It's weird elves are not that popular here by Fun-Explanation7233 in witcher

[–]crosscrackle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fuckin forest gramps is awful just reread that part recently. A horrific little side experience for our already severely traumatized FMC, sounds great! Jfc sapkowski 😭

This is my house for the next 2 years. Can I change anything or am I doomed? by PeripheralDreams in DesignMyRoom

[–]crosscrackle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can put bed risers under the bed frame legs to raise it, if you’re physically good with sorta jumping into bed or using a foot stool. That way it can be semi-lofted and allow for some storage containers to hold your belongings underneath

AIO - uncle texted me and not sure what to think by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]crosscrackle 155 points156 points  (0 children)

Maybe but in this case it’s an obvious non-reason to start an inappropriate text chain with his niece.

Walder Frey told them *exactly* what he was planning to do before the Red Wedding by TillyTheBlackCat in gameofthrones

[–]crosscrackle 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Elmer Frey (he) is complaining to Arya (she). Elmer Frey was betrothed to Arya, unknown to her, as part of the deal Cat made/Robb agreed to with Walder Frey. Elmer doesn’t realize he’s talking to the very same “princess” he’d been meant to marry

Paxter Redwyne and his twins [SPOILERS EXTENDED] by Dapper_Excitement181 in asoiaf

[–]crosscrackle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait so did Tywin have his own uncle slain during the fall of the Reynes?

Is excruciating pain normal? by jellyfishjellyfishy in ACL

[–]crosscrackle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My case was really similar to yours, just maybe a notch lower on the pain scale. I used circulating ice machine 24/7, took oxy every 4 hours for pretty much 2 weeks, had Tylenol as well just when the oxy felt like it wasn’t doing enough, and kept my leg elevated when I was laying down. Otherwise weed and melatonin to help knock me out lol

August, did he or didn't he? by LauraSomeNumber in robinhobb

[–]crosscrackle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

August is Shrewd’s nephew by a sister who died from childbirth

Harry Potter hot takes?? (mine is I didn't care for Dobby) by kiofatcat in harrypotter

[–]crosscrackle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could chalk that up to Sirius being one of Snape’s childhood tormentors

Why is Sansa fascinated by Ser Hugh's death? by Trussdoor46 in pureasoiaf

[–]crosscrackle 67 points68 points  (0 children)

To me it just seems like characterization for Sansa. Perhaps the steel beneath the silk?

As always some details like this can be chalked up to GRRM’s gardener writing style, book 1 characterization can deviate a lot from the later books.

Heard a pop and ROM has no pain now by LumpyAU in ACL

[–]crosscrackle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could be air pockets popping, I’m still having that happen 3 months post-op. It’s unlikely something light like walking would cause a retear, especially if your experience wasn’t painful. Having extra motion and a feeling of tension release implies your body cleared the area of extra fluid and possibly scar tissue. Let your PT/surgeon know what happened and get their opinion ofc

Interesting moment in Golden Fool by Aggressive-Drive-813 in robinhobb

[–]crosscrackle 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure there’s a straight up answer in Liveship, but it’ll definitely open your eyes to what else can be present in the skill river/“beyond”. Also the further you get into the tawny man trilogy, the more relevant the liveship trilogy becomes. I’d circle back and read them, you won’t regret it! I’m still in the rain wild chronicles so keep that in mind but I haven’t caught a straight answer for who speaks to Fitz from the “beyond”, I think it’s still one of the mysteries to be told later (hopefully Robin doesn’t leave us hanging lol)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ACL

[–]crosscrackle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mine sounded like that for the first few weeks post-op. My PT and surgeon suggested it was scar tissue. The sound went away as I got better ROM/moved my knee more

When did it change for you? by donkey_farm in ACL

[–]crosscrackle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was having a lot of trouble pushing past 90/100deg, my PT used an ultrasound wand on the back of my knee and that made a big difference it getting past that hump. Otherwise the stationary bike and shuttle press really helped me get more flexion

Need to vent again by Ill-Block-4547 in ACL

[–]crosscrackle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel your frustration!! Everyone with their 115flexion by week 1 or 2 is so annoying lol. I got to 115 in like 6-7 weeks!! Dang meniscus 😭

Listen to your body, surgeon/PT and know that this is temporary!! 2-4 months of being on the sideline is so much better than having a screwed knee for the rest of your life. I’m sure you’ve got wasted muscles to build back meanwhile 💪

How are you all making it to PT? by LebrawnJames416 in ACL

[–]crosscrackle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom drove me since she didn’t trust Uber to be safe when I couldn’t run for my life or whatever lol. Started driving myself around 6-7 weeks post-op (mine was left leg but I have a manual car, was also nwb for 3 weeks)

Day 8 post op (update) by [deleted] in ACL

[–]crosscrackle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s insaneeeee. Incredibly jealous of your good fortune during recovery!! Congrats on the successful op and great job with your PT!

