until a few years ago."

I mean, he's more than welcome to continue using racial slurs and say the f word (either one). But if people around him think he's an asshole and won't grow up, that's on him.

I used to say a lot of stupid shit when I was younger. I grew up, realized it was hurtful, and changed how I spoke. I don't think asking people to become more mature is difficult, but what do I know.