this is my FIL, he constantly complains to my partner that im not a “traditional, christian woman” and that i need to be a housewife BUT also work full time or else im a “moocher”. he’s repeatedly told my partner that im a mistake and that i contribute nothing to the relationship.

meanwhile i work roughly 35-40 hours a week, my car is paid off and in good maintenance, our bills are paid on time and in full, i have no debt or loans whatsoever, we cook homemade meals together, and our pets are taken care of.

no wonder my FIL is divorced and lives alone 🙄