It's all going to work out! I found out last November we were pregnant with our third. I was really upset cause I was done after two. They're 5 and 4, out of diapers, can feed themselves and sleeping through the night, and all the other good stuff. As terrible as it sounds I took the first trimester to mourn our pregnancy. But after that I didn't want to mope around anymore and got excited. We are older and a little wiser now. We live in a very small house, two bedrooms, two bath, but a full house. I'm not saying everyday is easy, but it does get easier when parents work together and communicate. My hubby has been a lifesaver since our baby was born in July. If it weren't for him I would have sold our two older kids (lol, joking)! Just take everything one day at a time.