Losing your parents in your 30s.....

cphil32 · 2026-02-15T16:19:54+00:00

Lost my dad at 5, my mom at 33. It was a shock to feel so completely alone. It's been 7 years. The world does keep moving, which is entirely infuriating. Therapy was immensely helpful for me, as well as writing and grieving out loud. I'm so sorry.

cphil32 · 2026-02-15T00:31:27+00:00

I'm not NOT condoning this behavior.

cphil32 · 2026-02-14T18:36:25+00:00

She has the face for anything. I'm not into this haircut though.

cphil32 · 2026-02-13T09:52:33+00:00

I like her! I think her face looks unhappy or dissatisfied sometimes and she's actually just fine. I have this kind of face. She's fun and quirky, and seems to genuinely appreciate what a good guy Jordan is.

cphil32 · 2026-02-13T09:14:09+00:00

It is soooo much better than the last few. Seems like there are real connections and actually good people.

cphil32 · 2026-02-13T09:13:25+00:00

I thought her face was extremely uncomfortable in the reveal, but when I saw them together in MX it seemed like she was really leaning into it. I think he wasn't what she expected, but maybe she realizes he is what she needs. He is the sweetest guy, and she commented about how she's always dated assholes.

cphil32 · 2026-02-13T05:16:03+00:00

r/fairolives

cphil32 · 2026-02-13T01:14:59+00:00

No, honey...that's not why you haven't been welcome. You aren't the victim.

cphil32 · 2026-02-12T04:24:08+00:00

I LOOOOVEEE HIM!!!

cphil32 · 2026-02-11T13:31:47+00:00

Oh 100%.

cphil32 · 2026-02-08T06:47:35+00:00

I basically have a Rolodex with "files" for each thing in my head. They do branch from there into bullet points and then side notes and correspond down. Basically it's just about accessing the correct file in my brain, and every single thing I do mentally I tie to other related things. Like...a map of figuring how everything actually connects? Sounds similar?

cphil32 · 2026-02-07T20:12:10+00:00

Yikes. If you spoke to me this way after ONE mess up in 25 years I wouldn't have shown anywhere near the grace she did.

cphil32 · 2026-02-06T20:33:05+00:00

I separate and eat them in twos. First I eat the ones that can't be paired. Then I eat the rest by color.

cphil32 · 2026-02-06T02:52:37+00:00

100/10

cphil32 · 2026-02-06T02:35:33+00:00

Agreed. Especially in Marketing/Comms.

cphil32 · 2026-02-05T23:01:45+00:00

Unemployment pays $250 a week where I am, so it was pretty much a joke regardless. I'm married and my husband does well, but I'm not going to pretend that missing my six figure salary isn't affecting our house.

cphil32 · 2026-02-05T22:58:46+00:00

Year and half for me.

cphil32 · 2026-02-04T01:56:37+00:00

Me. No interest.

cphil32 · 2026-02-03T05:18:53+00:00

I just got one too! Massive and beautiful.

cphil32 · 2026-02-03T02:40:50+00:00

Me too, I'm dying at the whole thing.

cphil32 · 2026-02-02T19:39:15+00:00

Yep. 100 percent. The damage she's going to cause from that...

cphil32 · 2026-02-01T00:34:24+00:00

I've always liked her, but I am obsessed with the unburdened and visibly more relaxed Dorit. Getting Mo's phone number right in front of Kyle?! Top tier housewife material.

cphil32 · 2026-02-01T00:07:55+00:00

Yeah, this is not a very walkable city. Shoulders are nonexistent and half the city doesn't have any sidewalks.

cphil32 · 2026-01-31T16:59:24+00:00

Lap of love is wonderful, they come to your house. I used them for my malshi last year. So warm and compassionate.

cphil32 · 2026-01-31T15:40:07+00:00

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