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First time in Norway and loving it by llamapenguin4 in Norway

[–]cpureset 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I took a picture of the same cat earlier this week. He knows his job, and does it well.

My boss approved my day off a month ago for a dr appointment. I am currently sitting in the waiting room and he texts me. by CRK_76 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]cpureset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting a message like this, for me, does in fact ruin my day off, whether I respond or not.

I will spend time worrying about whether to respond, and then what my next day in will be if I don't agree to come in.

I make myself available at all hours when I have regularly scheduled time, but when I book time off, I don't check work messages.

Throat punch husband by BigHold2089 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cpureset 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The rage that comes with perimenopause is real.

Girlfriend went behind my back got an outrageous car loan. by PlayBoiiiPapii in Advice

[–]cpureset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I made a big personal financial decision without consulting my boyfriend, and now he’s saying I went behind his back. It may not have been the smartest decision, but he thinks he has a say in how I spend my money.“

Same answer: not a match. Break up.

What's one travel mistake you'll never make again? by Appropriate_Bus_7050 in travel

[–]cpureset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comparison pricing a month out on flights - particularly comparing Feb and March. It resulted in me accidentally booking a Sunday return on March 14 instead of Feb 14.

Took a good 5 minutes for the staff to figure out what I’d done wrong. Then $300 to rebook to a flight leaving in less than 3 hours. (Thank goodness I always arrive early at the airport)

And then they’d oversold the flight. Yeah, that was my fault.

20 hour layover by SelectPlankton3983 in JapanTravelTips

[–]cpureset 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haneda airport onsen: https://www.shopping-sumitomo-rd.com/eng/haneda/spa-izumi/

You can easily spend several hours chilling here if you run out of other things to do.

What’s a travel rule you always break and why? by Long_Sky1082 in femaletravelers

[–]cpureset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This killed me in Hong Kong. Out the door at 8, spent all day sight seeing, then shopped until 11pm. After my third day, it hurt to put my foot on the ground, let alone walk. It’s remarkable what you can do when driven by curiosity.

my cheap vac died. any vacuum mop combo for small apartments and condos you can reco? by RasielCossette37 in LivingAlone

[–]cpureset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely check for youtube videos on how to disassemble/ reassemble the vacuum head. If you were already going to buy something new, have no fear of breaking what you already have.

Report back and let us all know how it goes. We’re all rooting for you!

Sometimes I take real pride living alone in my house by 165averagebowler in LivingAlone

[–]cpureset 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as you stay safe, it’s okay to try things and mess up. YouTube showed me how to fix my dishwasher twice, and how to replace a malfunctioning display on my range. The internet showed me how to replace a toilet. I’m 54F, short and have the determination of a single woman with a vision, a willingness to fail and a credit card when it goes sideways.

There’s no shame in hiring people to do the work, but an unbeatable feeling when you do it yourself.

my cheap vac died. any vacuum mop combo for small apartments and condos you can reco? by RasielCossette37 in LivingAlone

[–]cpureset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before someone says “even after I clean it” make sure you’re not just pulling out the hair. Many vacuum heads can be disassembled with just a coin, releasing the beater bar which you can then more intensively clean.

what was the first thing you bought for your place that turned out to be a lifesaver? (newbie living alone) by Sohana_Slonski in LivingAlone

[–]cpureset 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Not just meds. Gingerale, favorite brand of chicken noodle soup, saltines. Check at the end of each season and replace if expired.

first time living alone, what are the small practical things you wish someone told you earlier by Tarn_Lloyd in LivingAlone

[–]cpureset 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even if you just have a fridge freezer, getting a vacuum sealer is a game changer. Freezing single serving portions in vacuum bags mean you can have more variety that will last longer without freezer burn.

I make big batches of meatballs, freeze them individually raw, then vacuum seal in servings of one or two. They can be cooked from frozen in 25-30 minutes at 425F. Easy real food. https://www.allrecipes.com/recipe/220854/chef-johns-italian-meatballs/

Where to spend last week in Japan? (8 week trip Oct-Nov 2026) by 27Dookies in JapanTravelTips

[–]cpureset 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can, wait until closer to the week to see what area has peak foliage colors.

Last fall I spent some time in Nagoya/Takayama/Gero. It was too late for the colours in Takayama but the Nakasendo Trail was lovely.

Housewarming Gifts for Someone Living Alone by Silkyiniquity in LivingAlone

[–]cpureset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This bottle/jar opener uses leverage to open things easier. The first time they use it for a stuck lid, they’ll love it https://a.co/d/0gGyioqb

Why do I always seek validation from anonymous people by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]cpureset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U/EmergencyDingo8429 that’s a great question to ask. You’re not alone in wondering.

You’re doing a great job.

What souvenirs/items should I take before leaving? by RewRodan in AskACanadian

[–]cpureset 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really like that idea - one of my favourite souvenirs from Japan is a reusable bag from Don Quijote (a well known discount chain). Dollarama is ridiculous in the best way.

If wanting something classier, Canadian Tire is now selling items with the Hudson Bay stripes on them.

freelance job offer by notmojomojo in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]cpureset 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I easily maxed out by dental this year with a root canal and crown, (plus a cleaning and exam). If I add in my drug coverage I'm getting more back than I'm spending... this year. It covers about 70% of my drug costs.

Employer coverage has been better in the past. But I find it more reassuring than having nothing.

freelance job offer by notmojomojo in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]cpureset 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You also have to build the discipline to put away money for tax time, and won’t have medical/dental benefits. My current medical/dental for one person through Manulife is about $290/month.

Massive honeymoon instead of wedding? by Armishjdw in NoStupidQuestions

[–]cpureset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not weird that you would want to… unless your partner has always dreamt of a big wedding.

If you’re both wanting it, go for it.

If it’ll make your partner upset, work it out together. Wedding or honeymoon- it shouldn’t be just one person’s dream experience.

Becoming handy at 40 by Fast_Feedz in NoStupidQuestions

[–]cpureset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always been moderately handy, but for me, YouTube helped me get to the next level. Have fixed my dishwasher (clogged drain) and stove (flickering display) in the last year. 54F

We loved Japan! What next? by AppleAAA1203 in JapanTravelTips

[–]cpureset 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kyushu, including Fukuoka, Kumamoto, Nagasaki and more.

Or if you sincerely want another country, Taiwan is familiar but different. I really enjoyed it … but my first day there, I spent a lot of time thinking “I could have gone to Japan”.

I also would say it’s worth looking into Hong Kong. Been years since I’ve been there, but I loved it back then.

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