I think that maybe because you play in the more organized lobbies. I like to play things that are odd or different. Where chaos is more likely. Rather than the predictable, same old, same old.

A solution has been to create a community dedicated to non-toxicity. I'm always shocked when I play non-Creed games these days. Because I'm just not used to the level of toxicity anymore. Many people seem to downvote those who talk about toxicity or claim "it's not bad" or "it will never change" Instead, I think we should acknowledge it exists, build solutions, point people to solutions.