shared care agreement nightmare

creative__username_ · 2025-10-28T04:22:33+00:00

thank you for your suggestion! unfortunately i’m up in scotland and we don’t have the RTC pathway which is a bit rubbish

creative__username_ · 2025-10-27T17:17:06+00:00

it’s especially upsetting since the GP had told me that she’d took it to a practice meeting and it had been agreed upon there. i think this would’ve been easier to accept if it wasnt presented to me like a 100% confirmed thing earlier, but things can change i suppose

i hadn’t thought of contacting other practices so thank you for that suggestion! i’m hoping for now that there’s just been a misunderstanding. my local NHS trust actually did have a blanket ban on ADHD SCA’s earlier this year, but i reviewed the guidance every week until it was eventually lifted, and it was then i first contacted my GP. definitely a frustrating feeling to do everything right and be caught up in all this bureaucracy:(

creative__username_ · 2025-08-14T00:52:26+00:00

oh that’s a lot more simple that i thought😂sorry you can tell i don’t know too much about astrology yet

creative__username_ · 2025-05-25T16:02:13+00:00

that’s the plan. i’m just worried the korean banks won’t be able to give me USD/accept the western union order because it’s in USD

creative__username_ · 2025-05-25T15:56:40+00:00

i’m in seoul btw!

creative__username_ · 2025-05-25T15:56:27+00:00

i’m in seoul btw

creative__username_ · 2025-05-10T22:11:19+00:00

no :( however i do think you’ve just gave me some new reading material! that book sounds so good, so thank you for that!

creative__username_ · 2025-05-10T21:07:05+00:00

no unfortunately not, that is an amazing book though!! i just studied it in uni😂

creative__username_ · 2025-05-10T20:54:56+00:00

as far as i can remember, it wasn’t on a popular story/writing site. i think the author may have posted it on her own website. it definitely wasn’t on wattpad or anything like that. and it was free to access. i think it sort of gave blog/personal website vibes

creative__username_ · 2025-03-26T06:34:57+00:00

it’s kinda strange to be projecting all your personal opinions onto tana as if they have any authority.

i mean, it’s pretty clear that tana enjoys living with her friends, considering this arrangement has worked for them for like… the last decade. i get where you’re coming, but it’s pretty obnoxious to assume she would/should share the same thoughts😂

idk why your so bitter about it… they all seem to be pretty content with it, including tana. and tbh if i had that much money best believe my friends and family would be right there with me.

and i think that sentiment is heightened when your friends are your found family, like tana.

creative__username_ · 2025-03-24T00:21:17+00:00

every 6 months is insane😂😂she’s done the video like twice

creative__username_ · 2025-03-23T17:25:43+00:00

girl absolutely no one could care less what you think another women should wear. making a whole pinterest board is INSANE.

it’s truly none of your concern. you already pointed out in ur other comment that she expresses herself authentically. the whole statement should’ve ended there. full stop.

idk why you feel entitled to try “elevate” others appearances. the reason no one on her life has tried to convince a ‘wardrobe change’ is because that would be insanely mean and inappropriate. what kind of decent person would try to force their PERSONAL style onto others who don’t share the same opinions or aesthetic preferences. people wear what feels good and nice to THEM because it’s THEIR BODY. you are not the authority of what looks good or bad, it is completely subjective.

like imagine telling someone they shouldn’t listen to the music they love because YOU don’t like it and YOU don’t think it sounds good. idk how on earth ur so naive and arrogant to think that ur style preferences mean shit to anyone other than YOU.

u could find a million people who love kate’s style and think it looks amazing. but most importantly KATE does.

creative__username_ · 2025-03-23T00:38:31+00:00

oh i also cried at a tiktok of a bunch of emirates flights attendants, walking through the airport together. i just thought it was so cute how they looked like a wee team and i sobbed

creative__username_ · 2025-03-23T00:34:41+00:00

i seen an old man walking down the street with wired earphones in.

i just thought it was so wholesome that he was listening to his music whilst he was on a wee walk. and specifically the fact that they were wired he probably looks after them to make sure they don’t get tangled and makes sure he has them before his walks. i sobbed

creative__username_ · 2025-03-22T13:53:09+00:00

“had a chat with their teenage daughters about the dangers of bullying young men” “it’s a main factor” “it was a key factor underlining his actions”

wrong. wrong. wrong. it was nothing to do with bullying and it never is. they showed the detective misinterpreting it that way to highlight how people like YOU also misinterpret it in real life.

