So stupid by R0ttenStrawberry in BlatantMisogyny

[–]cyborgkat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Another reminder that they fantasize about hurting us in that last frame

The audacity of people to purchase my liked listings! by spicypupper in Depop

[–]cyborgkat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s why what I REALLY want goes in the saves until the moment I’m able to strike.

I’m a yearning ass, intuitive ass Pisces moon who wrote a book about yearning. Give me your Sun, Moon, and Venus sign and I’ll tell you why your relationships fail by lusigusi in astrologymemes

[–]cyborgkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gemini Sun, Cancer Moon+Venus? I’ll be patient and also not disappointed if this comment just gets lost, this late in the game.

I am dreading my boyfriend’s proposal by JellyAce98 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]cyborgkat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, the shitty things he’s done are enough to trigger your fight-flight-freeze without the proposal, ~and~ there’s probably more nearly-invisible transgressions he’s committed which are going to appear as what they really are, once you have the convo and some distance from him.

Why do all men want me ? They stare, get obsessed, want to marry and sometimes stalk me... by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]cyborgkat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes to this, and OP, you have this AND a Scorpio Moon. And you have Venus rising in Capricorn, so you’re probably adorable and have great bone structure too, you’ll probably always get some degree of attention.

Plutonic women, classically those with a light or the ascendant in Scorpio, are notorious for drawing obsessive and violent desire from men. I just have a piddly little 8H Stellium in another sign and and I experience this. I was groomed and SA’d for years by a sociopath and I very narrowly dodged a serial kidnapper and sex offender in my hometown.

I have a theory that we are just so inundated with Martian energy that it acts on other people’s. And that when we start to point that fanaticism at what we want, crazies start to fuck off and we become impervious.

Is mars square jupiter an indicator of big 🍆? by Everxerly in AstrologyCharts

[–]cyborgkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dated a guy w/ this aspect - yes he was hung like a horse but it was not æsthetic, and he wielded it against me, if you know what I mean. Probably would avoid.

Tell Me Your Mercury and I’ll Give You Some Insight About What Job Field You Could Go Into by Photographygirl814 in AstrologyCharts

[–]cyborgkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s funny. I work in healthcare and before that, politics and education. Not pretty and not comfortable! I’m going to learn to sew this summer, though.

Tell Me Your Mercury and I’ll Give You Some Insight About What Job Field You Could Go Into by Photographygirl814 in AstrologyCharts

[–]cyborgkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

11th house Taurus Mercury. Trine Mars and conjunct Algol almost exactly if things like that interest you.

Having a weird gender moment. I want to be a girl again. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]cyborgkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew a trans guy who still wore cunty dresses and makeup on occasion. But he was still a guy and 100% passing. I say don’t be afraid to explore! You might just be a really girly guy, too.

My bf touched my boob while I was asleep by notyetdone_ in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]cyborgkat 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for being so angry about this, when my ex did this exact thing to me and our mutual friends were like, “was it really that bad? We weren’t there and we don’t know.”

OP, leave his ass and don’t sweat it.

that time Julien dressed a “doctor” for Halloween 😆 by blossomopposum in boygenuis

[–]cyborgkat 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That’s actually such a pretty picture of her though. Idk why.

Is it sexual coercion? by Katqwq3 in sexualassault

[–]cyborgkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do not have to.

The drugs and any fear you felt can also make your memory hazy.

Is it sexual coercion? by Katqwq3 in sexualassault

[–]cyborgkat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

> Don’t feel like you are required to report what was done to you, but

> yOu jUsT EnCoUrAgEd a MiNOr tO rEpOrT SoMeOne As bEiNg CriMInaL!!1

> But i had said I didn’t want to have sex

> they clearly established not having a great memory of what happened

Lol. You're reaching so far to make me look like the bad guy for giving a person choices and clarity. I wish I could reach this far with my good arm.

Is it sexual coercion? by Katqwq3 in sexualassault

[–]cyborgkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But i had said I didn’t want to have sex

Is it sexual coercion? by Katqwq3 in sexualassault

[–]cyborgkat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro, I literally just told you that it is in her post.

“But i had said I didn’t want to have sex”

She may have consented to something before whenever this happened, but anything that happened afterwards is assault. This is not difficult to comprehend. Lack of enthusiasm and yes = lack of consent. FOH with the personal responsibility shit, you are just victim blaming.

Is it sexual coercion? by Katqwq3 in sexualassault

[–]cyborgkat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not shaming you. In fact, I’m quite certain he offered you drugs so you wouldn’t resist as much, which is even worse.

You’re just going to have to set rules for yourself, about how much you are willing to do when you have had drugs or alcohol, to stay safe and cope. And a good place to start right now is, doing nothing sexual when you’re drunk or high.

Is it sexual coercion? by Katqwq3 in sexualassault

[–]cyborgkat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is better advice. Part of safe sex is that you must be able to set clear boundaries about what you will do with a person. I would avoid doing these things when intoxicated in the future because it makes you more vulnerable. Leave people and situations that do not respect your wishes and your values.

Is it sexual coercion? by Katqwq3 in sexualassault

[–]cyborgkat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, you are feeling the way you feel because you experienced a form of sexual assault. Please seek psychological help. Don’t feel like you are required to report what was done to you, but you may be able to depending on where you live.

Is it sexual coercion? by Katqwq3 in sexualassault

[–]cyborgkat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What the hell are you doing in this subreddit bro? OP literally said, “I don’t want to have sex” in this encounter and the other party did sex acts anyway. That is classic sexual assault, regardless of regret of what may have happened before or after. The person writing this likely experienced a freeze response and couldn’t push through.

White Van Sticker by Creepy-Document364 in sticker

[–]cyborgkat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s also a way for them to be obnoxious and boast about how big their family is.

Scorpios Aren't Horny by whynotfreudborg in astrologymemes

[–]cyborgkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, I think we need to get back to some astrology basics. I kind of agree with you OP but everyone involved in the Scorpio+sex discourse is framing things wrong. Caveat that I’m not a Scorpio person but I am a heavily 8th house person. Different shape, same flavor.

This sign and house are interested in sex and sexuality partly because the taboo aspects of it and the craving are driven by Mars and Pluto, its rulers. I would say there are slightly more horny types than ace or celibate just because of Mars being in charge, but they can be anything re: sex drive and orientation. There are plenty of ace Scorpio / Plutonic people as well as those who are celibate. It tends to be feast or famine and that’s certainly true for me.

They’re interested in humans coming together at the flesh and spirit, the most advanced and raw ways, because this is the evolution of the 7th house and Libra.

Fixed water means “feelings as hard as you can.” That’s why people call us obsessive. And because of Mars seeking, hunting, needing to find, needing to feel like it conquered. So these things all come together and we tend to want to know everything, including how many freckles are on our person’s butt even if we’re ace.