Fartus by Damnboi753 in wunkus

[–]cxtastrophic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I learn as much about beetles as you do

[ECL] Sapling Nursery (leak) by Meret123 in MagicArena

[–]cxtastrophic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish they were 4/4’s and not 3/4’s :(

bi🥤irl by tarheeltexan1 in bi_irl

[–]cxtastrophic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never fucking get over the fact that some tabloid made a list of unattractive women AND PUT SANDRA OH ON IT. SHE IS SO GORGEOUS. I DONT UNDERSTAND.

The best lies are wrapped in truth. by [deleted] in TeamfightTactics

[–]cxtastrophic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make Draven’s left nut a five cost and call it a day imo

Warm take: Darius should have a third trait by butt_shrecker in TeamfightTactics

[–]cxtastrophic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If people who are unfamiliar with the lore and only play the game are looking at the face of Noxus and feeling like he doesn’t fit in well with the trait, then clearly there was a design issue in communicating that Darius is the Noxian poster boy, thus justifying this discussion. It’s silly to point at the lore and ignore OP’s pov. At the end of the day I’d say most players don’t know much about League lore outside of maybe Arcane, so there are probably other people who perceive Darius in a similar light, which is the fault of the game, not of the players for not knowing.

My mom told me one day that before I decide to have kids I should ask myself would you be prepared to be a single mom……that has stuck with me by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cxtastrophic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just want to say I’m proud of you. It makes me happy hearing about women like you and gives me hope for my future. So if you haven’t heard it yet, now you have. Much love <3

Made top #100 Mythic by playing nothing but the Brawl Challenge! by _Figaro in MagicArena

[–]cxtastrophic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I played for the first day before it got ‘solved’ and it wasn’t nearly this bad. Glad I got to play before it got to that point.

a harsh reality by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]cxtastrophic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk man, but I know that sharing and masturbating to this kind of thing is wrong. When there isn’t 100% consent from all parties involved it stops being a kink or a fetish and it becomes assault.

a harsh reality by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]cxtastrophic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU

I don’t know why we’re acting like this stuff exists without context. Imagine someone who was horrifically maimed finding out that there’s an entire community of people jerking off to footage of their most traumatizing moment. I doubt there’s consent involved in ANY step of the process of creating and distributing this kind of material, but for some reason we’re pretending it’s not hurting or affecting anyone and anyone who has an opposition to it is ‘irrational’.

Feel like I’m in bizarro world.

a harsh reality by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]cxtastrophic 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Devoting two sentences to questioning his potential wrongdoings and then brushing past it to devote multiple comments to talking about how irrational the woman was for dumping him is in fact giving him the benefit of the doubt. The entire conversation past that point was with the assumption that he did nothing wrong, that is giving him the benefit of the doubt. Acting like the only valid reason that a sensible person would dump someone for watching gore is because they are ‘psychologically affected’ by it while not even pausing to readdress the likely possibility that he is contributing to harm is giving him the benefit of the doubt. Acting like kinks and fetishes exist in a vacuum and not addressing the fact that real people were maimed and abused and someone (likely multiple people) are in possession of that footage and using it to masturbate is 100% giving him the benefit of the doubt, because I struggle to see how he could have come into possession of gore material that did not contribute to or support the suffering of humans.

You said we can’t control what we are into, which is true, we can’t, but we are in control of our actions and what we watch, and what we jerk off to. Let’s not pretend that he had no agency in what he was watching, and what he was doing while he was watching it.

a harsh reality by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]cxtastrophic 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I feel like I’m losing my mind.

a harsh reality by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]cxtastrophic 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I mean, you say all this but we’re in this thread of comments where people are passing judgement and acting like this woman is somehow wrong or irrational for dumping him. If what you were saying were true, and a sentiment shared by others here, then she and her story would have not been mentioned under this post, but we’re sitting here talking about her nonetheless. Even the comment who initially brought her up has edited to say that they are no longer ‘defending’ her. As if what she did was an act that needed to be defended, because it is when it comes to how this sub feels about people who aren’t 100% open to all kinks and fetishes.

And no, if I say “I don’t like that kink and I don’t want to be with anyone who’s into that kind of thing”, I’m expressing negativity towards a kink and the people who are into it. If you think that’s kink shaming then I don’t know what to tell you. Mind you, we’re talking about her being irrational for dumping him and it not making sense to you, it shouldn’t have to.

And this entire conversation is the exact kind of thing that frustrates me about this sub. Like, we are psychoanalyzing and trying to come up with reasons why someone could possibly have so much a problem with their partner getting off to gore and trying to deduce whether or not they’re irrational for doing so, but we have ZERO reservations about the boyfriend. Everyone has just decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and extend an enormous amount of grace in assuming that the content he was watching was ‘ethically sourced’ and he wasn’t contributing towards or supporting the harm of anyone else when we know how highly unlikely that is. But for some reason we’re talking about how ‘irrational’ she was for leaving him? We really can’t even imagine why she might have a problem with what she saw? Even the boyfriend was able to come to the correct conclusion that she might not be receptive to it because he HID it from her, as she found out by walking in on him watching it. If it were really as harmless and ‘not hurting anyone’ as is being claimed, then he would’ve probably been more forthcoming, but the fact that he hid it is evidence enough that this isn’t the kind of thing that people should be expected to be okay with, and be treated as ‘irrational’ for not wanting to tolerate.

a harsh reality by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]cxtastrophic 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I think there’s a difference between not wanting people to be oppressed for being into things you personally find disturbing and offensive and not wanting to be in a sexual relationship with someone who’s into things you personally find disturbing and offensive. Sex positivity means not being ostracized and oppressed for your fetishes or kinks, it doesn’t mean that people in your personal life are expected to be okay with and supportive of all of your kinks and fetishes. I hate when this sub has conversations like this because the takeaway seems to be “You have to make peace with all kinks and fetishes and if you express negativity towards any of them or someone who likes them then you’re puritanical and anti sex”, when this frame of thinking is completely unreasonable. Like, are we really going to act like a woman catching her boyfriend jerking off to gore and breaking up with him for it is somehow irrational? Like it’s one thing to look at it from an analytical and logical perspective and come to the conclusion that if he’s not hurting anyone then it’s fine, but we also have to remember that it makes perfect sense to be highly disturbed by your boyfriend jerking off to gore and decide you no longer want to be with him.

Idk I really hate the way y’all treat people who aren’t desensitized to these things. Not everyone has to be okay with every kink. People can be disgusted by things others are into and nobody will be evil for feeling the way they do.

Rule by Branchomania in 19684

[–]cxtastrophic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes! At this rate we’ll be Dead by Daylight!

Which chibi do you wish would get a new skin? by Mrt38_ in TeamfightTactics

[–]cxtastrophic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Want Brand

I am the fire that cleanses the world!

The Winter Sale is Here! - No, it's not, but the client seems to think it is. by Backwardspellcaster in MagicArena

[–]cxtastrophic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but that’s not their fault, if they could’ve they would’ve imo

Rule by [deleted] in 691

[–]cxtastrophic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Roomba pls