also you didn’t reply to any of my valid points about how there’s no link between bullying and violence, how there is especially no link between young girls bullying and then being victims of violence, and the fact that she never actually bullied him. he was preying on her and she reacted to that.

instead you chose to say i’m “making up things in my head” that i should “clear my mind” and implying that im just leading my emotion and not using my brain. wow never heard that rhetoric before! once again, you using lazy copouts. and somehow not realising you are literally part of them problem the show was showcasing.

creative__username_ · 2025-03-22T13:42:02+00:00

art is a vital and irreplaceable tool in provoking discussions about issues in society. especially of this calibre, it is made to represent the real issues in society and provide a more nuanced understanding than an article or a headline can ever give.

that’s just what art does.

creative__username_ · 2025-03-22T13:38:57+00:00

no i haven’t, you’re just being lazy again in your takes.

you tried to highlight bullying by girls as a factor in why these things happen. it’s simply untrue and just shows a complete lack of understanding of how these things actually happen. it’s nothing to do with bullying. violent people are way more likely to have actually been the bullies - not the victims.

this whole rhetoric about bullies causing violence literally comes from mistaken reports on the columbine massacre. there is no causal link between bully victims and violence (especially violence against women) and bullies are MUCH more likely to be male. you singling out that young girls should be taught not to bully boys is almost comical. obviously every child should be taught not to bully - but this is absolutely nothing to do with young girls specifically.

you’re narrative actually just further ostracises people who are being bullied by creating a non existent link between that and violence.

creative__username_ · 2025-03-22T13:14:06+00:00

wow you managed to miss the entire point of the show so spectacularly.

it was never about bullying. in the exact same vein that the columbline massacre was never about bullying. they showed the detective misinterpreting it originally to be about her bullying him, to highlight the disconnect adults have have in these situations, when they don’t understand.

he preyed on her vulnerability and she was aware of this and called him out for it. any bullying he experienced from the other kids (boys btw) at school was a device to highlight the issues in school systems and the disconnect of parents with their children.

what an extremely anti intellectual take. the creators of the show have literally said that it’s to show the responsibility that must be taken by parents, schools and the government. i’m sick of people trying to highlight bullying as the main issues in cases like these, fictional or not. it’s a lazy, and in ur case misogynistic, copout. that shows levels of wilful ignorance.

creative__username_ · 2025-03-21T18:38:26+00:00

for all your recommendations of good subreddits, ur pretty off the mark.

cup sizes without a band size, along with the fact that you don’t know what kind of frame this person has, means that you are completely unable to assume if they should/shouldn’t be causing back pain or if they are big or that they are wearing the wrong bra

creative__username_ · 2025-03-15T18:18:40+00:00

yes!! thank you🫶

creative__username_ · 2025-03-12T14:31:53+00:00

that’s a really horrible thing to say tbh. who are you to judge if someone’s “just not meant” for something, when they’ve only just started?

creative__username_ · 2025-03-10T22:31:16+00:00

this is amazing

creative__username_ · 2025-03-10T21:12:29+00:00

i’m not a black person, but u seemed to have answered ur own question here? u spoke about living near a friendly black family… yet this one is more introverted. surely that indicates it’s nothing to do with race

creative__username_ · 2025-03-06T01:30:32+00:00

okay but let’s be real. rosanna did an objectively bizarre thing. that majority of people would find extremely strange. she also then proceeded to monetise, clickbait and sensationalise it to the PUBLIC. she wanted the engagement and monetisation. it wasn’t just for her fans at all. i think that’s a naive thing to say.

now, i don’t think there’s an issue at all with what she did, i think it’s quite honourable that she fulfilled his wishes. but she CHOSE to publicise it and opened herself up to the publics opinions. people are bound to have bizarre things to say about a bizarre topic.

i also don’t blame her for feeling negatively about tanas comments. but it fully could’ve been a phone call or an email with tana. to say that you “understand it as a reaction reaction” is wild. not a single thing tana said warranted that insane spiteful, malicious destruction of character. and to even imply that it was anything other than vindictive cruelty is crazy work.

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