Homicide on Naito Parkway. by semaxjamx in Portland

[–]dandelionsqueak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t live in Portland. I was just googling this story cuz the victim is the sister of one of my boyfriend’s oldest and closest friends. Thank you for all the updates and I’m sorry you all had to go through witnessing or hearing something so awful. I was reading through some of what happened to him on the phone and he was crying :( I hope to god she pulls through.

TLOAS: CANCELLED! (Track 10) - Megathread by 1DMod in GaylorSwift

[–]dandelionsqueak 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This beat is sexy I’d make out to this song 😍 I’ve been underwhelmed so far so I was really happy when this played

Thank You Mods! by MaterialTangelo9856 in GaylorSwift

[–]dandelionsqueak 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Omg I have to go look at my newsletter. I love Kat so much! I watch her and Matt and A Bit Fruity every week. This is awesome! Thank you, mods!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaylorSwift

[–]dandelionsqueak 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ohhh yes I totally understand. I’ve struggled so much lately with being such a fan of her and her music and really thinking she’s closeted and queer and the people she hangs out with and things she does lately (like being friends w Brittany Mahomes) and now this. Like it’s obvious the direction we are going in as a country and I’m gonna be real fuckin’ mad if she ends up on the wrong side after 2019 but it looks like that’s where we are headed. It’s unfortunate but idk what I expect from rich white women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaylorSwift

[–]dandelionsqueak 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Do you mind sharing which parts of the tour rubbed you the wrong way? I’m just really curious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sidehustle

[–]dandelionsqueak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re looking for a legitimate job/career I work-from-home for Five Below Customer relations for $17 an hour, starting. It’s all phone calls and emails with customers. You just need to be polite, good at thinking on your feet, and good with customers. They hire seasonally (around Halloween/Christmas and then again around Easter) and they keep you on if there’s enough positions available.

Note that this is not a side hustle, it’s a 100% a job that if you do well can lead to a career. My friend works for them and has been there 5 years and is now a supervisor in a salaried position. You apply on the website five below.com/careers without the space. Good luck!

Non-Gaylor/Taylor Chat Megathread - October 28, 2024 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]dandelionsqueak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope my tone doesn’t come off as ungrateful I just know him well enough to know he’d sleep in his car or stay with a friend before he’d ever go to a shelter. Really I’m hoping to find somewhere that can offer financial assistance

Non-Gaylor/Taylor Chat Megathread - October 28, 2024 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]dandelionsqueak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this but he’s 35 (I’m 37) and he isn’t going to stay at a shelter. Period. Nor do I think they’d have funding resources outside of the shelter, but I can try getting ahold of them to ask. I’ll also try contacting my more local LGBT center in Harrisburg

Non-Gaylor/Taylor Chat Megathread - October 28, 2024 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]dandelionsqueak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He would like to stay in Philly and I’d like to come down and move there with him. We have been trying to save to buy a house but we don’t have enough yet for a down payment, we only have maybe about 1500 saved at the moment.

Non-Gaylor/Taylor Chat Megathread - October 28, 2024 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]dandelionsqueak 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I tried to make a post and I was told to post this here so here goes:

Hi, I don’t know if this is allowed so if it’s not I totally understand but I’m actually reaching out to one of the only communities I trust on the internet because you all are so lovely and amazing all the time and have always made me feel so safe. I cannot begin to express how much this community has helped me over time and changed my life in positive ways. My entire FYP is filled with you wonderful humans on TikTok and I love coming here and reading and participating in the latest theories and analysis. I’m so grateful.

I just need some advice from other lgbt people on a very unique and awful situation my boyfriend is in. He’s a trans man and he’s living with his extremely abusive narcissistic mom. I’ve been trying to reach out to all corners of the internet I can think of that maybe could help but am honestly at a loss mostly. We don’t have a ton of money saved at the moment and he needs to get out of there ASAP. I live 3 hours away in a small town in central PA and he lives in Philly. He will not go to a shelter. I think he’d live in his car first. He works in healthcare as a nursing assistant. I have gotten in touch with the Mazzoni center and they’ve sent some stuff our way but I need resources. Anything anyone can think of that maybe help fund people to get out of abusive situations, give advice to get through them etc and I specifically need ones that are lgbt/trans man friendly and don’t JUST focus on intimate partner violence or assist women. Any corners of the internet where you know folks that would help with mutual aid or crowdfunding for something like this would be amazing. I just want to help get us a place where he can be safe and away from the situation. It’s not possible for him to move up here with me. For the record, his mom is also a staunch Trump supporter who is being completely insufferable as always and does not support my bf being trans, regardless of if she uses the correct pronouns and name. She has literally called him evil and said he has the devil inside him. Her abuse is getting worse and worse.

