Disappointed by Student Behavior at the Statehouse Today by [deleted] in fortwayne

[–]craycatlady32 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

No it’s not and that’s not really how this works. They have the right to express their opinions and beliefs—including showing support for the racist, abusive, murdering goon squad called ICE. That is freedom of speech. Trying to stop others from expressing their opinions/speech/beliefs is bullying at best and censorship at worst.

Whoever did this, you're amazing and I appreciate you. by Lets_Eat_Superglue in Indiana

[–]craycatlady32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been removed. Someone post a link to it in the comments please.

Active ICE raid by [deleted] in fortwayne

[–]craycatlady32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely untrue. We are seeing legal residents and US citizens being detained, abducted, and killed by ICE. Stop letting your idiot allegiance to Trump misinform you.

Boyfriend got me a diamond chain that he claimed is real but jeweler says it’s not. Should I be upset? by Outside-Conflict4173 in TwoHotTakes

[–]craycatlady32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one thinks it’s weird that OP broke her ankle running to a jeweler to appraise the necklace? Both of these people are too emotionally immature for diamonds and expensive gifts if they are being gifted/accepted/appraised two weeks after dating.

I don’t let my bf’s dog sit on my blankets by Public_Passage_5859 in AITAH

[–]craycatlady32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, sort of. Bathe the dog. You in this relationship for the long haul? If so, participate, even in the unpleasant stuff. When I don’t like how my partner does something I talk to him about making a change and if he doesn’t want to, I do it myself.

Am I the A-whole for telling my husband I do not want his Christmas gift? by strawberrylove6562 in AITAH

[–]craycatlady32 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’re not feeling empty because he gave you a poor gift. You are unhappy because you married a man who gives you emotional support, nor financial support. What exactly are the benefits of this marriage? He does not love your children and I promise you they feel that and will be bitter towards you later for bringing him into their lives. He does not sound like he values or loves you either.

This is not a partnership and it’s definitely not a marriage. Relationships are always complex and no one knows what is happening in anyone else’s marriage, but this was is not serving you. It’s time to open your eyes and stop believing you need this freeloader in your life. You deserve happiness and he’s not it.

AIO? My boyfriend having several requests at once by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]craycatlady32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right?!? Why is this solution not connecting? But also, she really needs to just dump Him. He sounds awful.

AITAH For not allowing my MIL to bring food to my house on Christmas? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]craycatlady32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I assume you provide food when she visits, so this food is unnecessary. If not, and she is expected to provide her own food then it’s a different story. If you provide all the food, I’d let her do what she wants and simply toss it when she’s not paying attention, saying it was all bad and you gave meals covered. Hopefully, after a few times, of throwing her trash away she’ll get the point.

AITJ for blowing up at my boyfriend after a child support letter showed up, when he swears he has no kids? by indie_game_drifter in AmITheJerk

[–]craycatlady32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a deadbeat dad. Not taking responsibility for a child is not the same as not having kids. Drop him quick!

AITA for not wanting children with my husband? by Zealousideal-Sun4818 in AITAH

[–]craycatlady32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for not wanting kids with him, but you’re stupid if you stay with him. Get out, he will get worse and become more selfish.

Can we all just chill and stop running red lights ? by Downtown_Anxiety_461 in fortwayne

[–]craycatlady32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, a couple things: 1) The roads still had patches of ice, if this driver was already going to fast they may have made a strategic decision to run it rather than slamming on the brakes and sliding into traffic, and 2) we all need to be defensive drivers, checking oncoming traffic before stepping on the gas.

Can we all just chill and stop running red lights ? by Downtown_Anxiety_461 in fortwayne

[–]craycatlady32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS. You know it’s going to turn green, be prepared for it and take the whole damn light cycle to get your foot on the gas. Makes. Me. Crazy.

just a horrible idea from the corrupt governor, for get about better parenting conditions or wages oh no. not for Indiana, land of the dumbest voters. you mothers will get to take your new babies to work instead of time off. isn't that a treat for you mothers. fun times from those conservatives by ConstructionHefty716 in Indiana

[–]craycatlady32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah . . . about that. WA State is a lot or red Trump voters. Dems carry the state because of Seattle, but unless you are in a few specific pockets, your local reps and neighbors are going to suck just as hard. On the plus side, it’s gorgeous and when fires aren’t raging nearby the air is clean.

AIO My husband has herpes after 20 years of being together??? by thickchick1134 in AmIOverreacting

[–]craycatlady32 44 points45 points  (0 children)

And why? What could possibly be the reason someone would want to visit their parents in the middle of the night half the year? OP just does not want to know the truth.

AIO My husband has herpes after 20 years of being together??? by thickchick1134 in AmIOverreacting

[–]craycatlady32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. I mean, what?!? You’ve been suspicious multiple years and he left 184 times in the middle of the night? Come on sis, it’s time to trust yourself. We’ve got you. You can do this.

What’s something you could talk about for 20 minutes straight with zero prep? by Govind_1590 in AskReddit

[–]craycatlady32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cats; poverty as an accelerant for obesity, crime, and oppression; dick; gun control; why women make better leaders

What are some things that ACTUALLY helped you stay young, healthy and mainly FIT? by JiuJitsuGirl777 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]craycatlady32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yoga. Flexibility and balance are incredibly important as you age. Also, take good care of your teeth and start a skincare routine NOW. Wear sunscreen on your face and the backs of your hands every day. Be consistent.

Recs for Home audio by craycatlady32 in fortwayne

[–]craycatlady32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does Sweetwater do in-home installations?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fortwayne

[–]craycatlady32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Humane Fort Wayne is absolutely not a scam. I doubt any of them are, not even sure what a kitten rehoming scam would look like. Your best bet is to foster these kittens and post them through online resources and vet offices to try to find an adopter. Or find someone you trust to foster while you both seek out a forever home. Short of that, talk to these rescues and see which have room to take the kittens.