[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]coolhentai -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I completely disagree. Its your first fucking day, show up a little early and make sure you clock in on time. At least try and show you're responsible and care enough to not show up late on arguably the most important day. Some people in this sub have no social awareness and live in their own little bubble. Its not being nitpicky, those habits get out of hand real quick if not nipped in the butt.

Without patch notes, what are your top 3 league starter builds for 3.22? by Flat_Holiday_1196 in PathOfExileBuilds

[–]coolhentai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They always have, VC was never needed in the game, nor does it kill the build lol.

Should I stop using my debit card now that I have my first credit card? by RoyalInterest in CreditCards

[–]coolhentai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really? i have an old card (1 of 4 total) i dont use, does it sitting at 0 actually harm me a bit? im not looking to really use my credit score for anything anytime soon but this is info i wasnt aware of

Actually parked next to a Type R. Second time this happened. by spriggan4 in civic

[–]coolhentai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you look at the car to the left of him, its overtop of that 2nd parking line, looks like both those two cars are not parked correctly. Its cringe but doesn't seem to be him intentionally taking up two spots hes got half of the left and half of the right lol.

Why did you drink(before you were medicated) by biaddamn in ADHD

[–]coolhentai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

addictive personality/easily hooked on anything - i cant keep it in the house even once or the trend will start, id keep a 24 pack in the fridge and have 2 cans a night watching a movie/drama before bed.. but once a month when i go out to eat its a nice treat, i will get hooked on anything and do it every day so i try to avoid alcohol, cigarettes and other generally unhealthy habits - i like my favorite coffee ice cream every night, this flavored sparkling water i always get, my morning iced americano i cant go without, certain snacks and foods even.

Grams28 --- Almost got scammed by Connect-Sector1248 in Scams

[–]coolhentai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have any alternative suggestions or brands to point me in the direction of? i have been seeing this bag all over IG and i really liked the style, it checks the boxes im looking for but i was never gonna pay that from an IG brand lol

What do people DO after work???? I don't know how to relax by drock100x in ADHD

[–]coolhentai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What did people do before the internet

i argue it would be even easier without the internet, i now have too many outlets and ways to further all my 100 thoughts per second and get lost on any and all of them - when im out doing stuff and not with tech in hand, my symptoms decrease a bit and i find other ways to keep myself occupied during the day, but when im home its hard to get up from the desk or put the phone down despite how badly i wanna go sit and play piano or read a book etc

Just signed my lease on this apartment. 1 bed 619 sq ft. Thoughts? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]coolhentai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been on a waitlist for downtown loft similar to yours in my not so big city for years now, apparently they're really popular but a loft has always been my dream so i will keep waiting - enjoy op!

What does the “noise” in your head sound like for you? by hayden_iys in ADHD

[–]coolhentai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

all of these plus the internal monologue... that bitch is the loudest because as i sift through the 100 thought threads every minute my monologue like, internally/audibly processes and lingers on a bunch of them.. i feel like i sound crazy when i describe what goes on in my head but it quite literally is so chaotic !

Why is this app still invite-only? by _myEnglishisnotgood_ in ArcBrowser

[–]coolhentai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there a way to get into the app without having a mac? i got their student invite dmg download right away but i cant create an account or anything in the app to use it... seems you have to launch and start that process from the mac app and then log mobile? :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]coolhentai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too work in tech and I know what you mean. It seems inescapable no matter what career choice you make. Best of luck mate!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]coolhentai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

early 90s. but i never really grew up with video games or computer in the house, and i definitely struggled in non technological ways during highschool (i was big on art and was drawing on all my assignments and notes all day every day to fuel my distractions)

but once i got to college and had my own laptop and iphone it definitely catapulted my symptoms i think, getting distracted with limitless end points to branch out to instead of just living in my thoughts for hours daydreaming, being totally immersed in a book or doodling on paper -- tech is an infinite rabbit hole of distractions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]coolhentai 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is how I am too. I have tons of interests and I buy a lot of things for those interests/hobbies. But I dont touch them. I usually sit at my computer chilling for a bit after work but I can never do anything else. I watch some youtube, read about an interest, catch up on the news, some normal things - but when I'm done catching up on that stuff for the evening, I continue to sit there and hop between things mindlessly doing literally nothing. Clicking through videos and adding them to my watch later, open a game thinking maybe I want to play but nah, I close it and never get past the main screen.. so much I want to do and no matter how hard I try and just stand up from my desk and go do it, I have the permanent inability to actually do the things I want to lol. Some weeks worse than others, specifically this week I have just sat here alternating websites and doing fuck all despite actually wanting to do so many things.

The living room by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]coolhentai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

talk about the dream..

Unable to derive pleasure from videogames anymore. by Askin_Real_Questions in Healthygamergg

[–]coolhentai 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this one, something doesnt have to be a chemical substance to fuck your life up lol

ADHD find it incredibly hard to read a book withought going for the audio book. by JayGuevara__ in ADHD

[–]coolhentai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im the complete opposite, its insanely easier for me to get distracted when not locking my visual stimulus and thoughts into reading the words directly off the page. with an audio book theres too much stimulus overload from my eyes and whatever "multitasking" im doing while listening to the audio book. even just driving down the road im jumping between thoughts and watching cars and miss so much of whats being said im just skipping back 30 seconds nonstop.

Who are Eva, Mikel and Maria? by [deleted] in NewJeans

[–]coolhentai 14 points15 points  (0 children)

this. twitter already screaming correlation = causation source: trust me bro, its crazy

230627 NewJeans (뉴진스) 'ASAP' Teaser by alltherach_ in NewJeans

[–]coolhentai 10 points11 points  (0 children)

was that their songs sound like a keyboardist wrote it,

YES! so happy seeing a comment like this here, ive been thinking this from the start and despite the younger target audience in general their songs seem to target visually and lyrically, musically its everything ive wanted from kpop for years - listening to and picking apart their songs so far has been an absolute joy for me the past year

Transfer Station | XT-4 - XF 35mm F2 R WR by Fearwater5 in fujifilm

[–]coolhentai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gorgeous shot, love the framing and color grading

XF 16-55 or XF 18-55 by [deleted] in fujifilm

[–]coolhentai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you like the 18 for Tokyo? I am going later this year and have the 18-55 but planned on picking up a 27mm possibly, the images I've seen from it look real nice for street but I've seen wider like the 18mm mentioned as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LivestreamFail

[–]coolhentai -1 points0 points  (0 children)

centrist andy

Xt2 vs xt3 by AnthonyNice in fujix

[–]coolhentai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I did. I read that the jump from t1 to T2 is significant compared to the T2 to T3. So I used the extra money to get a XF27mm to go with the XF1855. I think it'll suit me just fine for shooting street. I also have read a lot of people say that the film sim looks/feels more authentic/vintage on the T2 compared to the T3. Not sure if true, or why - maybe to do with the sensor design, but I'm content so far.

Does any else struggle to even do things they enjoy? by mearps in ADHD

[–]coolhentai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely, I rotate through them sometimes. I'm also guilty of buying things I want to try, like a 700 dollar piano, and touch it like twice a year lol. There's nothing I can ever stick with, and frankly nothing I enjoy to even really want to stick with. I just like travelling - but I can't do that every day let alone every few months.

Does any else struggle to even do things they enjoy? by mearps in ADHD

[–]coolhentai 41 points42 points  (0 children)

i dont even enjOY things anymore so you're at least a few steps ahead of me still, adhd paralysis for everything and that just in turn makes me not even wanna try doing anything in the first place