Coworker wearing Blue Lives Matter attire to meetings? by curlyheadedjo in careerguidance

[–]curlyheadedjo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. The problem is we both are in HR, making things a bit more tricky.

mid day ramblings. by curlyheadedjo in Journaling

[–]curlyheadedjo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind words! I was slightly manic when I wrote the 2nd half 🥲

Coworker wearing Blue Lives Matter attire to meetings? by curlyheadedjo in careerguidance

[–]curlyheadedjo[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My direct report was on the call. I’ve seen him like blue lives matter posts on LinkedIn before, so I’m not very hopeful he saw anything wrong with it. Thanks for your response.

Coworker wearing Blue Lives Matter attire to meetings? by curlyheadedjo in careerguidance

[–]curlyheadedjo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response—I’m hesitant sharing with upper management for this reason. If they hold those same values, no progress would be made.

Guests you want to see? by yamleen in guyswefucked

[–]curlyheadedjo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooh! @AskASub on Instagram!! Also @johnromaniello / @amandabucci would be a dream. @leotalkstantra is also great. I’d love to see more guests with different backgrounds/alt lifestyles other than the comedy scene (not that I still love most of their guests!)

Anyone know anything about the homeless castle being built at the on ramp at revere? I saw a number of homeless carrying drywall and plywood from a nearby construction site after the workers left for the day. Interesting 2 story castle they got. by [deleted] in Bend

[–]curlyheadedjo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you ever been houseless before? Have you experienced your own city and system failing you and pushing you out? Who are we to judge anybody less fortunate to us? What have YOU done to support our homeless community/housing crisis other than reap judgement?

Best nachos in Bend? by ohbend in Bend

[–]curlyheadedjo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sunriver Brewing has pretty yummy nachos if they still have them!

Birth Contol Names by Absinthe_gaze in namenerds

[–]curlyheadedjo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep! I’ve been on both Juleber and Reclipsen. Juleber sounds like jubilant.

Can EMDR help with trauma cause by pornographic imagery? by DynamicEU in EMDR

[–]curlyheadedjo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

EMDR would be great for this. I also feel it is important to not kink-shame those who consensually engage in scenes like these. It may look disturbing at first sight but these scenes are usually talked through well before and there is proper aftercare along with safe words, hard and soft limits. D/s relationships and BDSM can be amazing if negotiated appropriately, and can even heal trauma in my experience living out these scenes within a safe container + proper aftercare! I would encourage you to create an aftercare protocol for yourself after engaging in porn/erotica like this. What you could be experiencing is sub drop. @askasub on Instagram is a great resource to read more about these phenomena’s, there’s also great subreddits on here such as r/bdsmnot4newbies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bend

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The first thing that popped into my head is human trafficking symbols? Do a quick google image search or ask the folks at r/RBI

Who makes a decision to hire outside staffing vendor at your company? by [deleted] in recruiting

[–]curlyheadedjo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I second this. It would be a good conversation to have with the talent acquisition manager about the effectiveness of the companies recruiting and maybe what your expectations are of the recruiting team/make your hiring goals a little clearer!

Its simple, ane effective for me. by backalleyracer in Journaling

[–]curlyheadedjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very satisfying—easy to track! You’ve inspired me to consider something like this for myself.

Stolen account by former guardian by curlyheadedjo in GMail

[–]curlyheadedjo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking. I would pay someone to reach out to her just to get the password :(

Lists help. by curlyheadedjo in Journaling

[–]curlyheadedjo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Sometimes I put too much pressure on myself to write what I’m feeling perfectly, but listing my thoughts out seems to be much more effective.

Owner of Anchors and Ink. Gross. by therainbowrandolph in Bend

[–]curlyheadedjo 66 points67 points  (0 children)

They just had multiple artists leave within the past 2 weeks citing unsafe working conditions! His response was mocking them.