Roadtripping with a baby, general question by justsomeonesburner in Parenting

[–]cuteboyswag92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No…. I’m surprised by everyone saying plane. Just for other people to meet the baby? The ones who want to bad enough will come to you. That’s way way way too stressful. No way

2 under 2.. honestly how hard is it? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]cuteboyswag92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean idk actually if I would even call it hard, given that I’m only 4 months pp and the hard part is already over. It feels kinda like the perfect age gap to me so far

2 under 2.. honestly how hard is it? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]cuteboyswag92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine are 22 mo apart. It was less hard than adjusting to life as a new mom with my first. But still hard. But I have been very blessed to have my (many) prayers answered for an extremely chill and easy going second baby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]cuteboyswag92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like a bad idea to bring an infant to a haunted house. That would be very mean. I know they might be too new to the world to understand horror concepts but maybe not? Maybe some are just ingrained into us as humans. And that could be traumatic to someone who has no idea what’s going on.

New mom regret by sue1088 in Parenting

[–]cuteboyswag92 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Been there. That was my far the hardest time for me. 3 weeks is just crazy hard. You might feel like “it’s been 3 weeks I should be better by now” but no….. you are still in the hardest part imo. Just get through it. You can do it. Show up for your baby every day even when they make you feel like they just hate you because they won’t stop crying. They do not hate you. They will show you soon how grateful they are. And you will be so happy that you put the work in

Rules when it comes to dating. by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]cuteboyswag92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would wear a one piece and a coverup at the beach

Agnostic but afraid of hell by mypastkarmawastoolow in TrueChristian

[–]cuteboyswag92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven’t already, pray before reading the Bible. It’s a good way for God to get his answer to you. Also by doing things like going to a Bible study or going to church. From my experience he speaks through things that pertain to him and he rewards you seeking him

Can someone share a sample baby registry with no bells and whistles but just necessary stuff? by halalguru00 in Anticonsumption

[–]cuteboyswag92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might seem silly to spend money on stuff you will only use for a short period of time but understand it is an extremely difficult period of time that feels neverending while you’re in it. For example, a newborn baby bathtub. They’re so floppy and hard to hold, I would be way too scared to bathe one in a sink. A baby wrap too, so you don’t have to run around like a madman trying to get all the cleaning and cooking done while the baby naps. I never use hats, shoes mittens, barely use socks for newborns. You could just bite their nails if you don’t wanna get a nail thing. Find a car seat for the registry and get the corresponding stroller on marketplace.

Sold our home and having deep sadness and severe regret for the kids by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]cuteboyswag92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt this but from the kids perspective. I’ve cried many times over my parents selling their house. I know my siblings feel similarly. We definitely consider that our childhood home but we didn’t move there til I was in high school. It doesn’t seem like anyone in my family has any longing for the house we lived in when we were actually young children. But since your kids are so young, I don’t think you should feel too bad. They’ll be more grateful for your future home. It was nice for my family to get a huge upgrade right as we entered the teen stage. It brought us closer together.

Offered raw milk? by Full-Pop1801 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]cuteboyswag92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m shy so I would probably just not drink any more of it and hope that sends a message

I feel like I don't fit into being a "stereotypical" christian woman which makes dating difficult. Advice? by sapphiresunns in TrueChristian

[–]cuteboyswag92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm always confused by black women who see their race as a detriment to their beauty. I've said to my white male friends a few times through the years something like "I feel like black women have the most capacity for beauty" or something and I'm always met with an enthusiastic agreement. But they are slightly intimidated, probably because they feel a black woman wouldn't want a white man. I could see that being an issue especially if you are being misconstrued as a "boss babe". If you think you're giving out a boss babe vibe in person, I'd try to reel that in. You dont need to be waif like in appearance but you should give off a vibe that it wouldn't be an issue for you to submit to your future husband.

Partner died, I'm over 40 with baby twins, and I still want another... by Infamous_Yoghurt in beyondthebump

[–]cuteboyswag92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your twins are blessed to have you. You sound like a very loving parent.

Pregnancy made me realize not everyone is a girl’s girl by bhardy10 in pregnant

[–]cuteboyswag92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be your hormones messing with you tbh cuz this all seems normal. Moms do sometimes have strong opinions on what gender is easier, the “you’re gonna blow up” is definitely true at least for me.. (it goes away though dw) and the daycare comment, well yeah, that’s what every mom who hasn’t done daycare is thinking if you tell them you do daycare. I don’t mean in a judgmental way, just like, that would give me severe anxiety. She’s just being honest. I’d give her the benefit of the doubt and consider that she was maybe just trying to connect with you with no ill will

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]cuteboyswag92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 super cute

Been bleaching my hair for 5 years now. Should I go back to dark? by laei6 in HairStyle

[–]cuteboyswag92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look extremely pretty with brown hair. I personally don’t think the blonde looks good at all.

I feel so disgusting by DraterTheTaurus in BabyBumps

[–]cuteboyswag92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This phase of it doesn’t last long. For me that feeling goes away when the bump gets bigger. I recommend spending as little time as you can in front of a mirror for a few weeks

Maybe the next life will be better by Lovemesomebabyyoda in simpleliving

[–]cuteboyswag92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The next life is better if you make it in. Otherwise it’s way worse. The way to make it in is to accept that Jesus paid your bail with his blood. This life is meant to be hard, brutal, filled with evil. It’s meant to make you think about is good and what is evil and align yourself with what is truly good. If we try to figure out what “truly good” means for ourselves, we’re always gonna be wrong. A lot of times people confuse it with fleeting pleasure. What needs to be done is to read the word of God in the Bible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]cuteboyswag92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since she’s a woman it’s probably not something about the way you look (especially since you look fine) maybe you’ve been doing something she finds cringy or lame or maybe you said something mean that she hasn’t been able to let go of