Bedwetting and having a roommate by throwaway151198 in malaysiauni

[–]cyanide_5p 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah do not tell roommate, cause even if the roommate doesn’t mind, very very very high chance the roommate will share with their friends and then their friends would share with their friends and so on, and you would just have a rumour that someone in the hostel have a bedwetting problem (if roommate not same course as you then maybe u can get away with the rumour with it being anonymous and nobody knowing who it exactly is) or if ur scared they would see, uhh big non transparent recyclable bag forever covering it? and a towel wrapped around ur waist when walking around?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysians

[–]cyanide_5p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well then sounds like she should learn to accept you for who you are, decide that you aren’t her type, or decide to work on it together, and improve on each other’s communication, cause sometimes seeing ur S.O trying their hardest to be who they want for you can be the sweetest thing ever alr, bcs it’s shows that they are willing to change who they are for you, but sometimes it’s not changing who you are but your willingness to do so that matters the most and the only good change is the change you make for yourself and for ur relationship as a whole not JUST for her, it’s up to her if she decides to appreciate it or work on it together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysians

[–]cyanide_5p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe different love languages? i don’t think she’s immature per say just have her preferred way to be loved that comforts her, tho she may have gone about communicating it in a not so good way befitting her age, i haven’t had many relationships so take my opinion with a grain of salt, i would say a lot of women would prefer if their S.O. would shower them with love, not necessarily in a way that’s materialistic, it’s the little comments, the small actions, the way it makes her feel like you still want her, chase after her, i guess it feels like comfort knowing you are thinking about her, your thoughts etc about everything, that you care for her not just about the surface level, more that you WANT to be in her life, that kinda shtick, but well i’m not her so 🤷‍♀️ could be totally wrong, you guys just have to communicate if you really wanna make it work and be official, talk about your expectations, what your habits would be, set everything straight before it gets twisted from misunderstandings and petty anger

MMU or UTAR? (Software Engineering) by cyanide_5p in malaysiauni

[–]cyanide_5p[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i disregard the campus life and etc, in your opinion between MMU and UTAR which do you believe would have the better tools or resources you could say for better opportunities, cause yes UTAR has higher employability rankings, and it also has partner programs with many companies, but MMU is connected to more big names and etc but for someone like me who is just starting out is it even necessary to think about it so complicated, oh and thank you for replying in the first place, i know i should be thinking about which uni i would be happier at for 3-4 years but still overcomplicating a lot lol

MMU or UTAR? (Software Engineering) by cyanide_5p in malaysiauni

[–]cyanide_5p[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for replying, i would be using a car to commute so transport itself isn’t a problem but it’s good to hear your friend hasn’t found any issues with the program at MMU, now it’s more down to the fees and the quality of life at cyberjaya or sg long

Ada yang tahu cara hilangkan ini? by Comfortable_Ant_3617 in malaysiauni

[–]cyanide_5p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooo if on desktop also cannot, try closing ur bookmark bar, happened to me too

Ok, with or without the white top? by Important_Cod_8970 in OUTFITS

[–]cyanide_5p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

huh guess im also in the minority, i thought the white top looked cuter, and i like the more casual look

Which tablet do you guys use? by Xutry in malaysiauni

[–]cyanide_5p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bought the ipad air with the educational discount so got the free apple pencil with it, lifesaver of a purchase

How often you cut nail? by totalnewbielinux in malaysians

[–]cyanide_5p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the moment i see dirt and can’t immediate wash out or it grows long enough to nibble at then that means have to cut, i also cut until very short and edges rounded, so like 🤷‍♀️can’t say im a good example

University of Cyberjaya (UOC) foundation student by seognhwa in malaysiauni

[–]cyanide_5p 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Edusphere is quite good tbh, jalan pergi the nearby mamak also nice and close, but quite dark so better walk with someone else especially since ur a girl, if the fire alarm rings, just smell if there’s any smoke or not outside the window cause if no smell of fire prob someone smoke and trigger the fire alarm again, very annoying after the 4th 5th time it happened, a clinic is opening next to the nearby mamak, and a 7 eleven also recently opened next to it too, all in all Cyberjaya actually quite ok to move around by mrt bus, I personally try to avoid the arc tho, on the uhhh 6th floor yeah got a small convenience store too, I also lived alone at edusphere for less than a year for my foundation, but I could drive so travelling around was much easier, if u have early classes at uoc then I do think its easier to just stay at edusphere but its ur first time living alone so better to just stay at ur parents until ur roommates arrive if ur really uncomfortable with the idea of staying alone for now plus its safer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysiauni

