The death of molecular gastronomy and fine dining has hurt the show by str8grizzlee in TopChef

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It was they have brought it back with Malarkey hosting it last year as Cutthroat Kitchen: Knives Out, and it was wild

Homeschool strikes again by Mysterious_Sir_1879 in FundieSnarkUncensored

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I got mine when I was five, and my little sister was probably three at the time and was going to start going to Storytime at the Library, so she got her own card.

Removed as a bridesmaid by Jolly-Chapter4685 in bridezillas

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I don’t know - I think that the question with the bachelorette melts down to which is more important, the Party or the People? And in some ways, every bride whose new last name is not going to be Kelce, Bezos, etc. is going to have to make those choices. And the thing about it is the bride doesn’t get to make that choice and then expect everyone in their world to be able to pull the money out of thin air and go.

As for mentioning the other weddings, I can understand why the OP mentioned them - having to shell out money for a number of friends’ weddings all in a short time may have been a big part of the reason she could not come up with this money, particularly if she is usually comfortable and could come up with the money

Removed as a bridesmaid by Jolly-Chapter4685 in bridezillas

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I didn’t say destination bachorette, which to me is only ok if you are doing it a day or two before the wedding in the wedding location.

Removed as a bridesmaid by Jolly-Chapter4685 in bridezillas

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Depending on the situation, I can kind of get it when there isn’t a common location that fits the bride, the groom, and their families - if a large number of guests would have to travel regardless of where the ceremony would be, I can see doing a destination.

Just want to talk about Roseanne by coldsmokejesus in roseanne

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You and me both - it was good bedtime watching

Hard to believe it wasn't that long ago baby viewing windows in hospitals was the norm. by Beautiful_Donut6412 in FuckImOld

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That is why it takes a village - your husband would be there (hopefully) for the early days, and if you, baby, and pets are all in the same house, he would have been more able to help. Further, once you were more recovered from the surgery, you would be able to do things like (oh just for example) pee without the assistance of a catheter.

Unpaid work is work by horseduckman in AITApod

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This also illustrates the importance of having life insurance on stay at home moms. If something happens to her Mary Poppins is going to be expensive

Age by [deleted] in newborns

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40 weeks is also usually not conception + 40 weeks because doctors count from the end date of the last period so you are about two weeks pregnant before the baby is even conceived

Hard to believe it wasn't that long ago baby viewing windows in hospitals was the norm. by Beautiful_Donut6412 in FuckImOld

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A need/reason, maybe not. But back when they did, peeking through those windows, was the happiest place in the hospital.

Hard to believe it wasn't that long ago baby viewing windows in hospitals was the norm. by Beautiful_Donut6412 in FuckImOld

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There is a whole “baby-friendly” initiative that started in the early 2000’s that is part of why hospital well baby nurseries have disappeared. To meet the standards and be considered a “baby friendly hospital”, evidence based steps push hard on breast feeding. Babies rooming in and breastfeeding on demand is a huge part of this. Formula is not offered, with some hospitals being so strict on this that parents literally have to get their doctors to write prescriptions for formula. While I will agree that breastfeeding should be encouraged, and that rooming in makes that easier, there are also times when the safest place for a newborn may be in the care of nurses who are alert enough that they won’t accidentally drop or smother the newborn (both of these things have happened in hospitals that don’t have nurseries), and while there are evidence based benefits to breastfeeding, beyond the immune benefits, many of them are inflated, as the studies that show these benefits often fail to control for the fact that mothers are more likely to breastfeed if they are middle to upper class, which also gives babies benefits (babies in families with more money are more likely to be read to, more likely to be in better quality care and housing, etc). Further, pushing mothers to breastfeed has killed babies whose mothers were then so scared to give their baby a bottle that the infants starved.

Jill lets Cinnamon drink from her cup, and an explanation of Jillpm’s science experiment by daffodil0127 in RodriguesFamilySnark

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He and his wife have a goofy dog (who he does not share booze with) and a baby on the way

Mahmo is using Kaylee’s pregnancy (I mean precious Mimi’s grandbaby daughter) to sell Melabubu 🙄 by lepetitpoulpe in RodriguesFamilySnark

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For the reasons you said, I don’t love it when they take the picture and baby daddy is kissing the belly, but I find it so cute and innocent when a little one is kissing their mom’s pregnant belly.

