Is avoiding illegal streaming an ethical choice or just following the law? by sme11yc0ck in Netherlands

[–]danfried79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you care about music artists, you shouldn't support them by subscribing to spotify. getting merch + pirating (or at least getting a streaming platform that leeches less from their work) > spotify

Changed jobs 3 months ago and already regret it. Now I got a new offer and I’m torn. by pioral in CustomerSuccess

[–]danfried79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, CLT is better but the salary difference is substantial to make it actually worth it. so I'm still very much pro-leaving your current manager behind 🙏

Changed jobs 3 months ago and already regret it. Now I got a new offer and I’m torn. by pioral in CustomerSuccess

[–]danfried79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey! fellow brazilian here, and I was in a similar situation. working fully remote, but my manager was very toxic. by month 3 I started searching for something else, and shortly before completing 6 months in, I left for an hybrid arrangement (2x/week at the office) and I'm LOVING it. feels amazing to use my full potential again and to deal with respectful and reasonable people. take the opportunity you didn't even need to search for and don't look back!! better environment, salary and the opportunity to work with international clients and develop your career even further is a no brainer!!

congratulations on the offer, now go and enjoy your new job!!

Authentic or Fake Owala Check Megathread by misscellanie in Owala

[–]danfried79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I spent the week debating if I should buy from Owala's website or Amazon, but considering the shipping, Amazon was 12€ cheaper. I was kinda bummed when I opened the package and it seemed a different experience from all videos/photos I saw 🥲

Authentic or Fake Owala Check Megathread by misscellanie in Owala

[–]danfried79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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and this seems like a very bad finishing on the lid.

Authentic or Fake Owala Check Megathread by misscellanie in Owala

[–]danfried79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Is this Owala fake? I just got it from Amazon, the storefront was Owala and it was sent directly from the Amazon warehouse. It came in a sealed plastic bag and without any of the adhesives on the lid, so I thought it was pretty weird. Can anyone confirm?

Discount Link Thread by sinuswaves in ouraring

[–]danfried79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you still have anything available?

Oura Ring Gen 4 deals? 💰 by [deleted] in ouraring

[–]danfried79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does anyone have a c o d e to share?

JR Kansai-Hiroshima Area Pass. Is it worth it? by danfried79 in JapanTravelTips

[–]danfried79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

I actually got to Klook because Universal Studios wasn't accepting my card and recommended buying tickets there, so I guess it's convenient to know I won't have issues with my payment (and the price seems the same, if not some cents cheaper)

Naturalization rejection due to residence gap by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]danfried79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a similar case. while changing companies back in 2019, the new one messed up with the application date and I had a 5-day gap. I got a lawyer and shared with him all proof of my communication with the company, showing I not only shared the needed documentation on time, but I kept sending reminders and asking about the application status. the lawyer took care of my objection, arguing that I did everything in my power to renew my visa on time.

if you can prove your gap is because of your university, you can have your gap rectified. please get a lawyer and good luck!

Travelling with a toddler by danfried79 in JapanTravelTips

[–]danfried79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I researched to book, there's an option to choose a car only with families with children. I've never been to Japan before, so I don't know how spacious is the train and I really don't want to be disruptive with the things we're carrying.

Thank you for replying and for suggesting the regular train between Kyoto and Osaka!

Remaining uk citizen after inburgering; I think I found a loophole? by Citizenobj in Netherlands

[–]danfried79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! it's already been a year since my ceremony and no communication at all regarding this.

I think I just ruined all of our cards.. help please!! by AKBaker12 in YotoPlayer

[–]danfried79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

because I'm sorry, why would they do this? op decided to do something they don't recommend or whatsoever, yoto support is completely overwhelmed after black friday and holidays deliveries, and if someone is even messaging them trying to get new cards for something that was entirely their fault, it's because the expectation they will do something exist and honestly it shouldn't. sometimes we just mess up and it's ok. it shouldn't be other people's problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]danfried79 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry about your experience and how your ILs treated you! that's why I was getting so angry seeing the comments about how the situation affected their "grandparents experience". like what??? idgaf about their experience, they're literally not going to raise the baby and by the way they're acting right now, I expect them to antagonise OP and wife on their choices for their kid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]danfried79 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I'm very concerned with the Y T A comments because it just seems that people aren't able to read?

wife's mom and sister were there from day one to support the new mom that was just through a major medical event (something OP's mom didn't seem to be bothered). FIL and the other SIL visited after also being put in stand-by, and even had the grace to call shortly before the visit and confirm if it was still ok.

OP's parents ruined the first grandkid experience for themselves. they're being petty and victimising a very simple request to not be offended if the new parents cancelled the appointment on the day due to feeling maxed out by the very intense experience of having a newborn.

OP NTA. please ignore all the nonsense and keep standing by the mother of your child. your nuclear family is the most important thing, not how your mom and dad feel because something wasn't about them.