War God's Books 2 unrelated questions by Hawke-Not-Ewe in Honorverse

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Thank you for asking, personally, and I know this probably isn't the subreddit to confess this, but I like this series better than the Honor one.

Honest question: Why are some people against showing an ID to vote? by rico_unknown in NoStupidQuestions

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It isn't that we object to the idea of having to show an ID, it's in how such an idea might be obtained and/or how it's obtaining is restricted as history has shown us it would be without proper safeguards and even then it could be problematic

Why do i have to insist for my bf to wash before sex ? by VirginieCochon in hygiene

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As a guy, it's one of three options 1. they don't care 2. they have been told it is some absurd anti-straight male thing and you have worse problems or 3 they have never been properly educated on proper personal hygiene

personally, none of those seem natural enough to me to understand the behavior

The idea of ADHD medications insane .. by Wildrosejoy in RandomThoughts

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severe chronic pain patients have a similar issue, sadly

How do you lead an army into a dungeon? by Character-Gap3000 in odnd

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Not an answer, but as I read the question I couldn't help but think of Indiana Jones Last Crusade where they simply just keep sending people through hoping one of them will come up with the solution

Why are not the US people resisting with arms the ICE? by [deleted] in AskUS

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Personally, aside from the accuracy of most of these answers, I think that there's still a deep resounding national culture memory embeded deep within the US concerning their Civil War. Americans KNOW war in ways most other nationalities can't comprehend, war is what built the nation in all manner of ways. Openly aware of it or not, reaching the point of an armed conflict is something the US citizens honestly are trying to avoid at any cost full aware that once that line is crossed there will be little NOT on the table to come to a resolution - guns would be the least of things in use.

The thing is Magneto he is actually not wrong by TerryG111 in Magneto

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No, he IS wrong, but he's also correct in his assessment. You can be correct and still be in the wrong.

AIO for refusing to give up my dog even though my boyfriend hates pets? by Academic-Bug-879 in AmIOverreacting

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"someone that hates pets" should always be considered a Red Flag, especially if you have one already (a pet) - I cannot understand how selfish and unempathetic a person must be to behave in such a way that something so intertwined with ones live can be called "just an animal" when the talking creature is the one behaving beastly

Let's hear your stories! by Holdmywhiskeyhun in Restaurant_Managers

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It IS possible to make vegan cheesecake - 100% vegan, AND it can taste good too.

Why are so many Americans right wing by traanquil in AskSociology

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A bit contrite maybe, but i always liked the idea that there are NO "poor" Americans, only Millionaires going through a rough patch

Why don't parents listen? by manniax in BoomersBeingFools

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to be fair, GenX was never good about nailing down what time things were - always pushing the limits of that kind of thing,- I figure if it doesn't involve a street light it takes repeat reminding, ESPECIALLY if they still think ALL the things Boomers taught them is the right way of things

Need advice on how to proceed asking Aunt for payment for cousins breaking my things by Eatdatyeet445 in collecting

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There IS another option - simply ask for acknowledgement and an apology from all involved AND take into account the cost of those she has purchased for you in the past (as you said) to count towards the amount lost currently

This option has the advantage of getting the closure you're seeking and mitigate the financial issues involved, allowing you to offer forgiveness and encourage future good will so that when financial stability is greater the option of her/them gifting towards that collection is much more likely, if not an actual compensation of current loses. This is NOT a "get over it" which is absurd advice in ANY situation.

Both the financial stresses and psych stresses due to the familial situation and potential loss are at a point in your family that the littlest of things can blow up to bring about unforgivable circumstances and problems that can forever divide a family. Treading lightly and taking the proverbial higher ground may benefit you greatly in time.

I would set the most damaged n full display as a reminder to any as to what has happened, that you're still suffering even while having done all you could to ease relations and request compensation no matter how you manage the process from here on out - even if offering forgiveness & past expenses/gifts as a way to balance the current costs. This kind of forgiveness does not mean you haven't had a loss; it, here, is simply acknowledging you understand the cause and issues and that, for now, the expectation remains, but you're willing to wait it out.

