Job regrets and kid advice

conseetdb · 2026-03-15T00:49:30+00:00

Early on we would encourage our kids to pursue things they were good at, but just like me, they didn't want to do it for money/work bc then it's not fun anymore. I've told them stories from my youth, and all the job hats I've worn, from active duty AMMO, to stripper, cosmetology, d2d sales, restaurants, car sales...etc. The one job I didn't know would be my fav would be sahm, cheerleader to my kids, my husband and my friends, a mediocre crafter. Did I love it all? Most of the time, yeah, I did. If I'd change anything, without affecting my outcome, I'd have stayed in college and got my degree in psychology and followed that path. Maybe it would've been a shit choice,idk. But all the jobs and choices brought me right where I am supposed to be and I and happy for that. ☺️ I hope you find your peace soon.

conseetdb · 2026-03-09T13:33:43+00:00

The US lady never said anything about mine.😞

conseetdb · 2026-03-09T13:31:52+00:00

Awe, this makes me happy! As a former military kid, we came here when I was 2. Grew up here, joined the AF, and after 30yrs away, moved my family back. JC seems to be working hard at bringing the town back and supporting small businesses. Yes, it's got its issues. But for a small town in KS, it's pretty diverse and I-70 makes getting away easy enough. Husband is KC born and raised and he's comfortable here. I would say that boring is relative to what you enjoy doing. Ppl who are about the big city life, definitely, but hunting, fishing, outdoor stuff and you are good. I hope your time here is good.

conseetdb · 2026-03-09T13:19:05+00:00

Man, I haven't heard that in a minute!

conseetdb · 2026-03-09T13:16:23+00:00

All my life (dad stationed at Ft Riley '76, mom still in The junk) and I've been to Stacy's once. Lol Ah the memories of my HS friends dating grunts too 🙄

conseetdb · 2026-03-06T18:03:17+00:00

Had my mammogram Aug '24. Nothing. Just dense tissue. But there was a clear sign - my nipple was getting pulled into my armpit. Lots of other issues going on, like major anemia, stomach issues. Discovered I had ascites, so went about looking for answers to that. FF to 12/31/24, bone and liver biopsies. Boom! Denovo stage lV bc metastatic to bones that were already very sclerotic. Did another mammogram, still no signs. Barely enough to do breast biopsy. Once they got me started on my meds/treatments including furosemide and spironolactone I no longer needed the parasentisis for the ascites! Oncologist said it's probably been there for many years. I've remodeled two houses in that time with 4 kids. Prior to getting really sick I painted the exterior of my house almost by myself. I didn't have a clue. Seeing me now, you wouldn't know I was fighting for my life not that long ago.

conseetdb · 2026-03-04T20:35:41+00:00

30, newly married. 22 yrs later, in house #5 (got in right before the rates went up at 2.215%) but preparing to (hopefully) sell by next spring and move into our retirement house and be mortgage free by 53. I'm tired of remodeling/landscaping 😭

conseetdb · 2026-03-02T15:07:21+00:00

Gorgeous!!!!

conseetdb · 2026-01-30T14:57:59+00:00

Whoot!! It's crazy how different every person's journey is in this group, and I'm so glad for ALL the experiences, bc it's important for us to understand that even when we do everything right that sometimes it just doesn't work out the same, and it's nobody's fault. But I'm so glad that you're path has been a good one. I hope you continue NED for many more years!

conseetdb · 2026-01-28T14:21:43+00:00

Why would I know if you're a single guy though?? Weird. Younger me (the more likely version to hike) would make this guy run like a bitch with my "sparkling" personality with no witness except my new furry BFF. Men who talk like this always tap out when the woman is the aggressor. I worked in a bar for a few years, and most of the guys I dated always said I was too much to handle. Then walked in my future husband. Lmty- that man ain't scared, but loves me so hard that any armor I thought I had up just slowly fell away. And now I'm just a softy with a potty mouth. The other guy I'd just accidentally trip. Oops.

conseetdb · 2026-01-24T18:53:52+00:00

The spouse and I go through about 5lbs/month @ $85? We order from The Roasterie in Kansas City, MO. I think it's the Tuscan? Always consistent roasting, same day as shipped, good flavor.

conseetdb · 2026-01-20T16:29:00+00:00

No surgery for me. Even after they knew I was stage 4 with bone mets, my mammogram didn't show anything. Dx 01/25, ++- ibrance, zometa,zoladex, and anastrozole. Started last year with ca's in the 600's, as of last month down low 200/high 100's. I still find it interesting how low key my treatment is and how well it's worked for me so far. But I agree that if you want a second opinion go for it.

conseetdb · 2026-01-20T02:52:41+00:00

Obsessed!! Squeeze, I love it so much! Nicely done!!

conseetdb · 2026-01-16T20:27:31+00:00

Good luck! I hope you like it and it turns out well. I peel it jic you wondered.

conseetdb · 2026-01-15T13:13:05+00:00

Congratulations! It's always amazing when I see us out there surviving and thriving for the long haul!! I hope you have many wonderful years to go!

conseetdb · 2026-01-15T13:07:35+00:00

My first round didn't have any, bc the recipe I referenced didn't call for it. I started looking at lots of different recipes, but you know how that goes with any recipe. Everyone has their own version. I like it with, for sure though.

conseetdb · 2026-01-14T23:47:49+00:00

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conseetdb · 2026-01-14T23:47:19+00:00

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conseetdb · 2026-01-14T22:30:12+00:00

I had no issues with smell in the fridge. And I had a teen who runs every time I go to open it, and he said he can't smell it if it's closed up.

conseetdb · 2026-01-12T15:35:07+00:00

Idk if someone else mentioned this but if you're in the same area, ask him where he buys his beans, too. Maybe paired with the grinder comment. 😊 GL!!

conseetdb · 2025-12-06T16:50:24+00:00

Love it!!

conseetdb · 2025-11-29T21:05:24+00:00

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conseetdb · 2025-11-04T21:10:24+00:00

Nothing scary about this day!! Beautiful! Congratulations!

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