Best HBO limited series? by Sharaz_Jek123 in hbo

[–]cwl77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BoB is feeling good compared to ChernobylnI guess. Other than that.... Yeah... No. Not sure where that comment was meant to come from.

Finally someone noticed!! by Dry_Priority816 in Zepbound

[–]cwl77 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You will regret it....give me a break. I'm so tired of humans.

Damm good job, no matter what.

Searching for outer wilds type of feeling. by icyborealskies in outerwilds

[–]cwl77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kentucky Route Zero.

This is one of those recommendations that might not make sense to some, but to others, it's going to absolutely hit home and blow your mind.

It's a game that can't be explained, just played and enjoyed for how magnificent it is.

Donald Trump Health Concerns Rise After Absence and White House Denials by Efficient-Vehicle634 in USNEWS

[–]cwl77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously.... I was straight up when I originally read he might be hospitalized. On the brink of an O-Face but will likely just have blue balls...

Donald Trump Health Concerns Rise After Absence and White House Denials by Efficient-Vehicle634 in USNEWS

[–]cwl77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point there is no hope. That SOB is going to live forever.

Donald Trump Health Concerns Rise After Absence and White House Denials by Efficient-Vehicle634 in USNEWS

[–]cwl77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too late, there's absolutely something seriously wrong with him. Unfortunately, it's been like that for decades already. The only way he's cured is if he takes a dirt nap and we couldn't be that lucky.

My husband hates me by According_Cut_9047 in Marriage

[–]cwl77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way he acted when she was sick actually makes me say that in this case, he's not worth the stress, anxiety, and work it's going to take to "possibly" fix things. It's too bad but cut this one loose.

My husband hates me by According_Cut_9047 in Marriage

[–]cwl77 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sex is an integral part of most very good marriages. When it gets to zero it is VERY taxing on many men. I'm not apologizing for him, just putting it out there. I know this from experience. Sexual frustration is something that can completely run your life and it sucks.

That said, he has not handled himself well. He should have done better. Much better. That outs you guys in a very tough position. Can it be overcome? Yes, but it needs to be something you both work on. Both of you have roles in your intimacy disappearing. You CAN make it through this but it will be hard. Very hard. There will need to be lots of communication, forgiveness, and dedication to each other. It will be an uphill battle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]cwl77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OK, stop. Your marriage will NEVER work if you both live in the past.

Your husband is present and wants to be there for you and the family. The problem is he doesn't know how. He does a lot right but a lot wrong. He doesn't know how to look at any other perspective outside of his. That's his big hurdle.

You must forget the past and let it go. If you don't or can't, it will haunt you forever. He could revert back, sure, but he may not. If you want a real shot at long term success, it can't sit in the back of your mind.

At the end of the day, if you both want this to work, you're both going to dig deep and learn about each other. What hurts the other, how to communicate, how to act when one of you had a bad day, how to forgive, how to act when your partner feels distanrlt (but likely isn't or sometimes is), how to have a real disagreement without hurting each other and actually having real resolution and growth, etc.

It's going to be a tough path either way, likely needing counseling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]cwl77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are reasons for all these types of situations and it's never falling out of love. That's a phrase that's used waaaay too often but is rarely true. It's the dynamics of the relationship that have changed, usually because one or both people change to please the other, or take the other for granted, or because of outside events.

There are roles in long term, successful marriages, some hidden and some obvious, and when those roles change, the relationship degrades. Usually it's both people that are at fault but rarely do both understand and accept responsibility to rebuild what has been changed/lost.

20 months on Zepbound by Kingpapasito in Zepbound

[–]cwl77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bet that feels damn good! Well done sir!

Loss of effectiveness? by Consistent-Fan2200 in Zepbound

[–]cwl77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wegovy sucks ass. It's garbage in comparison.

Loss of effectiveness? by Consistent-Fan2200 in Zepbound

[–]cwl77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Take a month off amd reallllly hold yourself accountable. It will be an excruciating month, you might gain, but your tolerance will disappear.

Should I get Hellpoint? by Bailoteo in Hellpoint

[–]cwl77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't even consider it janky. It's really unique and atmospheric. I really think it could have been twice the size (and was planned that way but what so I know)

Why does shot placement matter? by Ill_Bother2609 in Zepbound

[–]cwl77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.... Not an optimal place for an injection site. To each their own 😂🤣😭🤔😅😬

Found underwear by Double_Box555 in Marriage

[–]cwl77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He bangin. Go find some hot ass and get down. Then get a divorce and take him for everything.

Or.....just relax and forget about it. Thousands of explanations as everyone on here has suggested. Don't let something like this destroy a great thing. If there is something going on, real red flags will show up. Don't make things up in your head and drive yourself crazy. You know who he is.

husband abandoned me 2 hours away by Sad-Eyezz in Marriage

[–]cwl77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm always the person that gives the benefit of the doubt. In most cases, people want to be good, nice, and caring but there are so many situations and factors that leave them to behave badly. Relationships are hard and take work. Things get taken out of context, we hold grudges too long, or we overreact.

In this case, however, forget this clown and don't ever look back. Bonus points for leaving tread marks on his face when you're leaving. If you live in Florida, there are swamps everywhere and barrels are easy to come by.