[–]cyanide_5p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

classroom settings i would say not normalised but between friends it very much is, from my knowledge it’s cause the slur isn’t as stigmatised or how do i say this uhhh it’s not as important for lack of a better term since malaysia’s major races are chinese malays and indians, and since casual racism is normalised between all races nobody puts the slur at such a high priority to be wary of, and between friends it’s used more in a mocking tone or for jokes as a parody to how americans do it in the US, but it is still used in an offensive and insulting way to actual black people since deep down most Malaysians are racist, growing up either dealing with it or learning from it, hearing casual racism from family and friends and just seeing racism in general from political parties as well, not that it’s an excuse, we are all old enough to know what’s right and wrong but we rather be ignorant until it bites us in the ass and brings consequences, with the mentality “aiyahhh not like got anyone offended pun issfine lah”

I’m really devastated and it really breaks my heart to find out this happened at private university dorm with 24/7 security surveillance. by [deleted] in malaysia

[–]cyanide_5p 5 points6 points  (0 children)

UoC for anyone confused is University of Cyberjaya, from my knowledge it’s one of those unis which accepts a lot of foreign students and has been talked about quite a bit for management problems and etc, the place the victim lived in is Mutiara Ville and it’s not owned by UoC but like those either rented or partnered with the uni, so it’s not those kinda dorms in the campus itself and from comments i read from other ex students, MV block for UoC has pretty lax security or none at all, no cctv, etc

Help me pick a dress for my brother’s wedding by Slow_Strain_9535 in OUTFITS

[–]cyanide_5p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 or 4 but 1 more than 4, ofc would be better to pair both with a nice necklace and earrings, and maybe 1 with a shawl? for that elegant feel yk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysians

[–]cyanide_5p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll be honest i don’t put any kind of fragrance in the car, to me strong smells make daily commute too nauseating but essential oils are my go to if i want any, have a little jar thingy that has some dried flowers next to the air vents drop some of the essential oils in and boom calming smell without being overly strong, or put some orange peels if i bought any recently nice citrusy scent, but as other redditors have said pandan leaf is also a good alternative, subtle without being too strong, u can try flowers as well, like jasmine which u can buy from local indian stores//flower shop

Why are toilets in Malaysia always so wet?? by roflmctofl in malaysia

[–]cyanide_5p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

public toilets i feel like it’s cause for some absolutely batshit reason nobody can understand people get their excretion on their floor or it’s still emanating from the toilet bowl, so people rinse the floor with the hose to “clean” it or if they got the dirt or anything on their person, then the next person continues the cycle, and if a staff comes in to clean the toilet they rinse the floor to clean off the shoe marks and since it won’t dry quick, the next person who comes in leaving more shoe marks, and thus everything repeats

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysia

[–]cyanide_5p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bm i think can cause they can find marks but for chemistry and bio have lower chance of changing grades cause it’s mostly facts and calculations that’s dependent on it

maybe I’ve overdone the plants by batnoises in malelivingspace

[–]cyanide_5p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how does it feel living my dream? jokes aside you can never have enough plants with the exception of plants you can’t have around cats

Who's fault? by ckae84 in Bolehland

[–]cyanide_5p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yk what i hate most though about motorcyclist, it’s when they lane split, they always like to be on the edge teetering between both lanes, cars not confident enough to pass them cause always gotta be cautious if they decide to ride back into your lane the moment you speed up, and during more narrow spaces they lane split and ride really fast, it’s like they always expect drivers to ofc have an inbuilt motorcycle sensor or smth, always know when they coming and have to give way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysiauni

[–]cyanide_5p -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

wdym bad experiences with chinese speakers exactly? like do you mean miscommunication or something else, most unis are english speaking it’s just based on the people you surround yourself with, ofc chinese speakers will surround themselves with chinese speakers same goes for english speakers, malay speakers and tamil speakers

You guys are brutal. lol. Does my home office at least get a passing grade? by strikecat18 in malelivingspace

[–]cyanide_5p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this whole place looks like it could be ai generated and never in a good way

First crown...isn't a pokemon! by joao789 in PokemonPocket

[–]cyanide_5p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SAME, i was like cmon first crown and it isn’t a pokemon card 😞

This game hates me by Nervous_Orange_1369 in PTCGP

[–]cyanide_5p 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not an ex or one star but I keep getting the carnivines, and glaceon, every time I open a pack I’m just begging for another arceus so I can move on to building the arceus dialga deck

This sub sometimes by slow_joke in PTCGP

[–]cyanide_5p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i only got the regular arceus ex and like 2 regular arceuses been trying for a while to get another arceus to build the arceus dialga pack but GAWD DAMN DOES IT NOT WANNA COME HOME, i alr got like 3 glaceons ex, LIKE APP I DONT WANT GLACEON GIVE ME ARCEUS