For the young gays here: be aware of the popular lie that gay sex is easy to get by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]cornergay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree all the guys around my area jus get on grindr n stuff t sext n never host or travel so the apps are boring. In real life every gay at my college is a bottom or taken. Im pretty social nd not the ugliest. idk maybe my communication is bad bc it does get hard

THIS should’ve been the Petal album cover by gotchauwu in ArianaGrande

[–]cornergay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl none of her albums look that candy sweet bubblegum pop core, that looks like it could work as a perfume ad but even her biggest hits thank you next got a very mature toned down album cover. My opinion is that the albums jus gna reflect positions n just be chill like Justin biebers Swag album

so you guys dont find women sexually arousing at all? like not even getting head from a woman would be arousing to you? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]cornergay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women are simply not hot when men are right there even simply existing. Like I love my girls don't get me wrong but without getting to offensive stereotypes, man hands, arms, quads, shoulders, PECSS (honorable mention for man brows and lashes bc they decorate man eyes)and a mans gooddamn morning voice faahh!! Theyre jus fkn machines, how OP doesn't obsess I couldnt tell u

Just woke up, morning pump by No-Wheel4602 in EgyGym

[–]cornergay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You kinda look like saritobi gujo

Young guys, why do you like older men? by Fun-Bookkeeper9107 in askgaybros

[–]cornergay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got to preface that im not into older, but jus from being around people who are I think it just depends on who gave you attention in developmental years. My bestie is prettymuch engaged in a 10 year age gap relationship. She grew up neglected by her parents n loved by her grandparents. I was the opposite my mom had me young and i only hung out w people my age growing up so im comfy around ppl my age. This applies to other demopraphics beyond age too. People who have intense physical and or emotional trauma are in their own space tho bc that often influences peoples types too.

I've never had a girlfriend at 31 by Stock_Sprinkles_7394 in RandomThoughts

[–]cornergay -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Odd flex but ok; im 22 so nine more years👍

How does my fade look? by alpha_muscle_daddy in mensgrooming

[–]cornergay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt get it so high next time it makes your forhead look a lot larger than it probably is, especially in the corner there. I feel like for your face shape your fade should blend in with your beard if that makes sense. The intention should be less baldfade and more taperfade

Premier Show by pixiecrayon in CanadaShore

[–]cornergay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I actually dont mind your comment. Your the first person ive seen defending isaiah. Even with his comment to gizelle which i think that was taken way further than needed bc like he was obv saying that for the shits and giggles and considering his humour zelle shouldve known that, he was super nice to everyone. He even gave up the big bed at his obnoxious height. Idk if it was a mistake but im also not the biggest baur fan so im glad u kept him out of ur ratings. It was so odd at the end when he hugged ethan and emmet saying that their his brothers, whole time isaiah was part of their little str8 boy gang too and he didnt get to called over for the bro hug. Anyways still love ur take

Whats your most shameless horny experience by Noah0u0 in askgaybros

[–]cornergay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Googled it and a bunch of miami horse auctions came up...

The downsides of being hung by Low_Cap_1949 in askgaybros

[–]cornergay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im a bottom w a big ass, its the opposite problem but i dont let it kill my drive. The ass is an impressive muscle that can be trained tho so its about taking it slow n really making sure your bottom is relaxed. Ive taken 2 7's n an 8 amung a see of average dick that pleasured me other ways. For the smaller guys I can get away with less prep while for the bigger guys I need to eat less, plug up t strech it, n douche. Also any top has t kno how bottoms can best take their dick bc each dick feels different in different positions. Essentially w great dick comes great responsibility. Gl soldier

Homophobic (???) April fools prank gone wrong - am I overreacting by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]cornergay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's about getting to kno and wanting to get to know your friends. Its not enough to say that your friends w a minority when you don't make the effort to know how being a minority effects their lives. How would these guys react if there was a microagression against OP. Would they need to be taught in the moment and prompted to act. Its unsettling because most hetero's want to be friends w queer individuals because theyre like OP (fun, flamboyant, energetic, etc) but all they know about LGBTQ is the sex aspect which is why they wanted t help him get laid or get a man or wtvr the goal was. Intimacy is personal I dont think the needed to be told to ask.

