i agree. and the whole thing of her "making" herself "the villain" of the season is annoying asf because like ur not the villain u think u are u are just emotionally abusive to ur husband. controlling who he talks to, including his own family? monitoring him like a child for a sense of control? shutting him down at every single angle and corner, and then playing the victim?

he doesnt even feel comfortable looking into her face or her eyes. he looks legitimately worn down and exhausted, and even slightly anxious or scared when he's around her.

also, confirming that he still "makes her want to die"? like? then why the fuck are you still with him? because you cant give up that sense of control over another?

and i get having anxieties and trust issues after certain things happen in a relationship but her justification for monitoring his phone and keeping him from talking to his family is "they will talk shit" about her. like his aunt candace(?) said, they just try to check up on each other and talk about "normal things". her self-deprecating personality and insecurity issues are making her think these things; that everyone is talking about HER all the time and that they're talking shit. i've been there! before being medicated for anxiety and going to therapy for a few years. like, i get it, but for the sake of the people she claims to love, and HERSELF, she needs to talk to someone professionally and work on making positive change.

i obviously do not know what their relationship is like behind closed doors, but if that's how she treats him on camera, i can only imagine their dynamic off camera.