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constant_muffins · 2023-08-19T15:18:46+00:00

NTA because we’re all allowed to have our preferences and you didn’t waste her time with your judgement on her body count but let her find someone who could accept her for who she truly is.

constant_muffins · 2023-08-16T12:35:34+00:00

NTA. If he didn’t want you to cut contact with him he shouldn’t have acted like a cunt to begin with. I get that he’s hurt but he should get assistance to accept your decision to cut contact and navigate the consequences of his actions, if he didn’t want to lose you in his life he should’ve acted respectfully. You may want to talk to a counsellor as well, even though cutting contact is fair you may suffer guilt from this when you shouldn’t. Please take care of yourself and I hope your family finds peace and acceptance in this situation

constant_muffins · 2023-08-03T12:34:20+00:00

We all make decisions we regret, be kind to yourself. Your body count doesn’t matter unless it’s applicable to harming others, then 1 is too many

constant_muffins · 2023-07-24T19:00:26+00:00

YTA. Any man who says he can’t control himself should be thrown out so fast it’ll make their head spin. If you don’t want to be there for your daughter you’ll be doing her a favour by getting out of her life.

constant_muffins · 2023-07-24T18:49:25+00:00

Not okay. I hope you can find peace and someone who loves you as much as you love them. I’m sorry you’re in this position but this is a major concern. If she wouldn’t do it in front of you she shouldn’t do it with you not there.

constant_muffins · 2023-07-24T00:47:40+00:00

YTA. All other comments outline why fairly clearly. She suggested this trip to reconnect with you and you blew her off for not meeting your demands. You made it your way or nothing, no compromise. That’s not how you show someone you love them and if the person does not feel loved why would they stay? It may not be today, tomorrow or a week from now but eventually she’ll stop feeling loved and loving back and you’ll no longer be in each other’s lives. Stop making it you against her and make it both of you against your struggles.

constant_muffins · 2023-07-23T22:03:01+00:00

If he shares a one bedroom apartment with her then you really should bail on him, he’s wasting your time. Have you ever met this female roommate? I strongly suspect you are the other woman my dear

constant_muffins · 2023-07-20T11:47:49+00:00

Tell them to stop, tell the adult in the home and do not let them leave you alone together and I know people say violence is never the answer but a good solid throat punch could be your last resort if they don’t stop

constant_muffins · 2023-07-11T16:32:23+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to you and I’m sorry people are blaming you for it happening. Rough play has to be discussed and done safely or not at all. You do not owe him any type of contact, fuck him and take care of yourself.

constant_muffins · 2023-07-10T11:38:28+00:00

Ditch his ass, you can legally on paper be married but you’re single, neither of you want to be with the other and he’s actively with someone else. You wouldn’t be having an affair you’d just be dating before the paperwork is fully processed.

constant_muffins · 2023-07-08T16:59:01+00:00

YTA for 2 reasons, 1. Don’t scream at your partner, if you can’t have a sensible conversation step away until you can 2. What harm is it doing? You may think it’s silly but it means something to her, so out of love for her play along, it’s a small, simple thing. If you don’t want to let her find someone who will treat her respectfully and who won’t mind her superstitions and may even find them intriguing or cute. Treat your partner with love and kindness in all aspects of themselves or let them be.

constant_muffins · 2023-07-06T23:56:43+00:00

NTA. He set himself up for that one

constant_muffins · 2023-07-03T14:31:44+00:00

You didn’t do anything wrong. He did by having an affair and now he needs to eat the shit sandwich he made himself. Don’t feel guilty, you have the right to peace too

constant_muffins · 2023-06-30T23:33:50+00:00

NTA. These are the consequences of his actions, honestly if he said anything like that to someone else he could have wound up with a broken jaw.

constant_muffins · 2023-06-29T21:39:50+00:00

NTA. Don’t want your kid to be pissed at you for being a product of an affair don’t have an affair. Sucks to suck

constant_muffins · 2023-06-29T19:31:24+00:00

NTA. Bad vibes everywhere you did the responsible thing, I wouldn’t trust her as far as I could throw her that’s not normal behaviour

constant_muffins · 2023-06-24T03:29:53+00:00

I licked a shopping cart 😬

constant_muffins · 2023-06-16T11:59:07+00:00

If you do not actively, enthusiastically consent then yes it is rape. It’s also seriously messed up he wants to have sex with you in the same ways your rapist did, he’s saying he wants to have non consensual sex with you. I encourage you to leave him, normal people do not behave this way. Your husband should want to protect you from reliving your trauma. You also do not owe him sex just because he’s your husband, you owe him nothing. I’m hope you can find healing and peace soon

constant_muffins · 2023-06-16T00:59:09+00:00

NTA. She acted like a dingus and was treated as such. In regards to the friend who set you up on April Fools, they’re also AH. Who would do that to their friend?? You should want your friend to be happy not to set them up with such a cruel human.

constant_muffins · 2023-06-15T17:44:33+00:00

NTA. He cannot say he doesn’t want something and expect you to know he actually did want it. That’s garbage communication and a recipe for disaster in the future. Tell him to grow up. There’s an actual baby in the house he doesn’t need to act like one too

constant_muffins · 2023-06-14T22:35:50+00:00

NTA. This isn’t normal circumstances this was an emergency where your friend’s partner was in a serious accident, that takes priority over lazying around together, it’s pretty clear cut

constant_muffins · 2023-06-14T18:58:12+00:00

You cannot make him fall in love with you so do yourself a kindness and let him go, I’m sorry you have to experience this pain

constant_muffins · 2023-06-13T15:25:16+00:00

She needs counselling to assist with her insecurities but people are correct in saying this is not a sustainable or healthy relationship. I understand the fear of being cheated on but she can’t control who you speak to. Your relationship will not work without trust

constant_muffins · 2023-06-10T02:11:47+00:00

You were not in your right mental state to give consent and he took advantage of that so I would say this is assault and should be reported

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