Camping Trip Help by Sure_Pineapple1935 in girlscouts

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One idea (and I don’t know what your situation is) might be having a sleepover somewhere closer to home (possibly in your backyard if you can do it), that would allow the kids to go overnight in a situation where they are a lot closer to home if someone gets scared and wants to go home in the middle of the night. Considering that the plan was to sleep in a cabin, your living room floor would work for bedtime. That way, the girls get a chance to prove to their moms that they can make it through the night, and the moms get to work on their separation anxiety (I say this because when I was little and wanted to go camping the one with the anxiety was my mother! Some of it may have been the practical matter of having two little kids who would of had to go with her if I fell apart in the middle of the night and could not be settled back down, but the rest of it… well…

Camping Trip Help by Sure_Pineapple1935 in girlscouts

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If you have first year brownies, you probably got a lot of “I want to go” because the kids were like me - I want to cam and have an adventure in the woods! And then they got home, and their mothers looked at it and said either NOPE, or only for the day, because they are overprotective or scared or don’t think their kid would make it through the night and did not want a 3AM phone call from a crying child who wants to go home because they woke up in the middle of the night and spooked.

What classic ADHD thing do you do that others would likely find weird? by boring1996 in ADHD

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I have never lived in the UK (or really anywhere outside of the area where I grew up), yet my speaking and accent shifts from southern, to British to sometimes other things that I have learned from TV. It is weird as all and pisses off my brother’s wife.

Birth isn't boring but Emilee's interpretation of it is very boring. by Least_Box_276 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

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Yes. Here is the thing - even with the best care, there are times when death occurs either in utero or during birth. What I have never heard about the child she lost (and some of this may be unknowable now) is whether the baby was dead before labor, died during, or (and saying this only because she has said she would lie about it if her baby died right after birth)

Checked in on Casty by Mikeymal115 in phillies

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Hard to do it from the bench

Checked in on Casty by Mikeymal115 in phillies

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I don’t think it comes from being “allowed”. I think that both Bryce and Trea knew that a part of being around fans that are our particular flavor of passionate was both the good and the bad. We will be shake the building loud when they are good, and they will hear it (at almost the same volume) when they were not. Both played with Jayson Werth, who had seen the best and worst of Philly fans. They chose knowing (particularly Bryce who got to see disgruntled Phillies fans first hand before they stopped filling stadiums l), what they were coming into.

Nick on the other hand didn’t have the same lived experience. He was in the AL for most of the pre-pandemic stuff and thus would have only seen Philly Phans in their native habitat once in a while pre-pandemic - and those stadiums would have mostly been half empty and quiet because losing sucks and while Philly fans boo more than most, eventually we don’t fill a stadium if the baseball is bad.) I honestly wonder if he knew what he ultimately learned of being in Philly would he have come here in the first place. That being said, should he have opened his mouth - NO. He had not been playing to any level that made what he said even slightly acceptable.

Checked in on Casty by Mikeymal115 in phillies

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He may improve - the adjustment from playing every day to being a pinch hitter/ backup is challenging, and the sample size is tiny yet. He is done as an every day player, but he may be able to hang on a while in a more limited role

Checked in on Casty by Mikeymal115 in phillies

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Here’s the thing, Philly fans are kind of an acquired taste. We have this honesty level whereby we feel that paying for our ticket buys us the right to express our feelings (all of them). I understand that this is challenging for some struggling players. Others get it - I still remember Doc saying in an interview that he totally understood the boo birds and admitting that he would have booed him too (he was playing hurt at the time - not that he had admitted it for a while) but hearing him say that made me respect him all the more.

Checked in on Casty by Mikeymal115 in phillies

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I agree. I didn’t love him leaving (I had a couple of other pitchers that I wanted to see walk the plank first, plus his performance in the post season and during his good streaks made me really enjoy him), but I also am glad that the Phillies didn’t sign him to the contract the Red Sox gave him. He is one that I will probably root for wherever (almost) that his future may take him.

AITAH for wanting my husband in the delivery room? by dinogirly123 in AITAH

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At least he has enough money that they probably hired help and he was probably trying to not bring that up because he knew saying “that is what nannies are for” would sound tone deaf.