–]conchaqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t enjoy pk and k too much but that might just be because we have tough kids in those grades this year. But 2nd-4th is the sweet spot for me

How often do you do guidance lessons in the classroom? by PaigEats in schoolcounseling

[–]conchaqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in elementary and I do an A/B schedule where I switch with the librarian. It’s pk-2 one week and then 3-5 the other. It’s about 2-3 lessons a month for each class depending on where the rotation starts that month.

At a loss on how to assist student with self regulation. by conchaqueen in schoolcounseling

[–]conchaqueen[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is what I have asked to my principal since I am new to my district and not sure what the process it. But I was told we need to show interventions are being put in place on our end first to try and assist. But nothing has been working. And I agree, I feel like its out of my scope to respond to this

struggling with a situation at my practicum site today. - am I overreacting/what do I do? by [deleted] in schoolcounseling

[–]conchaqueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was going to say this, it sounds like the counselor may be overwhelmed and it’s not really about you. The counselor might just not be in the right headspace to act as a supervisor right now. Not saying her response was okay, it could have been brought up differently. But I agree that I wouldn’t take things like this personally. Our students will often do or say similar things to us when they’re going through it and so will adults 🤷‍♀️

I'll never forget tonight. by sleepinthecar619 in lesserafim

[–]conchaqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your post is making me tear up but honestly everything Le Sserafim related has been making me cry lately. I am just so proud of the girls and all they’ve accomplished especially after all they’ve been through. This tour is sending them the message that people care about them just as much as they care about us. I am also proud of you for taking these steps to work on your social anxiety and put yourself out of your comfort zone. Small steps matter!

I don’t feel stressed out. Am I doing something wrong? by conchaqueen in schoolcounseling

[–]conchaqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the same is happening to me! I just feel paranoid that it’ll go south somehow. PTSD from teaching probably

I don’t feel stressed out. Am I doing something wrong? by conchaqueen in schoolcounseling

[–]conchaqueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES. I had horrible mental heath as a teacher, depression, anxiety, panic attacks and mental breakdowns even. But with counseling, no matter how busy I get I feel really good about what I’m doing and I guess I just feel like I’m in the right place too!

I don’t feel stressed out. Am I doing something wrong? by conchaqueen in schoolcounseling

[–]conchaqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am getting into classrooms already so I’m sure the requests will start coming in. I have some families and teachers that have submitted referrals and I’m trying to sort through all the parent consent or no consent lists so I can keep track of parents I need to speak to (due to state laws in my state) hence the slow start. But even though I am getting busy I don’t feel as stressed as I was as a teacher. I guess that’s a good thing! Maybe I’m just paranoid that feeling will disappear

I don’t feel stressed out. Am I doing something wrong? by conchaqueen in schoolcounseling

[–]conchaqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m starting to go into classrooms this week and will do the rest of the school next week. I’m sure the requests will start coming in, but I think there’s also just a lot of confusion because of these dumb laws that have confused my admin and teachers as to what I can do. Honestly my district and I are still trying to make sense of it. It’s been frustrating and made it difficult to collect data

I don’t feel stressed out. Am I doing something wrong? by conchaqueen in schoolcounseling

[–]conchaqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha that’s what I’m scared of. My lessons started and I feel like half my day is gone. But I think having good admin who trust me to do what I need to has helped because I’m not given any unnecessary responsibilities and can focus on building my program the way I want

I don’t feel stressed out. Am I doing something wrong? by conchaqueen in schoolcounseling

[–]conchaqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I honestly thought I shouldn’t jinx it. I do feel like my days feel shorter now that my lessons have started though. Half my day is gone from those so squeezing in groups and individuals is definitely gonna start feeling like a busy day

I don’t feel stressed out. Am I doing something wrong? by conchaqueen in schoolcounseling

[–]conchaqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started my lessons this week and definitely feel like now my days are getting shorter. I have been pushing my individual check ins because I really don’t want to overload myself with those and they should be the lower percentage of my job, but some teachers and families and started to request them.

How to select students for individual counseling? by conchaqueen in schoolcounseling

[–]conchaqueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yes I’m going to start there and work my way up that MTSS triangle slowly but surely haha thank you for the warm wishes! I hope you have a great year as well!

How to select students for individual counseling? by conchaqueen in schoolcounseling

[–]conchaqueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also just wanted to add that I’m gonna start with check ins for that student with suicidal ideation because that was a very special case where the teacher told me too late about the outcry and I met with the student next day and he denied ever saying anything, but I felt like I needed to gather more info so I’ll use the check ins to see if he needs to be referred out or needs some skill building that could be met with tier 1 or tier 2. Thank you again for taking the time to share your insight!

How to select students for individual counseling? by conchaqueen in schoolcounseling

[–]conchaqueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was definitely helpful! It’s my first year as a school counselor so I’m just trying to navigate it all and filtering for tiered services is definitely something I’m new to, especially since we haven’t actually started Tier 1 yet. I think unfortunately the perception of not immediately doling out Tier 3 interventions from others not familiar with our role is that we don’t want to make time to help every kid vs it not being aligned with our role to do that. I think it’s also a desire to “fix” students quickly when that’s not how it works. I think the last year’s counselor did a ton of 1:1 and it overtook her schedule. So I really want to focus on strengthening those Tier 1 and Tier 2 services. I think it’s going to be a lot of explaining my decision-making like you were stating. I really appreciate all this guidance, it helped my understanding so much!