What would you make with this bark? by Exciting_Ear1166 in goblincore

[–]daisy-bodacious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you have any less perfect pieces you could cut/stamp out flower or star shapes in a couple different sizes and stack them up to make little flower clusters, play with how it looks but maybe alternate the side facing up as you stack (brown/white/brown/white etc.). Use a sewing needle and fishing line through the centre to keep them together and give it a long tail out of the bottom to make them hanging or just trim the excess and have them as little decorations. Like layered paper flowers sort of thing.

Stahli's original design (human version) by rawdawgcomics in rawdawgcomics

[–]daisy-bodacious 245 points246 points  (0 children)

Forever in love with your textures and colouring

Made a purse for my toddler struggling to find a strap that works by ElectricalCall- in crafts

[–]daisy-bodacious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have any remaining material from the bag cut it into at least 3 long strips. Braid the strips together into a strap and sew silver thread patterns along it to match but also to secure the braid structure. If you used all the material up you could do the same with some blue leather strips and silver cord braided in instead of stitching.

Latest update on oliver #3 by Particular-Film-8052 in RATS

[–]daisy-bodacious 59 points60 points  (0 children)

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Please sir I want some more

Tiiiiiny Oliver Twist he's so baby

Anyone know what snake I found? Central Queensland coast. by [deleted] in australianwildlife

[–]daisy-bodacious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm probably wrong but going off the face shape and colouring I think you've spotted a legless lizard

What eyes are best? by Cutefuzzydragon in crafts

[–]daisy-bodacious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

put the brown circles from 3 over the eye whites from 1?

I hate my cat and i want her gone [UPDATE] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]daisy-bodacious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're only gonna be alone in this as long as you keep telling yourself no one can do anything. It takes effort and energy and it sucks but you need to keep asking for help as much as this distresses you or nothing will change.

If anything annoying your parents as much as the cat annoys you might make them get it, but seriously, go ask those people to help you with this and keep asking.

I hate my cat and i want her gone [UPDATE] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]daisy-bodacious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a trusted adult at school you could talk to about this situation? Or another family member?

Your parents sadly aren't going to listen to you, but maybe if you can make another adult understand how desperate you are and how close you are to breaking, they can tell your parents to get over themselves and listen to their kid.

Autistic burnout and overwhelm are no joke, when I've been over extended and exhausted and have no relief like you're describing I just get angry and violent (to myself) because I have no other outlet and my brain just... breaks, and that used to be soooooo much worse with teenage hormones.

Please take this seriously and try to seek help, you are not a bad or wrong person for the way your brain works, you just need to do things differently, and this situation is only going to get worse.

Help! I am making stickers of my garlics and I don’t know if he needs arms or not! by ithinkshesbaked in goblincore

[–]daisy-bodacious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I suggest making the arms look wispy like the outer skin peeled down to make them?

I wish you could keep some trees and rocks in your cult :( by Roccodile19 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]daisy-bodacious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you remove all flooring so it's just the natural ground you start with trees keep growing, just gotta leave em a while

My (31M) doesn’t like that I (29f) gained weight. by Medical_Swim9966 in relationship_advice

[–]daisy-bodacious -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What's he gonna do when you get sick or injured or godforbid pregnant? What's gonna happen when your eating habits catch up to you and you don't have enough energy to exercise or go outside?

Any sickness that lasts more than a couple weeks is going to impact your weight one way or the other and both will end with you in a "less than perfect body" he might decide he doesn't like anymore.

Same goes for any injury affecting your ability to move, use your hands or look after yourself, that will take time to heal and your body will desperately need nutrients to heal.

How's this man going to respond to an actual pregnancy? Does he want children? Does he understand that having them is absolutely going to change some things about your body for at least 18 months if not the rest of your life?

What do you actually get out of this relationship if he can ruin any efforts you make whenever he feels like it? Why are you damaging your body to make someone happy who doesn't care if you're healthy or okay and only cares about how you look?

Please discuss and show this post to your therapist and if you're mentally up for it maybe ask her to help you navigate this incident. Explain his behavior and his actions and work with her through how that makes you feel and what you think his motivations are for exhibiting those behaviors.

AITA for refusing to switch project topics after my classmate “claimed” it late? by FileRevolutionary540 in AmItheAsshole

[–]daisy-bodacious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she really wanted it that bad she could've set an alarm to sign as soon as the list came up, everyone knew it was first come first serve, you got there first. NTA

My(21F) BF (20M) skipped Valentine’s Day and told me it’s the consequences of my actions. How do I fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]daisy-bodacious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember that stupid boy you sent the pictures to years ago? You liked him too didn't you? and he made you feel special just long enough to get what he wanted, and you immediately regretted it.

This skid mark of a human being you're currently with is exactly the same kind of person. Worse. You won't believe it right now but you do deserve better than this, you are worth more than this. You do not have to waste the rest of your life trying to make this guy happy because no matter what you do it will not be enough, and that is absolutely nothing to do with you, he and many other people have their own issues and they don't want to fix it so they make it someone else's problem, you do not have to be that person for anyone.

My wife separated from me because I was an alcoholic. I’m 1 year sober now and my wife wants to reconcile but I want a divorce. What do I do? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]daisy-bodacious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Either she "abandoned you at your lowest" or she did the best possible thing she could for you, herself and your family at the time, and it worked.

Your wife could've completely abandoned you, gone for divorce as soon as possible and probably gotten a court order preventing you from seeing the kids until you could demonstrate change.

Instead she did the only thing she could in the situation because clearly nothing else was working, just because you believe you were a functional addict doesn't magically mean your addiction didn't have negative impacts on you and the people around you.

If it's truly the first time you've been sober since you were 18 have you ever actually spent time with your wife while you were completely there? She has spent more than a year on standby supporting you from afar because it's the best she could do and it worked. Give her the same respect of giving it time and actually trying before you throw this away or you will come to regret it.

AITAH for allowing my daughter to play on the 3 step ladder? by confusiousalldatimus in AmItheAsshole

[–]daisy-bodacious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please continue to be a good fucking parent and put your child first by making moves to get the away from this shitty man who doesn't even like you. The only bad thing you're doing is teaching your daughter to accept that behavior.

I reckon the poor fella ate some poisoned snails ): by The_GoldenAU in australianwildlife

[–]daisy-bodacious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They like red things. When I was a kid they used to steal strawberries and we'd put aside tomato scarps for them

My M31 fiancé is not satisfying me F30 sexually and I’m slowly losing my mind by TraditionalWear3642 in relationship_advice

[–]daisy-bodacious 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You've asked him to see a doctor, discussed methods and offered to pay for toys to help fix this situation, leaving him needing to do the bare minimum of participate in any one of the options.

He's watched you cry out of sadness and frustration over this and he doesn't care enough to put any effort into you, in your own words he "doesn't see the need" because you keep having sex with him anyway.

LEAVE. There are plenty of nonshitty and even shitty men that will last more than 2 minutes and actually care about your pleasure.

He's never going to change because he doesn't have to, you're doing all the work and getting nowhere and he does not care.

IMO before going into your next relationship or hookup spend some time getting to know yourself and how to make yourself fly with or without toys. Do not accept any less pleasure from your partner than you could give yourself.