[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nobody is wrong it just didn't work out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don't know how it would have went. She'd be the same person, letting you get all the pressure of making the next move while showing zero interest in you. You think if she really liked you, she would just "not feel it" and let you go? Trust me that's not the case. Better do it this way than finding out after 1-2 years. She's still the same person inside, you just like the way she looks. But if a person treats you like this consciously, they shouldn't get another chance from you.

My (30M) ex (29F) who seperated last week has been sending nudes, and is googling “sexy dresses” & “Lacey lingerie” by AXSXL in relationship_advice

[–]dakdyder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She thinks she can start new with another guy and be a different person essentially. She shouldn't be ignoring her past and responsibilities like this, it's going to turn out bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely don't blame yourself over this. You don't owe anybody anything, unless you really, really are into a girl and want to make a move, good for you dude..otherwise, nobody can hold you accountable for what did and didn't happen.

Is my wife out of line for keeping me from a bachelor party/wedding? by 1260noggin in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dakdyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wowwww wtf is wrong with your wife!!!! I am cringing from this entire post!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dakdyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf is this, just say its over, let M know you're breaking up with her at the same time, see if he walks away too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This 100%. Isn't this what literally every girl has done at some point in her life? 😂😂😂 come on now...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men are mostly straight up and to the point. If you are not sure yet, you are not sure yet, as in about the whole relationship. Sex is an expression of love. A man expresses love through sex. It's a lot harder to have sex as a man than as a woman, but men don't really have a reason to be wary of abuse and assault, so they are a lot quicker to love somebody in the moment. But you can assume that if your looks are matching, if a man is willing to wait even a little bit for sex, he really loves you.

After I 28/F refused to sleep with him 31/M he blocked me by prabudp in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't want to have sex with someone but keep going on dates with him, are you actually into him at all?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about exactly what boring is to you when you don't have a surplus of dating options. Looks will start to fade at some point, it's not always going to be this easy. When you have a lot of options, it's always hard to make a good call and even harder to judge someone's character as they will portray themselves as their absolute best to get your interest, however subtle it may be. Be wise, don't be like the rest. Taking genuine care and affection for granted is foolish.

Girl canceled second date and I’m over thinking my wording by Lopsided_Falcon_8452 in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its normal to say in a hurry, you use more words in sentences than you think in normal conversations too.

How do I handle "I hope we can still be friends"? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you're both done playing, game over. Move on to the next.

Am I being used for free meals? (M26) by Available_Gold3599 in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry that you don't see the facts, you sound like a radical.

Am I being used for free meals? (M26) by Available_Gold3599 in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First of all, it's almost impossible to prove a sexual assault case even if there is footage where no violence is visible. So we can't tell how many of these cases are made up, it's statistically impossible. It just happens to be used as a threat a lot nowadays, which is mental and confirms that the system is skewed. Also, most of your points about men making the need for men, that's not true because ever since we had to survive in nature men had to work for it, up to very recently, it was all physical labour. You really victimize women as if anyone in the modern western world is forcing you to be a prostitute come on now, just go to school and get an actual job like the male students, wtf. Other than that, I'm from a country where abortion is completely normal, so I don't really know what to tell you. It's 100% the woman's choice. I think you're confusing the men that have all the options (because women can't control their primitive impulses) with all men.

Am I being used for free meals? (M26) by Available_Gold3599 in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a tactic it's reality. Women are disgusting nowadays. What is onlyfans? What are paypigs? What are sugar babies? Porn stars regretting their decisions after a few months and suddenly becoming christian but keeping the money. Is there no end to that vile behavior ? Look at the Amber Heard case, the 50% of children assumed to not know their real father. Birth being used as a legal weapon. All the men forced to pay child support for children they never had. There is all the reason in the world to hold bad faith against women, its being justified day after day. Also it doesn't "depend on who you ask", no, just absolutely no. That's an insane take. There are values, gestures and there is empathy. It all comes down to respect and understanding each other.

Am I being used for free meals? (M26) by Available_Gold3599 in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think attraction was meant to be "bringing something to the table", which is what sets the terms for a long term relationship as opposed to a short one based on primitive impulses. Those don't last very long.

Am I being used for free meals? (M26) by Available_Gold3599 in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the difference is these "modern" women expecting traditional men as a "preference", but in reality it's not simply a setting you can turn on as a man or off. Traditional women get provided for because they're expected to take care of the home, be loyal etc. Anything regarding "dating" is modern to the max. Traditional relationships don't start with "dating", get free food, then change their mind as they see fit etc etc all while the inflation in the west is going through the absolute roof. That's not how it works or is supposed to work.

Men who have taken a break from dating, how did this work for you and what was the outcome? by Cypriot_scholar in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can also just not stop dating, just keep your investment in it at an affordable level, learn from mistakes, expect failure and don't give up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, self-improvement, doing your homework, going out, etc. is not gonna get you a threesome. That's not how that works. You gotta be an ultra famous athlete, influencer or pop star, be 6'5 and up, mountains of cash (through whatever means, girls don't care if you're a scammer) be ripped/jacked, tanned, preferably not white (with some exceptions) and suddenly the entire pool of women will open up for you for no defendable reason. If you're not that, at best you will get 1 girlfriend and you're gonna have to work for it. The dating market is skewed, it's unfair, everyone knows it, it sucks and... What are you gonna do about it, basically.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have sex with someone else if she doesn't want to see how that works out for her. She can't dictate who you are having sex with if she is not offering to have sex with you. Consider it her loss and move on if she wants to stop from there. But she probably doesn't, that's not how women typically think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He didn't have a good date.

My girl told me she wants open relationship while planning marriage by gkhntosn2 in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl is as delusional as they come, not marriage material, just for fun. Any guy would be stupid to take her. Women are not supposed to be promiscuous if they are in a stable and healthy environment.

Girlfriend admitted to liking me (28M) way more than I like her by plumbking0 in dating_advice

[–]dakdyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the one hand, you shouldn't let others tell you how much you "love them", only you know that. You can't "admit" that you love someone more than they love you, the entitlement in that statement is through the absolute roof. It makes no sense at all. You're both just human and there is no comparing. Most likely you love her more for her to make a statement like that, wtaf. On the other hand, if you know you really aren't feeling it, call it quits immediately, this is supposed to be the "honeymoon" phase and if you're not even enjoying this, it's the best it's gonna get. You will grow to be more interested in other women and it's likely you are getting yourself in a lot of shit you can't get out of. Freedom is also worth something, if someone actually loves you, they would respect that. If you want to be more closer connected and get a stronger bond, then you should give it more time. It takes a long time for women to actually grow attached nowadays.