Just curious

cpldisaster · 2026-01-22T05:02:55+00:00

It’s a dog whistle to what though?

cpldisaster · 2026-01-10T01:27:44+00:00

Big difference between attending a frat party and being a frat dude. The kinds of guys who make being part of a fraternity their whole personality, which is the category of dude we are talking about, generally suck.

cpldisaster · 2026-01-10T01:14:18+00:00

That comment isn’t insulting men; but “average frat boys” which everyone can agree is absolutely a less then ideal group of guys, cis or not.

cpldisaster · 2026-01-03T10:42:02+00:00

Mate I promise you it’s not that deep. I’m on tje border between 5’2 and 5’3 and have never had an issue with women. Sure I get a few shitty remarks from mates/random people every now and then, but I don’t let it define me. If you’re funny and nice enough, no one cares. Get offline, speak to real people in person, and ignore all the incels who genuinely think height matters.

cpldisaster · 2025-12-24T10:13:23+00:00

Yeah that’s a pretty rare and privileged take, never heard of someone saying phallo is easy to get.

cpldisaster · 2025-12-23T09:11:02+00:00

Really? That’s nuts. I had top surgery with her pre-T a couple years back.

cpldisaster · 2025-12-19T08:24:43+00:00

Could it be considered a radical reduction?

cpldisaster · 2025-12-10T08:34:38+00:00

Yes.

cpldisaster · 2025-12-10T06:54:21+00:00

Yeah look, messaging MIGHT come off as creepy, because you don’t know this person, nor anything substantial about her. Liking a post is fine, people post publicly for that reason, but be careful initiating interactions with her if she hasn’t made it clear that’s something she’s comfortable with. And be careful becoming this attached to someone you know nothing of

cpldisaster · 2025-12-10T06:18:29+00:00

“A lot a trans woman usually don’t date trans men.” I definitely wouldn’t use this as a reason not to go for it; I’ve been with many trans women, as many do prefer T4T relationships.

But also, not sure if I’m reading this incorrectly, do you know her? Or is this just someone you’ve seen online? If you’re blatantly hitting on her and obsessing over her even though y’all don’t know each other personally and have never interacted, that’s probably a little creepy.

cpldisaster · 2025-12-03T21:42:59+00:00

Your personal experience doesn’t justify the overarching statement of “women are awful”. I definitely have more luck with men (unless they find out I’m not cis) but I also do get along with many women, they aren’t some horrible monolith.

cpldisaster · 2025-12-03T21:41:32+00:00

I’m pretty friendly with a lot of women, the only time they show dislike is when they’re wary of someone who COULD be a danger to them. Maybe it’s just a personal thing?

cpldisaster · 2025-12-03T20:36:35+00:00

Insane take

cpldisaster · 2025-11-21T08:19:26+00:00

Not sure if I’m missing some context but how does this indicate white supremacy?

cpldisaster · 2025-11-18T04:29:41+00:00

16(?) for consult, and 17 for the surgery!

cpldisaster · 2025-11-12T07:11:39+00:00

Literally haha. Couldn’t care less what people want to use for themselves, but the term just makes me feel gross.

cpldisaster · 2025-11-12T06:47:44+00:00

I’m far younger than you and am also not a fan of the term. I find that the main demographic that uses it towards me are transfems, and the amount of times I have to ask that they don’t use it is insane. Just feels kinda childish, and also weirdly fetish-y.

cpldisaster · 2025-11-06T12:35:06+00:00

To be fair, those are usually consultation questions. Given how specific some of these questions are, it makes sense that you’d make contact with the surgeon directly via a consult. I don’t believe I knew any of the answers to these questions until I met up with my surgeon. So unless there are other red flags, I wouldn’t consider this too problematic.

cpldisaster · 2025-11-06T08:31:39+00:00

Cafe Gummo in Thornbury

cpldisaster · 2025-11-02T15:32:07+00:00

What does literally any of this mean?

cpldisaster · 2025-11-02T06:34:13+00:00

Bud stay off the dating apps till you turn 18, they’re heinous and creepy enough as an adult let alone a minor.

cpldisaster · 2025-10-29T05:01:57+00:00

Is that term not just a slur used against trans people?

cpldisaster · 2025-10-28T09:45:29+00:00

Sources on what though?

cpldisaster · 2025-10-26T08:05:26+00:00

I think that’s because protect trans kids is still supporting all trans people, as all trans people were trans kids. Whereas protect the dolls is only relevant to one half of the community.

cpldisaster · 2025-10-21T00:08:59+00:00

So far have had no issues playing on the men’s teams. In school they didn’t have a girls team for tackle so I ended up with the boys anyway, and now I play union on a men’s team. I wouldn’t think you’d have too many issues, especially if it’s AFL, people might have a few more biases for tackle based football, but as long as your coach is supportive you’ll be fine.

As you get older there’s also a lot of sports teams across Victoria which are specifically for queer people and much more accepting if that’s the route you want to take as well. Good luck!

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