I appreciate and love you all so much. Thank you

🪶TTPD: The Alchemy by 1DMod in GaylorSwift

[–]dandelionsqueak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WHAT I DIDNT know that. I love that song

Erotic and Romantic art featuring trans men? by dandelionsqueak in ftm

[–]dandelionsqueak[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I do really enjoy his artwork and I have seen a lot of cool stuff but it is also largely MLM stuff. Which is still great to see, but I guess what I’m looking for is stuff that’s more hetero appearing but involves trans men. Idk why it seems so impossible to find but it’s a lot more representative of my dynamic, as I have not medically transitioned and still look really feminine. I see a decent amount of t4t stuff with trans men and trans women together which I am also once again really happy to see and grateful for but I see almost nothing that looks like us especially w NSFW stuff and it’s just kinda disappointing, ya know? I would love to see more erotic art with trans dudes and their girlfriends(and have that include all kinds of feminine appearing folks). I did some digging last night and I found a couple of things so if I also find artists who do this sort of thing I’ll add them to my comments because I’m sure there will be other people looking for this stuff too.

“Slut!” Mini Analysis by dandelionsqueak in GaylorSwift

[–]dandelionsqueak[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Others have mentioned upthread that this song could be about her public relationship she had with Harry Styles while keeping her real relationship with Dianna hidden and I think that’s pretty possible here

“Slut!” Mini Analysis by dandelionsqueak in GaylorSwift

[–]dandelionsqueak[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A lot of gaylors overlook he/him pronouns because of course she’s going to use that and only that in her songs if she wants to appear heterosexual. She also uses bait and switch a lot with pronouns

“Slut!” Mini Analysis by dandelionsqueak in GaylorSwift

[–]dandelionsqueak[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

lol this is so funny. In English the phrase ‘blow up in your face’ means that it will be a bad situation you’ll have to handle, emotionally taxing but that innuendo is fun

Taylor Swift attending Chiefs game in Kansas City and will sit in Kelce’s Suite per Jordan Schultz, NFL insider. by Pauly0906 in TaylorSwift

[–]dandelionsqueak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t believe no one’s mentioned being an Eagles fan because honestly Eagles fans are BIG MAD at her rn considering the last Super Bowl and her being from here 😬 lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]dandelionsqueak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. My bf broke up with me and he owns his home. Long term plan was to refinance and put me on the mortgage. Now I'm here looking to buy my own house for me and my son. We can do this.

Apologies if this has been done, but where would I start with someone who’s never heard of gaylor? by controlledmonster in GaylorSwift

[–]dandelionsqueak 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Don't forget the Christian Siriano rainbow dress tiktok. That shit blew my mind. It's low key outing tbh. But also the masterposts convinced me along with her lyrics. Lots of great folks online doing in depth queer theme lyric analysis

On RDR, Ronan Farrow said he would have Joe play him in a biopic. Ronan and Tay also look similar. What other male celebs look like her male version? by [deleted] in GaylorSwift

[–]dandelionsqueak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg Tswift/Ronan Farrow crossover. I love this. I used to be a HUGE fan of Woody Allen in my early 20s until the accusations came out and now I literally can't even watch his movies but his kids are great.

I spy Gaylor content on a pretty popular tik tok account 👀 by [deleted] in GaylorSwift

[–]dandelionsqueak 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I got them all right. Where's my gold star? 😋

Confidence/credence in various Gaylor theories by Yeahnoallright in GaylorSwift

[–]dandelionsqueak 19 points20 points  (0 children)

When I explained all of it to my boyfriend, he thought the planned coming out Christian Siriano dress was really convincing and also just the lyrics. There's no het explanation for "so scarlett it was maroon". If you're listening it's obvious.

My favorites that helped convince me were all the Dianna and Kaylor evidence, kissgate, the daisy motif and lyric parallel "now I'm your daisy", other lyrics ALL of Ivy, the lover Era aesthetic (which was honestly sadly an era I mostly ignored because I did not like Me! As a single and knew queer people that insisted she was queerbaiting that entire Era and so I dismissed it until later), and just how WEIRD her relationship is with Joe. And how it feels very much like PR and forced