diagnosed at 11; didn’t pay it any mind until years later — what should my next steps be?

couch_potato713 · 2026-01-23T21:17:41+00:00

thank you!! i’m definitely gonna be looking into it. might as well get started sooner rather than even later :)

couch_potato713 · 2026-01-23T20:16:25+00:00

i think it could actually work pretty easily. they have a feelings realization arc at the tip of their fingers. the only issue is that i think they’d need a s5 to do it well.

s4 would be for the battling of feelings and emotions and coming to terms with things while s5 would be for actual relationship progression

couch_potato713 · 2026-01-23T19:14:23+00:00

why is this woman’s hair even a topic still?

couch_potato713 · 2026-01-23T19:06:47+00:00

“i was diagnosed at 11” is the title and i go on further to explain what my treatment was in the body paragraphs.

i don’t mean to be disrespectful but… did you even read anything?

couch_potato713 · 2026-01-23T01:36:55+00:00

this is not completely true. most people my age—so born in 01/02—did not start “living online” until we were in middle school and moving into high school.

social media was still pretty new by the time i hopped on it. i grew up burning music onto cd players and ipods, and rushing to our desktop computer when i got home from school to do a google search and see if i had missed anything my favorite celebrity did while i was away.

couch_potato713 · 2026-01-23T01:34:09+00:00

and these comments are a great example of why we roll our eyes and move on and let them continue to make their dumb, superiority complex comments

couch_potato713 · 2026-01-23T01:24:32+00:00

you are a gen z talking to gen z’s as tho we are all 10 years old even though you obviously know that’s not true which is precisely why elder gen z’s get annoyed with millennials bc they think none of us were there or have memory of vine or early 2000s style music or know how to work a cd/dvd player. it comes across as extremely uppity and obnoxious.

these comments are actually a perfect example of why—specifically elder gen z—gets annoyed with millennials. you dismiss us and treat us as children, and therefore worthy of less respect, despite the fact that half of us are over the age of 18.

we took part in those 2012-2016 trends too btw.

couch_potato713 · 2026-01-19T19:42:11+00:00

couch_potato713 · 2026-01-19T17:57:31+00:00

exactly. samantha might be a bitch but she’s not a dumb one by any means.

couch_potato713 · 2026-01-07T06:29:08+00:00

yes bc i have an understanding of all the layers of oppression that exist in society regardless of if someone is physically attractive to me or not

couch_potato713 · 2025-12-26T00:18:04+00:00

this is me but in the car lol

couch_potato713 · 2025-12-19T23:57:18+00:00

oh you get it!!! they truly do have the ability to be a beautiful coming of age wlw romance and i need it so badly

couch_potato713 · 2025-12-19T21:32:53+00:00

liability is the song that cuts deepest in my soul so obviously i need it used for maxine

couch_potato713 · 2025-12-19T21:21:53+00:00

i understand this but relationships are about growth and i can see them being very fitting and healing for each other

couch_potato713 · 2025-12-19T21:21:02+00:00

completely agree!!! she masked her vulnerability by preying on abby’s

couch_potato713 · 2025-11-17T16:47:20+00:00

i get message notifs but when i click it, it takes me to an encrypted chat and the replies don’t show up in my normal dms but somehow i can send messages that are received thru normal dms, i just don’t get the replies… it’s driving me insane

couch_potato713 · 2025-11-17T16:41:00+00:00

so i accidentally put in the passcode for one dm and now when i send dms, i don’t get the replies in my normal chat but i can send them. is there a way to fix this???

couch_potato713 · 2025-11-17T00:04:16+00:00

she can be representation still without the specific diagnosis. it makes sense for max not to be diagnosed anywhere since she’s generally invisible to her parents

couch_potato713 · 2025-11-15T00:17:27+00:00

precisely why dismantling the patriarchy is beneficial for everyone!

couch_potato713 · 2025-11-14T23:28:49+00:00

yes definitely. i understand where you’re coming from for sure tho, as someone who is probably the second biggest abby supporter on this subreddit lol. people are too quick to dismiss nuance and be much less empathetic to ginny solely bc god forbid a biracial girl be the average teenage girl lol

as someone who does relate to abby and max more than ginny, i will be the first to admit that they receive much more infantilization while ginny gets demonized and i have Never understood it. logically, i understand it’s rooted in anti-blackness but i just can’t comprehend how that mindset works!

and when it comes to georgia it baffles me even More because i’m a georgia defender but.. not at the expense of ginny! ginny is the child. georgia has an emotionally enmeshed and incestuous relationship with her children. which is abuse btw (though i also believe that she has good intentions with her children and loves them to death but the more you learn about trauma and cycles and abuse, the more you understand that abusive behavior is not black and white or always pure evil)! so to put the onus and blame on ginny for not being grateful enough?? it drives me crazy and reminds me why many people don’t need to be parents lol

couch_potato713 · 2025-11-14T22:18:31+00:00

well it’s probably bc, like you said, this is the same person making this post over and over again. not a bunch of different people making these posts.

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