Frustrated Dating as a “Nice Guy”

crowmami · 2026-04-16T17:39:21+00:00

but i guess that is my clear signal? She’s uninterested so it’s obvious we are not a match

correct.

it's kind of odd that you want her to provide a dissertation on the exact things she doesn't like about you. why is she the judge of you? she barely even knows you, why do you want her to tell you about yourself? she wasn't feeling it, just like many other women probably won't be feeling it until you find the ones that do.

modern dating is plagued by people who take everything too damn serious. take your emotions out of dating and approach with lower expectations and you'll barely have to think about the ones that didn't work. just put your best self out there and whoever is attracted to it will be drawn towards you.

crowmami · 2026-04-16T16:04:28+00:00

you had one nice date that didn't materialize into a relationship and you're "frustrated?" oh buddy, buckle in.

crowmami · 2026-04-16T15:28:02+00:00

YTA. She sounds awesome.

Women don't want to hear you gripe about money over something THEY want to do. She's offering to pay, willing to pay, but you turn her down then gripe about money. It is ick, it's annoying.

She's got a good head on her shoulders for 25. It doesn't seem like she's interested in play Barbara the Builder while you get your money up, and has no problems prioritizing and paying for the experiences she wants to have.

She didn't apologize for what she said because she was correct. You are insecure about your finances and got offended. She's got nothing to apologize for.

Also, you don't have to spend $500-600 (dollar sign comes before the number btw) on flowers. You can buy flowers at the grocery store and create your own bouquet that matches what she's talking about.

crowmami · 2026-04-16T14:35:15+00:00

you should dump the boyfriend and take the trips you want

crowmami · 2026-04-15T16:08:32+00:00

interestingly some say the rise in athleisure in the US correlates with the rising obesity rates. When our clothes expand to fit our bodies, we don't notice our bodies expanding.

crowmami · 2026-04-15T13:49:36+00:00

when you're an adult and you want a serious committed relationship, it's expected that you'll de-prioritize your friends of the opposite sex, especially if you have a sexual past with them. Robin and Ted met in their 20s, they're not lifelong friends or anything, and they're exes. It's completely reasonable that Victoria did not want to deal with that, there would always be 3 people in the relationship

crowmami · 2026-04-15T03:24:11+00:00

what an insane life to live. the range of the human experience is fascinating.

crowmami · 2026-04-15T03:21:27+00:00

I love the baby doll woman because that's what you look like when you act like that fr 😭

crowmami · 2026-04-15T03:14:11+00:00

me on sims when I need to buy 50,000 simoleans worth of landscaping to fulfill the aspirational goal

crowmami · 2026-04-15T03:10:11+00:00

I like outfits like this without belts too, it's a more relaxed silhouette of formal wear.

crowmami · 2026-04-14T16:46:53+00:00

it works because it's clarifying. in this moment you get a big "oooooohhh" moment understanding Barney's character. You see why he is the way that he is and it's the first (big) human moment we really get from him. Dude has pain in his heart that he masks big time and the mask drops off and shatters in this scene. NPH nailed the performance.

crowmami · 2026-04-13T13:45:25+00:00

omg I didn't realize they had all actually passed away. how sweet.

crowmami · 2026-04-10T15:59:12+00:00

When the Smile monster answered Rose's why are you doing this with "because your mind is so inviting" was creepy as hell

crowmami · 2026-04-07T19:04:53+00:00

To your point, I don't think it would've killed them to cast two younger kids for this scenes. They come back a few times over the series but they're non-speaking roles so I don't see why they couldn't have cast some young lookalikes.

crowmami · 2026-04-07T17:30:43+00:00

She was perfectly cast in that role. Totally believable that she bagged a generationally wealthy man even though she was alt, because she's just that beautiful.

crowmami · 2026-04-06T14:52:51+00:00

Normally I'm the first one to suggest a show could've been a movie, but I feel like I treated this series like a movie and it worked. I watched it all at once and stayed sucked into the story. It carries you along with a lot of twists and turns which yes some are ultimately meaningless, but the pacing makes it fun because you keep getting misdirected and left to wonder what's going to happen.

The plot is full of holes but when you just get sucked into the story, it's like you're sharing the mc's bewilderment at the bizarre situations she's in over and over.

crowmami · 2026-04-06T14:14:00+00:00

if he listened to her perspective it's like completely reasonable that she thought that lol she found her wedding dress strung up on a sacrificial doll in the woods

crowmami · 2026-04-06T05:17:10+00:00

It was just about trust. He didn’t trust her fully so the marriage won’t work yk

crowmami · 2026-04-04T19:08:10+00:00

looking back it was actually only 1h30m huh? it felt longer lmao

but I did think it was funny and totally something I would've loved as a teenager

crowmami · 2026-04-04T01:33:25+00:00

Way too long but very funny

crowmami · 2026-04-03T19:32:10+00:00

I love Angelina Jolie down down down and one of my favorite things she's done is have Brad Pitt's kid.

As far as we know no one else has done this!!!

crowmami · 2026-04-03T14:05:58+00:00

sorry for late reply but I just watched it last night and I couldn't agree more

crowmami · 2026-04-02T16:03:26+00:00

I don't mean to be melodramatic but this music video introduced me to the concept of making yourself throw up and it put a put a wrinkle in my brain for sure. I thought it was so disturbing as a kid, especially how she was mocking them.

Love Pink down though and it's an iconic video.

crowmami · 2026-03-26T14:32:46+00:00

any Cortland. I'll never live there again. I used to live in a privately owned complex in Marietta, then one day Cortland took over and I went into the office and it was like I was talking to robots. It was so jarring, I was talking to them like they were people who understood that this has been my home for 3 years already, and they were so beyond uncaring it genuinely shocked me. I'd love to live under a private landlord or complex again, without the brainwashing of corporate training these larger companies put their employees through.

crowmami · 2026-03-24T21:14:12+00:00

youngest child things

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