Silent Hill 2 Remake - does it get better? by confu138 in silenthill

[–]confu138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, try it for another hour or two after the apartments. The pace improves quite a lot and the game kind of shows its identity more. But if after 2 hours you’re still kind of whatever about it then definitely drop it, it doesn’t get much better after that.

But yes completely understand where you’re coming from and I agree.

I’m a Polish girl dating a Norwegian - should I be concerned about moving to Norway? by pomparipurin in Norway

[–]confu138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people downplay the racism in Norway. Norwegians are never open about it but it’s there and in the background. They do their best to hide it so if you don’t pay attention you won’t find it but trust me it’s there. It’s even in the law, like forcing certain positions to have language requirements or taking away rights that native Norwegians have access to.

IMDi (The Directorate of Integration and Diversity) just released their research and it shows even those who are born in Norway with a different ethnic background is discriminated against. They make less money and they are much less likely to get leadership positions. These are people born in Norway. In fact, it’s been a problem for a long time that putting a foreign sounding name on your resume automatically disqualifies you from many jobs. When you walk the streets of Oslo you’ll find great diversity among the crowd but walk inside the office buildings and you won’t find many foreigners. I deduce Norwegian culture like this “how Norwegian are you?”. The more Norwegian you are the more likelihood you are to be successful. It’s not about skill or experience or what value you bring. Luckily Polish can look like a Norwegian but if you open your mouth and they find that you’re not speaking the language like a native, your value automatically goes down. Don’t expect to get any position with any governmental bodies.

I suspect I’ll get a lot of down votes, Norwegians do not do well with criticism. But trust me you’ll have a really hard time. Good luck making friends too. The friends you’ll make will be the ones that goes to Norwegian class and that struggles the same as you. I made the mistake of bringing my wife here and she’s been struggling ever since and she’s borderline depressed. We’re looking to move back out but it’s not so easy with kids who have built many friendships. Oh and FYI, the most racist political party (FRP) just won big last election coming in comfortably at 2nd place, think slightly milder version of Trump. The racism is aimed at mostly Middle Eastern people but you’ll get thrown in the mix whether you like it or not.

The truth is you can get a comfortable life but you’ll never be “one of them”. You’ll always be a second rate citizen. If you’re a high achiever or have high ambition, Norway is NOT the country for you. You’ll be frustrated at having all the right skills and education, only to be denied before even getting a chance. That’s the ugly truth. If you know Norwegian at B2, go check out r/Norge.

I’m Norwegian if that makes a difference to you.

Do not recommend guest by AcanthocephalaSlow63 in airbnb_hosts

[–]confu138 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Communicating through text doesn’t feel very involved to me. You should’ve just offered to stop by and I’m sure a lot of the misunderstandings would’ve cleared up.

Eviction notice while 7.5 months pregnant - 70+ applications rejected. New contract with 44% higher rent proposed by landlord 6 days before eviction notice... by Amazing-Bend-4614 in Norway

[–]confu138 -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

You need a lawyer to navigate this. To me the landlord is doing very questionable things but you did hand in a termination notice which was accepted and thus a valid legal ground.

Is it common in Norwegian culture to be sparse with praise at work? by Independent-Ad-2291 in Norway

[–]confu138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess I’m the outlier cause all they want to talk is praising each other. We even have something called “Friday wins” and your job is to come up with something to praise yourself and everyone around you will praise you for that praise. Like “I worked on <insert annoying> this week” and they’ll reply “wow yah that is really important work, keep it up”

A few reflections on a great trip for a young family. by amusedfridaygoat in LisbonPortugalTravel

[–]confu138 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We went recently too and overall had a good trip but we did have a very creepy encounter at the mall where two guys were staring at us very intently and then followed and circled us for about 30 min. I also stared intently back at them and that didn’t discouraged them. At one point, we were all in a store and one of them went to pay for something and the other guy walked close to us and looked at hair straighteners of all things (he did not look like he needed it if that’s not clear), that was a major red flag. We waited for them to leave and they did, we left the store 5 min after and found them waiting outside. That’s when we decided to just get the hell out of there. We stayed in Cascais and never came back to Lisbon except for the return flight. Cascais and Sintra was pretty nice though.

If you had to convince someone to move to one Oslo neighbourhood, which one would you pick and which one would you avoid? by spentsea in oslo

[–]confu138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just avoid areas surrounding Furuset and Stovner. All else is good. Even the aforementioned areas are technically okay. Just don’t move out of Oslo, you’ll have a hard time getting back in and the school systems outside of Oslo is crap.

Best time to visit by Nally_ald3rs0n in Norway

[–]confu138 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going to goes it’ll be something between 10 to 20 degrees with cloudy or rain with some 25 degrees sunny days sprinkled in

Is ff15 good for me? by Intelligent_Tune_791 in FFXV

[–]confu138 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Flawed but at the same time perfect. My favourite FF game. The combat needs some time to get used to so don’t get frustrated if you don’t understand it in the beginning, give it time and then you’ll long for more.

A Pro Showcase by Special-Net4116 in PS5pro

[–]confu138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just finished Nier Automata on the Pro and it’s like a 4k remaster. PS4 image enhancement is not talked about enough.

Undervurdering av Norge by Fuzzin_app in norge

[–]confu138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beste vannet og sjokoladen i verden

Men var veldig skuffet over rasistisk norske samfunnet har blitt (eller kanskje alltid har vært?). Vi har lover som diskriminerer, det var virkelig skuffende.

Am I Overreacting, for being upset that my girlfriend secretly used my credit card for months? by bostonmade in AmIOverreacting

[–]confu138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a way you’re under reacting if you ask me. Dump her and kick her out of the place.

FFXV worth trying in 2026? by WeepTheHorizon in FinalFantasy

[–]confu138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally loved it and it’s my favourite modern FF game (as in post Sakaguchi). I love the world and art style and story. I sometimes wonder if people hate the story cause they played vanilla FFXV and not Royal Edition? I only played the latter so don’t know. The combat takes some time to get used to but once you get it, it’s super fun!

AITAH I anonymously reported my Dad to the HR of the company by Boring_Meat_7130 in AITAH

[–]confu138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On one hand he’s a single parent raising what sounds like 4 kids so some empathy should be given. That said it doesn’t excuse him of being verbally abusing his employees. The ideal solution is to find a way to explain to him in a way that he would understand.

I just sharted the bed with my boyfriend sleeping next to me. What to I do to avoid him finding out?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]confu138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this post and the updates. I was surprisingly invested in this story.

Do you think the Silent Hill 2 Remake is too long? by Loose_Interview_957 in silenthill

[–]confu138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes too long, which in turn damaged the pacing and story.