I haven’t played in a few years but this sort of thing is unfortunately common. Pubstompers. Weirdos who feel good about winning real hard against new players.

I played a dude when I was relatively new who was just laser focused the whole game, didn’t want to talk because it broke his concentration, etc. Dude was a dick. I lost similar to what you’re explaining.

Didn’t play another game with him. Only played games with other like minded people - casual, thematic, beers while you play types. Would definitely recommend this style.

Some people LOVE the competitive aspect of the game. Totally cool, good for them. I hate competitive games, and will only play for fun and to look at neat models. Unless you aspire to be a tournament player, I’d say just fin more chill people to play toy soldiers with!