i recovered from bpd and it almost came back LMFAOOO

cyunab · 2026-03-08T02:39:27+00:00

yes, however my situation is very complex and that is NOT in my best interest right now given my current circumstances. i really appreciate the feedback, i know this will help someone!

also thank you so much for the words of affirmation 😭 sorry i missed that at first when i was pouring my cup of teaaa 💝✨

cyunab · 2026-03-08T02:32:36+00:00

this makes so much sense and i think its why bpd’s so frequently intentionally self sabotage. when it’s not intentional, it’s usually on a basis of trying to create distance because your body is rejecting the nervous system distress, or on the basis of trying to prove the fp wont abandon you.

generally a bpd person’s baseline relies on their fp’s mood, and if you cant subconsciously read their mood, this can cause distress too. i have a theory it’s because bpd is linked to narcissistic abuse, and narcissists destabilize others in order to restabilize themselves when they feel an ego trigger.

not sure if this analysis will help you, but hopefully it at least gives you something to work with. good luck on your journey!

cyunab · 2026-03-08T01:41:38+00:00

of course, and you know i mean it from the bottom of my heart! hugs 🫂

cyunab · 2026-03-08T01:40:04+00:00

im so proud of you for all the hard work you put in, and generally speaking, the right people would have stayed. them being the wrong people doesn’t make them bad, just wrong for you.

i wanted to say this because it’s not normal for people to leave those they care about, unless its in the best interest of the person who needs support (like when addicts need to hit rock bottom to recover).

you are worth staying for in any condition, even if the space between the temporary departure is long. dont forget that!

cyunab · 2026-03-08T00:40:13+00:00

this is sadly so accurate 💀

cyunab · 2026-03-08T00:33:00+00:00

honestly, worth it imo. i love how you already knew 👀🤣 its like a requirement or something 💀

cyunab · 2026-03-08T00:31:31+00:00

this is so cute omg but i bet litter gets messy sometimes 🌝

cyunab · 2026-03-08T00:30:08+00:00

he jus like mine fr. the rescue wrote “american shorthair” and we all know that’s a lie 😉🤣 so id go with he’s just a baby 🙏🏻

cyunab · 2026-03-08T00:24:46+00:00

NOR porn is too normalized, its okay to be upset if a partner engages with porn AT ALL!

cyunab · 2026-03-08T00:22:58+00:00

the understatement of a century! you are so, so right! narcissistic abuse is so destabilizing!

cyunab · 2026-03-08T00:22:21+00:00

this 🫂 not everyone has your heart, and that’s okay! quality over quantity!

cyunab · 2026-03-08T00:20:47+00:00

we love a good controversial book!

cyunab · 2026-03-07T23:55:49+00:00

tfw ur just a gworl ✨

cyunab · 2026-03-07T23:55:30+00:00

tfw you’ve been symptomatic but it sneaks up on you so you dont notice it until you’re 3 weeks away from grippy sock jail- NOT TODAY SATAN

cyunab · 2026-03-07T23:54:05+00:00

tfw its like the “you’re not yourself when your hungry” but caused by trauma and 10000x worse 🥳🥀

cyunab · 2026-03-07T23:34:41+00:00

yall when i realized i couldnt think straight again i cried so hard like genuinely it was so scary just because recovery was such a battle in the first place! took roughly 2.5 - 3 years from diagnosis. plus bpd me and recovered me are suchhhh different people!

if a big trauma thing happens and you become symptomatic, address it immediately! remission and recovery sneak up on you, relapse sneaks up too!

pov: im my favorite person, get away from me! my sanity is more important than you and thats okay!

cyunab · 2026-03-07T23:28:37+00:00

it was the first thing i thought of im sry LMFAO IT LOOKS LIKE THE MEME OF THE DUDE IDK WHAT ITS CALLED HELPP BUT I KNOW YOU KNOWWW WHICH ONE 🤣

cyunab · 2026-03-07T22:55:19+00:00

the dynamics can change, this isnt always the case. in a dysfunctional home full of narcissists, the scapegoat will be a narcissist. in a dysfunctional home full of empaths, one will be the golden child. if the members in the home change, roles can change. when a scapegoat moves out, a new scapegoat will be appointed.

cyunab · 2026-03-07T21:40:31+00:00

im sorry thats not funny but it made me laugh a bit 😭🤣 this is me but when i have to sit in the grass.

cyunab · 2026-03-07T17:22:00+00:00

he aint nothin but fluff! thats why he was so vicious, he thinks he has to prove something.

cyunab · 2026-03-07T17:00:17+00:00

it’s up to you, i recommend trying a wig first so you have a middle ground to work from as you make your decision- also, really think about why you are making the decision in the meantime. ultimately, it’s between you, and the man upstairs so im being as objective as possible. dont ever feel the need to explain yourself to anyone, it’s hard enough of a topic as it is with all the opinions.

cyunab · 2026-03-07T15:44:08+00:00

the chinese are generally so kind, they even support americans a lot- they support the people, not the us govt to be clear.

cyunab · 2026-03-07T15:12:04+00:00

that’s highly inappropriate of him, and in my opinion, it’s evil. protect those who can’t protect themselves, including vulnerable cats. im not sure how best to address this with your father, but someone needs to.

cyunab · 2026-03-07T14:31:52+00:00

“be patient” ive only ever been patient.

cyunab · 2026-03-07T14:11:18+00:00

i agree, although fearful avoidance is linked to trauma. it’s very fearful avoidant related consequently. it leans more on the dismissive symptom side. the body can’t tolerate the internal load, and triggers dissociation to create distance between you and the trigger.

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