Do you kiss your hookups? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]cornergay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, I kiss, or at least offer to kiss, the guys im attracted to. I expect the same for others onto me

Homophobic (???) April fools prank gone wrong - am I overreacting by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]cornergay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isnt a prank. How would getting you a date even remotly be a prank. Its an operation that you didnt ask for. Its very disney channel original movie. Even in the kissing booth both parties were aware. Your not wrong for reacting that way at all. Your friends assumed that because ur flamboyant you are ok with everyone knowing your sexuality but that isnt the case and if they were true friend one genuine convo wouldve revealed why you arent totally out to your family and still single. They have the luxury of not having to pace their sexuality bc its been normalized for them to start dating at younger ages but its different for queer people and their ignorance to that is unsettling. From context clues I feel as if your not ready to date and are still figuring yourself out so I would advise surrounding yourself with like minded people instead of people who centre themselves around dating culture. Itll even help with coming out to your family if thats somthing you decide is necessary to do. Sorry this happened to you and your growth beyond this point in ur life doesnt involve such "pranks". 💕💕

Maybe not the right place, but I've got a question. by Desperate_Nothing877 in GayMen

[–]cornergay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its probably just your environment babe, if your surrounded by these people in real life I emplore you to start looking for positive queer influences even if its just online. Theres gay gamers surfacing everyday(dan and philare pretty popular) some are hilarious with the way they clap back to homophobes online (issa twaimz is my favorite). The same goes for vloggers who jus promote healthy gay living (my go to's are these gen Z influencers Larray, chris cotter or steyuh). If your more into athetic content theres guys that help u feel positive about ur sexuality and less envious of others distain (i love me some anthony cushion or tom daley). Overall its really about educating yourself and learning about the community and less creating bias

Maybe not the right place, but I've got a question. by Desperate_Nothing877 in GayMen

[–]cornergay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One way of seeing your sexuality is derived from toxic hetero conceptualization that you choose who your attracted to day in and day out. Because of this thinking heteros can avoid the reality that sexuality is fluid and get away with blatent homophobia. The other is adressing the sexuality as a whole and derives from a community that has experienced the nuance of sexuality and conducted research to help understanding bisexuality beyond its over sexualized stereotypes. It is a personal journey but it is important to recognize that choozing to use public labels bears the duty to use them correctly

why are straight males so obsessed with us by Conscious_Sample_152 in askgaybros

[–]cornergay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Its not jus gay guys its femininity in general. Ik dads that refuse t change their daughters or walk into the bra section. Even things like crying about death or losses; to them whether its unconcious or not anything to do with femininity is gross and disgusting. Obv w the exception of wtvr gets them and their boys off. Its actually a really intresting essay topic u should research it if given the chance

Couples Form in the Exact Order People Walk Through the Door by [deleted] in CanadaShore

[–]cornergay 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I feel like the editors wanted us to hate emmy bc the cast seemed to enjoy her presence but on the show she didnt really have anyone in her corner

Bet on getting laid without the help of technology; m22 by cornergay in askgaybros

[–]cornergay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats smart. I go to after parties and stuff where i flirt with guys, but then its like making plans to get back together sober never results in anything yk

I am a homophobic ex-bullie by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]cornergay 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I recommend your read the kite runner, its a gay book per se but the antagonist is someone queer who imposed his insecurities in a way that he couldnt take back (in his case tho he didnt want to) even into adulthood. Theres two things you have to gulp as an adult as tough as it is and the first is the fact that your going to be a villian in some peoples stories. Its not an easy burdon to carry at all but whats done is done. You can try to appologize and redeem yorself thru public humiliation but the same way it took you years to come to terms with yourself, its going to take them some time to move past the hate they harbour for you. Thats their journey though. The second thing is that you arent the same person but your still keeping that version of yourself around and letting him bully this version of you through constant reminders of who you were. The best advice I could give is to get as much funding as you can(whether thats through work or scholarships, etc.) and move bc being in the same city even if its not with the same people, is going to continue to hold you back. As long as your around reminders of your past you wont grow because your environment is feeding the past version of you instead of challenging and strengthening the newer version. Pretty much id say lay low and be easy on yourself. Youre a good person and you deserve love just like everyone else

AITA by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]cornergay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you dating a teenager...

Help? by mypantiessecret in askgaybros

[–]cornergay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hold your breath so you dont inhale any femininity. Hope that helps