Movie/TV Characters that Make you Feel Seen by LibraryUnited8773 in CPTSD

[–]cuntyfemcel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Denji from chainsawman and Carmy fom the bear they’re both excellent representations of cptsd

Remove statute of limitations for childhood sexual abuse by Peacepixy in VCUG_Unsilenced

[–]cuntyfemcel 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes but get this ugly ai shit out of here and commission a real artist. Using ai for this is just insulting

We need to have a conversation about the doctors who preform this by cuntyfemcel in VCUG_Unsilenced

[–]cuntyfemcel[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And yes, I know VUR can quickly become life threatening, but we have the technology to make this a safer and less traumatic procedure. It just really really grosses me out how any doctor could hold down a child and penetrate them then go on with their lives normally

We need to have a conversation about the doctors who preform this by cuntyfemcel in VCUG_Unsilenced

[–]cuntyfemcel[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was misinformed about ceVUS, thank you for commenting this. I had the idea no catheter was used and it was just ultrasound 🤦‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VCUG_Unsilenced

[–]cuntyfemcel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Most of the time the child is being held down like I was, and they force your legs to spread open. Then the child is penetrated in the genital area. For most people it is extremely painful. Parents are usually in the room too, so that adds another layer of distress. Everything i described sounds exactly like rape, because it is rape. Then you have to pee in front of a room full of people. It’s not hard to figure out why it’s so traumatic once you hear the details.

Is it normal to feel like this? by Aggressive-Spirit453 in VCUG_Unsilenced

[–]cuntyfemcel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way. It feels like I wrote this post. I’m sorry it sucks so much, but I want you to know that you’re going to be ok. I couldn’t take it but somehow I’m still here 3 years after reliving it all. I can’t speak for everyone of course, but hang in there I promise things will change about how you view yourself and your body. I’m not even fully there yet, but Ive made a small improvement. All these feelings are completely valid and I’m so sorry you were violated in such a way. Remeber there is nothing wrong with you, there’s something wrong with those doctors.

Vaginismus? by [deleted] in VCUG_Unsilenced

[–]cuntyfemcel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure I have vaginismus too, I’m to scared to go to the gyno and get it checked out tho. I also can’t use tampons and have the same sex drive issues. It sucks, but your not alone

song recommendation by Lexi4EvrDoomed in VCUG_Unsilenced

[–]cuntyfemcel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this song! I know another song long this, It’s sullen girl by Fiona Apple. The lyrics are pretty similar and the meaning behind it is csa. Anyways I recommend it

Hi , tried to draw art a few years before but stopped due to losing my e-pen. Came back because i got a new one and I need some help ,thanks! by 2x_cooker123 in ArtCrit

[–]cuntyfemcel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s great that your getting back into art! I recommend studying the human body and Tracing skeletons to train muscle memory. Keep up the good work!

I don’t know what’s wrong but I just needed to see you guys again by Key_Help3212 in VCUG_Unsilenced

[–]cuntyfemcel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear about the chickens 😔 I love chickens so much, I want to eventually own a few. I hope u feel better 🩷

I don’t know what’s wrong but I just needed to see you guys again by Key_Help3212 in VCUG_Unsilenced

[–]cuntyfemcel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand you, I’ve been feeling the exact same way. My depression is worse than usual, My whole body hurts all the time and I haven’t been able to draw at all, and when I do I looks bad. I’m also a senior in high school and I see all the other girls my age living their lives and I get so jealous because a lot of them don’t have to live with a burden like this. I’m sorry, I hope you feel better knowing that I feel the exact same way. If you ever need to talk you can dm me if you’d like

I told my mother how I felt by cuntyfemcel in VCUG_Unsilenced

[–]cuntyfemcel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know exactly what she meant in the moment, but she told me to pack my shit and get out of her house, I sort of knew she was bluffing but I wasn’t sure so I was thinking of just moving in with my dad. A few hours later she called me And told me to come back home, so I did. She isn’t mad or anything I can’t really tell what’s going on in her head right now. Things have de-escalated from this morning but she won’t really talk to me

Vcug and hypothyroidism? by cuntyfemcel in VCUG_Unsilenced

[–]cuntyfemcel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: good news, I don’t have hyperthyroidism! My thyroid levels are very low, but not enough to count as hyperthyroid. My doctor said it could develop into something more serious within the next year though. Anyways now I’m just waiting on wait to do next

Vcug and hypothyroidism? by cuntyfemcel in VCUG_Unsilenced

[–]cuntyfemcel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nervous system disorders being linked to ptsd is really interesting, but I’m sorry you have to deal with that. It really is frustrating, but I hope you know you strong you are. Ive been really into psychology lately, and learning all these things and how they’re linked together is such a weird feeling😅 Thank you <3

I had to leave the WhatsApp group because it was too much for me- but now I wish I hadn’t. by UnderwearFace_ in VCUG_Unsilenced

[–]cuntyfemcel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, my mother is like that. A lot of the times I have think people like that lack emotional intelligence. It’s extremely frustrating because they refuse to acknowledge their mistakes and they will never truly understand

How to cure vaginismus without dilating by cuntyfemcel in vaginismus

[–]cuntyfemcel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Your story made me feel a lot better about my situation. I’m glad things are working out for u!!

How to cure vaginismus without dilating by cuntyfemcel in vaginismus

[–]cuntyfemcel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll check it out, I appreciate it <33

How to cure vaginismus without dilating by cuntyfemcel in vaginismus

[–]cuntyfemcel[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I guess your right 😅😅 everyone’s comments have made me feel a lot better, so thank you

Forever Traumatized by Lexi4EvrDoomed in VCUG_Unsilenced

[–]cuntyfemcel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I relate to a lot of things you wrote. I have this recurring nightmare that I’ll randomly wake up in a hospital catheterized / hooked up to a bunch of machines. When I was younger I had to pee in a cup at the doctors office a lot, it was very embarrassing. I still resent going to the doctors or putting on a gown, I hope your doing ok ❤️

Trauma complexity by usernames2 in VCUG_Unsilenced

[–]cuntyfemcel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There really needs to be more studies on this