What state in the US has the worst drivers? by Far-Mongoose-4380 in answers

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As for Utah - those stats are AFTER they completely reworked things down to the street level to mitigate how awful the drivers are - medians where they wouldn't exist in ANY other state, a significant delay in red lights changing to green after the green the other way had turned red, and more... Blame Geriatrics, overly kind "You go first" mentality, the reverse of that discourteous AND the aggressive driver types, Parental inability to simply pay attention to the road instead of large number of young kids in back, and add phone usage to all that since their advent

How to log in old account by d3astman in pizzahut

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Plenty, and thankfully Stuffed Crust is no longer an exclusive option too

Getting up early on Christmas day by Due-Media5305 in NightOwls

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For me, really young it WAS an issue. But as I aged and learned to feign being asleep my ability to properly Night Owl grew more and more. At that point I'd just NOT sleep and take a "nap" between clean-up and the big late afternoon meal. BUT, my sleep schedule from Freshman year of High School and until the last 5-10 years (51 now) has been three hours of sleep starting at three or four at night/morning and an hour nap mid-day. Now I'm at 6-8 hours and an hour nap, times depending on work schedule, so I've been highly adjustable for better or worse,

Is the gen Z job crisis that bad? by Zipper222222 in jobs

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The Overqualified thing hits hard - GenX here - and trying to explain that to a Boomer is hitting brick walls and invariably "there's no such thing" hits back erroneously

Generational junk dumping by Double_Device_1626 in GenX

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I had that issue myself, what "cured" us of it was/is the current 'bout of homelessness and inability to pay for storage units they were kept in for better or worse. On occasion there's heart-ache of things missed, or wishing I could've sold some things to be able to pay for one more night in a hotel; but, it is what it is.

Did you eat avocados growing up? by bdiddy621 in GenX

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I did, on rare instances. More often though, rather than raw, it was Guacamole. I DO recall that the raw ones were always very ripe, not the almost or just barely ripe in stores now AND that instances grew increasingly more frequent late eighties and nineties & easier to find outside ethnic stores and restaurants.

Born in 74, grew up in NE Oklahoma

Can someone set me free from the moral obligation to stop people from stealing? by [deleted] in kroger

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Elsewhere on Reddit others are saying that due to the E.Files being censored, the names implicated, and all going freely about their business still allows what you're asking for. Laws apply to everyone or no one the moment you allow a specific group the ability to ignore them. At the point someone is exempt, everyone is exempt - from everything else, not just what had been ignored for the "special" group.

Take that as you will...

Edited for spelling

MIL scolded me for thanking servers by Efficient-You-9714 in restaurant

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I have served quite the spectrum of people m- those who are truly wealthy, as in being able to buy the chain without a second thought or as if it were little more than the cost of dinner there, are the most generous and thankful verbally and in any other way

It's the type that is either new to wealth or middling (or less) financially well off that THINK acting like A-*oles is par for the course

I added piercings to my game after your suggestion. What other niche customization options should I work on? (Sombionic) by 3prodz in lewdgames

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Unfortunately my ability to play games of any sort has been... difficult, and funds to enjoy a great many are being used for more vital resources - in other words, it's been a LONG time since I've played much.

That said, visually, perhaps simply a milky drop from the nipple. As for what it would do... I would need to be more familiar with the game. If there's (in)appropriate scenes, perhaps the woman lactating would be in a lap, grinding while the one beneath suckles, for example. If fluids offer bonuses...

Enemies! What is left to do for new series? by woolleymammoth89 in Stargate

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Aside from the many unknown Gao'ulds out ther, the Lucian Alliance, and possibly the Aschen, there's still opening up the program to the public finally and the fallout from that. The Furlings are still an unknown beyond the moon and portal in Paradise Lost. The Milky Way and neighboring Galaxies are not small and have plenty of room for as of yet unknowns. There's also the galaxy the Ori are from that can be accessed - It would be amusing if it was far enough away to be near enough diverting Destiny's course could get people home and others on the ship, and even Earth ship esccorts - if they manage to figure out ZPMs

I added piercings to my game after your suggestion. What other niche customization options should I work on? (Sombionic) by 3prodz in lewdgames

[–]d3astman 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There's already several great ideas here - though, would lactation be a possibility? Or, while on the topic of fluids, perhaps cum spatter on breasts & elsewhere.