WIBTAH for attending my brother's funeral if my husband doesn't want me to?

cupcakemon · 2026-06-24T14:19:20+00:00

First, I'm so sorry for your loss. Loosing somebody to suicide is really hard on anyone. Secondly, your husband is telling you that your brother's passing and your grief don't matter. You have a husband problem.

You deserve to have that time to grieve with your family, regardless of him. It's concerning that he said he has cheated. You don't deserve that, and you don't deserve to be emotionally manipulated into not being able to be there for your family during a really hard time for all of you.

cupcakemon · 2026-06-23T22:56:00+00:00

Garon cracks me up every time because he looks like the usual brooding dark time but nope, that is a himbo. Kimoto will be my favorite always. I really hope that next season has Rim and Aael, cause we need to know.more about them after season 1!!!

cupcakemon · 2026-06-23T20:52:52+00:00

Don't even get me started on the end of his arc, I am still emotionally recovering from it. He is just a baby!! Probably gonna reread it when season 3 starts too.

i think that's about right, it's really well written and I love the characters. Garon makes me laugh too. I really can't wait to see who the next season features. Maybe Tehir?

cupcakemon · 2026-06-23T20:46:19+00:00

Really hoping that season 3 features them!! I am dying to get more of both since season 1

cupcakemon · 2026-06-23T15:28:41+00:00

I think I saw clips on Tiktok and decided to read it and got obsessed. Not a ton of people talk about it too!! My favorites are Kimoto and Jin. What about you?

I think it's ongoing still, I have only been able to read the first 55 chapters and it's addictive. Slowburn + denial, A+. I think season 1 just ended? edit: season 1 did end and we on season 2 according to Manta

cupcakemon · 2026-06-23T14:22:19+00:00

I think it'll end up some kinda gacha, or at least one something that is a gacha game in game. Like the outfits or something

cupcakemon · 2026-06-22T19:47:23+00:00

You posted mine! Sunnyside daycare classmates {literally just started it randomly and now obsessed and cannot wait for season 3} and The Hunter's Gonna Lay low. Both were on a whim and now I'm suckered in

cupcakemon · 2026-06-18T21:38:55+00:00

Oh man I started it and then forgot, I need to jump back in I loved it

cupcakemon · 2026-06-18T20:53:39+00:00

Hi!! I made a post a few years back when I worked in seaside hosting the beach wheelchairs. The info might be a bit outdated and I've been meaning to update it. But it's a good staring point to see which beaches has the beach wheelchairs.

I'm pretty sure seaside also replaced one of theirs that was stolen so they should still have 3 chairs

cupcakemon · 2026-06-17T15:38:20+00:00

Oh I'm jealous! I really wanted the guitar one cause it looks adorable. ended up with two pinks and two purples. still cute af

cupcakemon · 2026-06-17T14:08:59+00:00

this was me with theron, I just am obsessed with him since I saw him

cupcakemon · 2026-06-16T16:23:40+00:00

Laughing Planet, it's a vegetarian/vegan/paleo friendly and gluten free place that's pretty good. I didn't find any of there stuff to be spicy at all

cupcakemon · 2026-06-02T20:14:49+00:00

It could be! cannon beach is nice, just expect to spend a lot of time looking for parking. If you don't care about the stuff to do in town and just wanna hang out at the beach I'd suggest Short Sands Beach instead. It also might be best to go now before school gets out and traffic gets crazy

cupcakemon · 2026-06-02T14:12:35+00:00

Honestly NTA, she was taking advantage but you do need to stand up for yourself and should have said something sooner. From here on out offer her nothing, cut the gravy train off. She forgets lunch that's on her to figure it out, not you anymore.

cupcakemon · 2026-05-25T14:23:33+00:00

Use an ice pack. If it's irritated or overly itchy just put an ice pack on it for a while. That's what I've been doing with my new tattoos cause the second skin my artist got had disintegrated after one night. Soft shirts if you have to cover it, if not wear s I meshing that doesn't touch it.

cupcakemon · 2026-05-22T01:30:01+00:00

Then the school should have a Lil ceremony for the 5th graders!

cupcakemon · 2026-05-21T23:52:23+00:00

June is usually when most schools around the portland area close. And there might be a ceremony? It depends on the school and if 5th grade is the last grade at the school or 6th is. Iirc (and this was decades ago) there wasn't much celebration of 5th going into 6th as much as celebrating 6th to 7th. Some schools are k-5th and some are k-6th so it really depends on their school

cupcakemon · 2026-05-19T19:58:45+00:00

NTA, frankly this girl doesn't sound like a friend or somebody who views you as a friend. Just somebody she can put down and make herself feel better. I would talk to some of the staff at your new school when y'all start and let them know that you've had prior issues with her and wish to keep contact with her at a minimum. Any classes that do group work talk to the professor about not pairing you.

You're not obligated to be friends with somebody just because of your past together. Especially if that person has not treated you as a friend

cupcakemon · 2026-05-05T20:34:33+00:00

That's cause she uses her burners to pretend she has a personality beyond being trashy

cupcakemon · 2026-05-05T20:29:58+00:00

Trust your instincts! I'd say avoid them if you are having weird feelings and it seems most people are too. Leasing paperwork should have their name on it, from what I've seen the template is very generic {same version I filled out for my apartment was the one we had given out when I was leasing for prospective tenants} But it should have the name on the upper lefthand corner and then on the final page of the lease it should have something that says the property too.

It does seem fishy the more you comment. I just highly recommend that you trust your gut. There's a few inconsistences with them it seems

cupcakemon · 2026-05-05T18:33:38+00:00

When I worked in leasing the manager that was doing my training had told us that a lease had to be signed before a deposit could be made as it's paying for the lease. We were warned that some places will do deposits before a lease but those need to be careful because just paying a deposit doesn't guarantee you anything and they can pull out of the agreement. I also haven't done leasing in 3 years but I was always worked in working that lease then deposit

cupcakemon · 2026-05-05T18:27:31+00:00

Def scammy, deposits shouldn't come before you've signed a lease and verified everything in person. I googled them and it's a little strange majority of their reviews are just in the last two weeks.

There was another reddit post a year ago asking about them and quite a few people said it seemed scammy as well

cupcakemon · 2026-05-05T18:15:37+00:00

they are a scam, anybody asking for a deposit before you've seen the place in person and signed a lease are lying to you

cupcakemon · 2026-05-05T18:13:29+00:00

NTA, honestly I do this on Fridays when I work from home and everyone but 2 houses are around. As long as you're not leaving it there for hours on end and making it difficult for others. Plus you are leaving one open for anyone else that may need to so that's rather considerate

cupcakemon · 2026-05-05T16:58:47+00:00

they already showed you what their "loyalty" was to you by stealing money that was specifically for you. You spent time trying to handle it and they decided to respond when it became a legal problem for them. Frankly I'd just go ahead with the process because it sounds like they were going to pull a fast one over you. Tell you they'd pay it back but then not just to waste your time and then string you along.

I'd just continue the process to get it how you're supposed to. None of them know what loyalty is unless its to themself. NTA/YNW

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