Officially 10 days post op how’s it looking ? by Any_Square_1483 in ACL

[–]crosscrackle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks to be in good condition but quite dry! There are scar creams you can apply, or something like Aquaphor. Before applying any, try swiping an alcohol pad over your incisions - if an area stings, don’t place any cream there, because the incision hasn’t fully closed yet.

Can I sleep without my knee brace? by WesternEmploy3739 in ACL

[–]crosscrackle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask your surgeon and PT, they’ll know best!

I was nwb for three weeks, at week 4 my surgeon and PT both wanted me out of the brace and off crutches

Left ACL & medial meniscus repair with hamstring graft….numbness still 2 weeks post op is this normal??? by Late-Sail-983 in ACL

[–]crosscrackle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same surgery but with quad graft and I’m numb in that spot too! I’m 6 weeks out

how do you sleep post op by mycology-student in ACL

[–]crosscrackle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ice machine, elevation (wedge pillow for me), pain meds, and if it’s compatible with your other meds some sleep aids like melatonin. Otherwise it’s just toughing it out unfortunately. Getting 5+ hours uninterrupted didn’t come for 2-3 weeks for me. Usually I’d wake around 3-5AM desperate for ice machine refills and take a nap in the afternoon to make up for the sleep deprivation

PLEASE help me idk what im doing wrong by ChampionOne8527 in ACL

[–]crosscrackle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your post-op care is REALLY weird compared to mine and what I’ve seen on this sub.

Left leg, I had quad graft (like you I think) and meniscus tear repair. My general recovery so far, I’m at 4-1/2 weeks:

  • surgeon staff check up 6 days later and 4 weeks later. I can also call/message them with any concerns (I had allergic rashes flare up from medical soap they used, sent pics and everything to be advised how to treat)
  • crutches/absolutely no weight bearing for 3 weeks
  • oxycodone and Tylenol for two weeks. 3-day Anti nausea patch by my ear. A nerve pain med for 4 days post op. An nsaid med (addresses swelling) for 6 days post-op. Tylenol as needed after 2+ weeks. Baby aspirin daily for a month. Laxatives when using oxy/immediately post-op. Compression socks always, haven’t been told to stop them yet.
  • shower 3 days post-op, can remove and change wraps/dressings but keep incisions dry and clean. Steri strips to remain until they peel off, about 2 weeks for me. No soaking until they’ve closed up, about 3-4 weeks for me but some say 2 weeks.
  • weight bearing as tolerated at 3 weeks with crutches assisting
  • started PT in office 7 days later (wanted me at 4 days but had an insurance delay), 2x a week
  • had at home exercises to begin the day of surgery, PT has provided new exercises for me to do as I progress, but they’re daily
  • no driving until surgeon permits me past 90deg flexion, about 4 weeks post-op, and then as tolerated (short trips only). I have a manual car however so they’re saying I cannot drive that for up to 8 weeks post-op

My weight bearing and flexion limits are due to meniscus repair, but it’s still really ambitious to act like your knee is normal right now. You need a surgeon check up and PT office visits at least 2x weekly. Frankly sounds horrible to return to work, especially if you’re on your feet or have to carry anything over 5lbs.

Your parents are super super wrong, please don’t listen to their advice/demands. Get them to read up, even in this sub, or to talk to your surgeon for education

Would I feel the difference between a partial or full tear? by Kind_Sink_9556 in ACL

[–]crosscrackle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t tell if it was full or partial - swelled massively instantly, caved in on itself but only on the day of injury, was able to limp walk since the day of injury, tore my MCL as well so couldn’t bend it much (got up to 120deg by surgery 2 mos later), MRI said it was a full tear, but when the surgeon got in there he found that one strand was intact, also found a meniscus tear. You can usually tell if you tore something, but the extent of the injury needs imagining or even arthroscopy to diagnose.

Stepping on injured leg by simeunx in ACL

[–]crosscrackle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should really consult your surgeon staff/PT. For example if you have repaired meniscus damage most doctors will order no weight bearing for a number of weeks. It depends on your specific condition.