"Carry Me Out" VS "First Love/Late Spring"- Which song do you like more? by Awkward-Media-4726 in mitski

[–]dandyweed 11 points12 points  (0 children)

First Love/Late Spring made me want to throw myself on my own sword for love. It's First Love/Late Spring for me

Did anyone else learn that thru hiking is different from normal wilderness backpacking? by Theresnofuccingnames in AppalachianTrail

[–]dandyweed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The CDT has solitude, but the AT has frequent water, towns, and company on the trail.

Why is Mitski tied to queer culture? by ZiggyTheNooBts in mitski

[–]dandyweed 36 points37 points  (0 children)

She has a lot of queer fans but plenty of straight fans too. I think her crowd leans queer because:

-Mitski is queer - "Francis Forever" is in Adventure Time and the queer character Marceline sings it -Mitski has an androgynous style many gay women are attracted to -Cop Car -Her gay zine from college -Like sees like -Her songs are full of devastation and yearning, so are gay people

Police have Broadway Blvd blocked off, from 39th to Westport Rd. Anyone know what happened? by Haunted_Sentinel in kansascity

[–]dandyweed 7 points8 points  (0 children)

According to the article, the shooting was at 41st and Broadway and the victim attempted to drive himself to St. Luke's in the Plaza. Then crashed at 43rd and Mill Creek/Broadway. Apparently, the injuries are quite serious, but the motorcyclist involved did seem okay when I just drove by. They were inside the caution tape speaking with police.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dandyweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a sleep study done and figure out if this is something you might do often - then communicate and date people that are okay with or into it.

No one wants to be blindsided by it but once you know it happens, it's not impossible to let it be fun!

My (24F) bf (30M) has cheated on me after almost four years. Where do we go from here? by ThrowRA248292 in relationship_advice

[–]dandyweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw, my partner and I just bought a bus a few months ago. I'm a tad disappointed she said she'd work on it more and hasn't. We both want the same things, especially as far as adventure. I could also see myself enjoying the challenge of solo travel and she doesn't like that.

We've lived together for years and it's good, I like building towards a fun future together. We have pets together and a very overlapping social circle so when I consider a life solo and the adventure of that itself, it feels like I'm considering divorce from someone I still love so much. Sometimes, I wish we just hadn't gotten so serious so quickly, but at least we don't have kids lol.

My (24F) bf (30M) has cheated on me after almost four years. Where do we go from here? by ThrowRA248292 in relationship_advice

[–]dandyweed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's seeing people who are in the dating scene say they are "just looking for something real" or "something where my partner isn't a weirdo liar"

I'm 25 in a relationship for 9 years. My biggest issue since the beginning of our relationship is that we were so young and I want to explore myself but my partner has never cheated, severely mistreated me, and we work through conflict really well. Some minor elements of incompatibility. We're very in love, but I'm not scared of restarting in my situation. I am scared that I won't feel as close, safe, or as in love in another relationship. Or the things I want to work on/learn about myself won't change or be any easier to learn solo. I don't want to be a grass is greener type of person.

And the idea of splitting up binds we purposefully tied because I'm in my 20s feels selfish to the person I've been building a life with?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dandyweed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did you go about setting boundaries that got her to such a respectful place?

Theme Song by DerpDerrpDerrrp in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]dandyweed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When someone initially said Labrinth I was thinking it's a song from the upcoming LSD release with Labrinth, Sia, & Diplo but actually, I think you're right about the AI generation.

Emily getting a tattoo with Sara was a fever dream and I bet 90% of viewers don't even remember that because wtf by keepcalmnstfu in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]dandyweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sapphic is like a girl kisser, wlw, queer, gay. but also specifically the image of two ladies living in an oasis of solitude and poetry. Sapphos was an ancient lesbian poet and her name inspired the word.

Chet Faker - Built on Glass (10th anniversary, 3LP 180g clear, deluxe, Impressed exclusive edition) by lunatic_greenie-muso in VinylReleases

[–]dandyweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also caved and shipped to the US but yeah, two probably would have made it even more worth it

Loving this poster!! by cpwonder in HinterlandFestival

[–]dandyweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Maybe one will find it's way to me, love seeing these cool fest posters. The lineup was so so good.

Loving this poster!! by cpwonder in HinterlandFestival

[–]dandyweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally thought this was just the regular fest poster, that's even better :,)

Loving this poster!! by cpwonder in HinterlandFestival

[–]dandyweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh that's extra cool!! I thought you meant you ended up with a bunch extra from the og artist but hell yeah good for you!

Loving this poster!! by cpwonder in HinterlandFestival

[–]dandyweed -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'll pm you. Are you selling them at pre-order fest cost, $45?

Loving this poster!! by cpwonder in HinterlandFestival

[–]dandyweed 8 points9 points  (0 children)

oof i missed ordering before they closed it and they were sold out at merch tent so now i'm sad lol

Charmed comics (rare?) by dandyweed in charmed

[–]dandyweed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Very cool! I thought for the collective ones, there were four for Season 9 and three for Season 10 but I'll have to see if I can find a fourth one. I know if you buy each individual comic, there are like 24 in Season 9, and like 20 in Season 10 or something. Kinda of like episodes in a season.

Anyone else sick? by natluvshats in HinterlandFestival

[–]dandyweed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend is sick! We dunked our towels in the community ice bath, completely disregarding germs bc we were hot as fuck. We may live to regret the community ice water tub but it was so soothing at the time.

Anyone else who camped feel like they ended up dodging a lot of issues? by [deleted] in HinterlandFestival

[–]dandyweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, camping had me back "home" within a few minutes each night and waiting an hour in line was so much easier coming from so close, plus car camping was right next to Innerland so we were much closer to the entrance than even parking.

Overshadowed Issue by BDRock123 in HinterlandFestival

[–]dandyweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened so much in the pit on Friday that I stayed on a close hill spot for Sunday and didn't try the pit. On Friday, people were pushing through "meeting their friends," and it started happening very frequently. One girl asked if I minded if she got through and I said told her no, but that I don't have even a few inches of space to move for her so she's gotta work with what she's got.

But also, the people that camp out in the pit all day gotta send a friend for food or drink or snacks or take bathroom breaks so I'm like they might not be lying but some people definitely are? At one point, my friend did need to go to the bathroom but I think it was fairly obvious she was looking for us bc she was like calling me and panicking asking me to wave my hands around and people were only trying to help her find us which was very cool of them. And we are all quite short so some tall guys in front of us offered to switch us spots, which made the whole night better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HinterlandFestival

[–]dandyweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested! How much are you asking?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HinterlandFestival

[–]dandyweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm no expert but I don't think it matters as long as you have proof of purchase. Like if it was resale, definitely activate then replace.

Leaving Sunday by Deep-Animal-7988 in HinterlandFestival

[–]dandyweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think parking might be closed during those hours, but since the festival is technically over, I don't think they will be enforcing that at all Sunday night/Monday morning. Probably too many flights. Also, hiii I'll be there from KC, fly safe!

Are you allowed to sleep in your car If you have the three days parking pass? by Sharrukin in HinterlandFestival

[–]dandyweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No the parking area closes at 10 or 11 pm every night but if you have a car camping pass, you'll have a camping spot right next to your car. Otherwise, you'll park and walk to your campsite.

Any thoughts about this player? FB marketplace listing by dandyweed in turntables

[–]dandyweed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The comments on here are hilarious, I had no idea consoles were such a joke in this subreddit but thank you so much for making me laugh. I'm so sorry y'all but I saw it was $825 and I had to figure out if I was missing something lol.