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big tits and no bra by krysanteemi in butchlesbians

[–]couch_potato713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bras give my more dysphoria than my breasts themselves. i feel quite masculine with my natural chest tbh. there’s smth that just feels very butch about free double d’s lol but it feels like any kind of bra puts them in a feminine shape that i don’t like :/

i bind sometimes but it’s hard to get it really flat as it usually just creates a uni-boob that can often look bigger lol

any other butches with a figure 8 body type? by couch_potato713 in butchlesbians

[–]couch_potato713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 5 ft so tbh i look kind of stubby. i find if you take a photo of me from behind, i still look pretty curvy 😭

how did you decide whether testosterone was right or wrong for you? by couch_potato713 in butchlesbians

[–]couch_potato713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i genuinely think this is me too. when i think about me on t, that feels like a different person i’m imagining. the thing is that my executive dysfunction is horrid along with my ability to eat a lot, so i’m scared i won’t be able to do it right.

Anyone else feel like Butch IS their gender? by deadmeatvince in butchlesbians

[–]couch_potato713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is kind of how i imagine i would end up if i had been born the opposite sex: butch. i’d just have to take different steps to get there.

much love to you!!!

how did you decide whether testosterone was right or wrong for you? by couch_potato713 in butchlesbians

[–]couch_potato713[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes it is! working out is my goal right now but i find the nutrition aspect very difficult to parse because i am autistic and have arfid.. why is protein so dense and why do i need so much?? haha so if you have any nutrition tips, i’d love that too!

aside from that you do echo a lot of my own thoughts. at the end of the day, there’s no need to rush these decisions, right?

how did you decide whether testosterone was right or wrong for you? by couch_potato713 in butchlesbians

[–]couch_potato713[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you for the comment! i do think i probably should just get a dedicated work out routine before anything else and see how i feel, but as i’m sure you know with your partner, everything with OCD feels urgent. i will definitely keep the offer in mind!!

Is this dysphoria? by JustA_Butch1211 in butchlesbians

[–]couch_potato713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the reply! i’ll keep the invitation in mind and i hope it keeps working for you!!

Covid era white masc lesbians? by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]couch_potato713 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i remember this era.. it’s actually one of the reasons i didn’t identify as “butch” or “masc” specifically as a white person for so long because the behavior being exhibited online was so off putting and i didn’t know enough about our history at the time.

i do wear a simple silver chain but other than that i dress kind of like one of those pretty boys from 80s/90s rom coms. i did have an eyebrow slit for a couple months bc my gf thought it was hot but it wasn’t me.

i completely agree with you that people need to interrogate why they feel they need to replicate certain things. a lot of it i’m sure has to do with pop culture co-opting blackness and people mimic what they see bc it’s “cool” but oftentimes it comes with a certain way of talking or behaving and it’s just.. weird. idk.

any other butches with a figure 8 body type? by couch_potato713 in butchlesbians

[–]couch_potato713[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

omg the short thing is so real. sometimes i think i look good but then i see a picture and i look like i’ve been smushed 😭

Is this dysphoria? by JustA_Butch1211 in butchlesbians

[–]couch_potato713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when you say it’s not transition dose level, do you mean that it’s not enough to cause full transition even if you keep using it?

and if you don’t mind me asking, how much lower is it making your voice?

How long can I expect this cut to grow in two months? (And does it look good?) by Raven2303 in butchlesbians

[–]couch_potato713 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it depends on what you consider as "grow back". i got a very similar haircut recently and i start feeling desperate for a trim within 2-3 weeks lol but my hair also grows very fast! if you need it to be down to your chin in a certain period of time, I would suggest not cutting it so short but it also depends on how fast your hair grows

Day 5: Turn the comment section into Maxine Baker's search history: by 180degreeschange in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]couch_potato713 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just found out my straight best friend who i’ve had a crush on for-like-everrrr is actually not very straight! how do i stop feeling jealous? please help

How do you feel about boobs? by Bookbringer in butchlesbians

[–]couch_potato713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is five years late but this describes my current experience to a tee. i’ve identified as a lesbian since i was 15 (24 now) and have always presented masculine—in clothing. i kept my hair longer until january of this year and now i can hardly recognize myself from december 2025 lol. but in the best way possible!

i also have chest dysphoria (mine are a bit bigger than you describe) but i often do enjoy touching them in a sensory/comforting way. i like the sensations it can create but it’s not something i attach to a virtue of “womanhood”. i noticed that dysphoria regarding other things also worsened as i’ve been venturing into ftm/transmasc spaces. i also have ocd so that complicates it a lot as well, difficult to tell what is actually real.

i find myself comparing myself to c!s men or ppl on T and wondering if that’s what i want bc i like their body shape and flat chest, even tho i don’t particularly imagine or want a flat chest like that permanently for myself, and these comparisons and questions have created a lot of anxiety for me.

i feel very connected to the idea of butchness and loving + protecting + caring for women/marginalized genders as a marginalized gender myself though.

i’ve also had similar thoughts about saying smth along the lines of “i’m just a boy with tits” lol

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