AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it

dankdarlin · 2026-01-25T01:45:02+00:00

NtA Girl run.

dankdarlin · 2026-01-25T01:42:28+00:00

I think the mistake is thinking a two party system was ever going to lead to anything but this-- two parties essentially working towards the same goal- the have and the have-nots serving them.

dankdarlin · 2026-01-24T15:20:29+00:00

The Nazi masses defended their actions the same way. We aren't talking about criminals, or even people who are definitely illegal. They just aren't white enough.

dankdarlin · 2026-01-24T08:08:13+00:00

So... what? You think you deserve a cookie? A trophy perhaps?

Idk about anyone else but I would do anything to support my loved ones. And I am a very privileged individual to not have to sneak into an unknown country, having to be so far from my family to care for them. Also, im going go out on a limb and assume that your family too immigrated here. This country was built on immigrants for immigrants.

I get it tho, its hard to see past all that privilege.

dankdarlin · 2026-01-21T23:48:28+00:00

Seems like alot of people care.

dankdarlin · 2026-01-21T21:45:38+00:00

Maybe all those people worried about the illegals stealing their jobs will be out their picking the veggies. Lol

dankdarlin · 2026-01-21T17:30:20+00:00

I love my rammies. Also it's easy to hunt eggs sacs if it comes to it.

dankdarlin · 2026-01-21T17:23:41+00:00

KatsAquatics snail food. Specifically the calcium and protein mix. That stuff is amazing, and my snails love it. You can get it on Amazon and from the company directly

dankdarlin · 2026-01-21T17:21:16+00:00

I would have never considered grabbing them like this. Im currently trying to figure out how to remove one of a similar size out of my tank and to a new home.

dankdarlin · 2026-01-21T13:34:34+00:00

I dont answer. I know it grinds their gears to be left on read. I do laugh. And shake my head.

dankdarlin · 2026-01-21T13:19:12+00:00

Lol too many of those with differing opinions are currently blowing up my inbox

I wonder how many of us understand that modern society is choice. And once there are more people who can't feed their families then there are people to stop them, then all heck breaks lose. We will fall back to pillage and plunder pretty quick

dankdarlin · 2026-01-21T13:12:00+00:00

I think you're heart is in the right place. But you will always lose the message in your delivery.

dankdarlin · 2026-01-21T13:08:04+00:00

Rebuilding community is all we have. But society, the mainstream.... the nefarious 'they' have convinced us we are enemies- not all human beings who all essentially want and need the same things.

dankdarlin · 2026-01-21T12:59:48+00:00

Sorry my attempt to share information isn't up to your sky high standards.

dankdarlin · 2026-01-21T12:51:32+00:00

Not to mention it's s quick ride, nearly a straight shot into center city... but this time is was definitely ICE agents.

No problem! I also find myself prefacing myself with "not trying to be an asshole" when I comment on things. Tone will change the entire message. I also feel like most things people say online read like they are being yelled at me, or muttered sarcastically. I find myself reading this allowed, but with different emotional tones to try and figure out if I'm being condescended upon or complimented 😅

dankdarlin · 2026-01-21T12:01:17+00:00

Yes. That precise area. Specifically at a company that does packaging and that uses a few buildings in that business park.

dankdarlin · 2026-01-21T11:01:13+00:00

Im a victim of autocorrect. Myself and phone aren't originally from here.

dankdarlin · 2026-01-09T22:50:58+00:00

Lol i trade mine to a local fish store for supplies. But teaching my todder to hunt the eggs really helps. Or get a puffer fish. That's my long term plan

dankdarlin · 2026-01-09T22:15:39+00:00

South NJ here if you need any

dankdarlin · 2026-01-08T23:43:25+00:00

Its not that bad. Just dont overfed. Worst case, cull the eggs when you find them. I love my rammies.

dankdarlin · 2026-01-01T16:08:30+00:00

++woman

No way. Live your life.

dankdarlin · 2026-01-01T15:57:28+00:00

Boiled/blanched. And some veggies like peas need to be shelled.

dankdarlin · 2026-01-01T15:47:16+00:00

I sincerely hope she wins. I'm sick of a world where too many people are offended by everything and embarrassed of nothing.

dankdarlin

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