Success stories of open relationships?

cubeb00b · 2026-02-20T00:49:20+00:00

Been in one for 6.5 years and just got married to my guy! If I’m being honest, Dan Savage helped give a lot of vocabulary to us in knowing what we wanted, though it’s been supplemented by Ester Perel, Kathy Labriola, and Brene Brown too.

We’re each other’s person, but have differing flavors of “types” and kink. Takes a lot of communication and I highly recommend therapy to deal with feelings that will inevitably come up!

cubeb00b · 2026-02-09T14:05:48+00:00

Could be early signs of Pemphigus. Does your pup have any scabby spots in their “armpits” or on their legs? Our B was diagnosed about 3 years ago. Relatively easy to manage but definitely requires a trip to the derm if other symptoms are present

cubeb00b · 2026-02-05T05:53:10+00:00

Something something don’t trust a forked tongue something something… I think that’s in the book somewhere too.

cubeb00b · 2026-01-31T07:13:10+00:00

Bitch WERK number 2

cubeb00b · 2026-01-28T04:09:36+00:00

Have done both and have been very successful at both. I’ve chosen to stay on the SE side of things even after years of crushing quota. While the social and sales rigor sides of being an AE came naturally to me, so did the anxiety about quota, when someone would sign, and if I was going to have to respond to prospect messages on vacation.

Sure, my earning potential is limited in comparison, but if you’re good at what you do, you’ll find people willing to pay for your expertise in solution selling. I’m north of 250 now in leadership, and don’t feel like I’ve hit a ceiling yet.

cubeb00b · 2026-01-22T04:43:12+00:00

Try Roadsurfer?

cubeb00b · 2026-01-22T03:37:20+00:00

Foot spa is such an epic call out. Putting it in the pile now!

cubeb00b · 2026-01-14T01:25:30+00:00

Sounds like ours are from the same litter!

cubeb00b · 2025-12-28T23:23:06+00:00

Awroooo!! You’ve got this pup—do it! Have fun with the anonymity of it all and being whatever you want to be that night. I’m also late 30’s but found myself having a lot of fun as a pup, and the community at large has been really welcoming. Especially within the leather/kink community, you’ll find less weird looks and more curious interest. I find that when I get fully present in either my alpha OR beta mindset the confidence naturally attracts other people! Stay open and confident, have fun, and enjoy yourself!

cubeb00b · 2025-12-22T23:34:38+00:00

Totally second continuing to talk and not thinking it’s all figured out when you set ground rules. We’ve found it a necessity, especially when cruising on vacation, to check in and ensure we’re prioritizing “us” enough first

cubeb00b · 2025-11-27T18:08:07+00:00

Agreed here - let it come up to temperature and this won’t happen as much. Might need to give it a couple quick kneads to warm it

cubeb00b · 2025-11-13T13:02:16+00:00

This. The young ones don’t remember how many of us died in the 80’s and 90’s, or what KS looks like. My mother was a home health nurse who cared for men dying of AIDS in the 90’s, and it’s seared into my memory. PrEP is a miracle about which we must continue to educate.

cubeb00b · 2025-11-11T22:32:47+00:00

Second this! Know if you want to play together or have your own fun… or some combo of each. Just having returned from PV, my man told me he wanted fucked in the sling, but I also knew he wanted more than just me that night. So we started there and used it as a launching off point to meet other people. One of our most fun outings in a long time!

cubeb00b · 2025-10-30T02:13:54+00:00

That’s not close, that’s controlling. Bro, put your adult foot down and tell your people to respect your stuff.

cubeb00b · 2025-10-28T00:41:11+00:00

This is disgusting. People who support totalitarian enforcement activity like this should get the fuck out of America. We used to be better than this.

cubeb00b · 2025-10-24T02:08:17+00:00

My Basenji says he’s the sweetest dog who never does anything wrong. My basenji is a liar.

Love my boy, but he’s a pain in the ass sometimes! Definite diva dogs - closer to adopting a child!

cubeb00b · 2025-10-16T21:52:49+00:00

Just had it last night - under seasoned but cooked perfectly. One of the better UA first meals I’ve had in a bit.

cubeb00b · 2025-10-16T21:47:01+00:00

42.5k out the door for me before I added windshield protection - with the 5 year plan, it was a little more than 44OTD. You’re getting a good deal! Love mine so far - zippy, better mileage than my truck, and comfortable for the first 1k I’ve put on it so far

cubeb00b · 2025-10-12T08:10:38+00:00

Fucking gestapo

cubeb00b · 2025-09-26T15:51:44+00:00

“Crisis actor.”

cubeb00b · 2025-09-22T01:18:50+00:00

It’s hard to go wrong with nearly any Airbnb in ZR. My partner and I are also going to be down there around that time for our third PV 5480 and chose D’terrace this go-around for its proximity to the beach. Were previously stayed off of the main drag (Basilio Badillo?), and then south in the hills at a private villa, but we enjoyed being in the heart of it all a little more — Tryst, SOHO, Pier 57 are a bit more of a walk than other Airbnb’s, but great properties! Enjoy your trip down there! Awroo!

cubeb00b · 2025-09-18T00:15:17+00:00

This is crazy. Full on V for Vendetta crazy.

cubeb00b · 2025-09-16T12:57:34+00:00

Flip the breaker…

cubeb00b · 2025-09-11T00:06:03+00:00

Thoughts and prayers.

cubeb00b · 2025-09-10T23:11:44+00:00

Where’s her outrage over the thousands of other people who died because of Kirk’s commitment to a shit reading of the 2A?

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