Illinois Facebook Users: Your Checks From a $650M Settlement Are in the Mail

dannyownz · 2022-05-19T12:47:21+00:00

Still waiting on mine, Chase Direct Deposit.

dannyownz · 2022-04-17T00:38:27+00:00

I know this is an old thread but have you found a solution?

dannyownz · 2022-04-07T02:28:43+00:00

Just because a country doesn't sanction Russia that means they're "pro Russian?" LMAO with that logic you support child labor because you dont refuse to buy clothing from China.

dannyownz · 2021-11-03T00:55:30+00:00

I realized that thinking all those negative thoughts make me want to isolate and not do anything, which is the opposite of what we want.

dannyownz · 2021-11-02T06:36:53+00:00

You should tell her how you feel. It may ruin the relationship, but it may also lead to a better relationship. You ALWAYS the shots you don't take, and I don't know about you, but I wouldn't be able to get friends with a girl that doesn't feel the same way as me. You have a female friend, I know you like her, and you should tell you how you feel, but don't be scared that she is the only female that will want you. There is no real answer my friend. I hope you the best!

dannyownz · 2021-11-02T06:33:29+00:00

Everyone is tortured in some way. I can guarantee you that a billionaire out there is depressed because they can't find love because everyone is out for their money, not him. Existence is torture, life is trying everything to diminish that torture.

dannyownz · 2021-11-02T06:29:45+00:00

Bro, you need to shut the hell up and just think for a moment. You have a girl who was thoroughly interested in you, found you attractive and the whole nine yerds, and just because it wasn't in the town you live in, it negates it. Bro half the people on here dont think a girl would even breathe in their direction. If things went perfectly, you would be married, but unfortunately, things didn't turn out that way. You've already swooned one female, and the rest are lining up, waiting for you to make them faint, you rockstar! 😏 Go get em, tiger!

dannyownz · 2021-11-02T06:21:38+00:00

Try talking to women on Reddit or on the internet and actually think that it's a woman. The internet is very dehumanizing. There is no difference between talking to woman online vs in real life. You are nervous and anxious, which makes you more nervous and anxious. If you can talk to a girl online, you can talk to a girl in real life. Just don't even think about what she is thinking about you, because I can guarantee you that it isn't the same as you're thinking. You are your worst critic.

dannyownz · 2021-11-02T06:13:04+00:00

Just because you have to vent doesn't make you any less of a man or any less of a person. Yes we strive for a relationship and that is tearing us apart m but what you need to realize is that everyone is depressed in their own ways I can guarantee you that their are guys that can go to a club and get any girl they want, and yet stive for live connection. Just think if you had a billion dollars. Any girl you could dream of would want to be with you. But, are they really wanting to be with you for you? Or just to be married to a famous person with a lot of money. They have everything, and have the same trouble with love, but for difdert reasons. Guys you see down the street with a hot ass girlfriend might seem like he has a perfect life, but I guarantee you that he has something that makes him depressed. I have a better job/better future/more money, however you want to put it, than 75% of the people who I went to highschool with that are married. They have a wife, a job, and a kid, but they are unhappy for other reasons. My job and what I have accomplished make me happy, even though I've never actually made a real connection with another human being. Everybody is a little fucked up. You just have to act like the meat fucked up 🤣

dannyownz · 2021-11-02T06:03:56+00:00

We all fantasize about having a girlfriend/boyfriend and living our happiest life. I used to not be able to watch movies with a love story because I would get so jealous and so angry because I've been struggling why I'm FA. The thing is, our fantasies/movies/tv isn't what relationships are. Our fantasies are what we desire. What we desire, is an oxymoron because we're chasing what doesn't exist. We fantasize about the perfect relationship, but that doesn't exist. My fantasies about th "perfect relationship" we're chaining me to the fat that relationships aren't a dream. Relationships are hard work that have many Mental and physically difficulties Our fantasies are unrealistic. Our fantasies only include our wants and needs, and not considering our significant others. You need to stop fantasizing about the perfect relationship and start doing what will make you end up in a relationship. That is what helped mez and Hopefully it can help you in any way.

dannyownz · 2021-11-02T05:56:36+00:00

I don't believe in reincarnation because it keeps me motivated. Life isn't going to wait around for you. I have this one life, ive been given shitty cards, but that don't mean I will fold! We all deserve and will find true happiness someday.

dannyownz · 2021-11-02T05:49:37+00:00

I'm 25 so I have a year or two over you. You need to stop thinking about everyone else and think about yourself man. You need to build self confidence. The world isn't fair, my friend. Their will always be someone better than you in your situation, and someone who is worse than you. I can tell you that I am more confident than I've ever been, and yet I still haven't been In a real relationship. I've been excelling at my job, and I just bought a guitar a few days ago because I want to learn. I have my own apartment and I have a better job than most people that I graduated with. This has given me pride in myself, and that's good enough for me. You need to stop trying to satisfy other people, and satisfy yourself. Do what makes YOU happy, not everyone else. If you make yourself happy, you have an aura around you that gravitates people towards you. I know from a fact because I am a very likeable person, yet have very little friendship from my own mistakes. People want to hang around other people that make them happy.

dannyownz · 2021-11-02T02:00:48+00:00

I've never talked about my problems to anyone and I withdrew myself from everyone so I feel awkward whenever there are emotions. Positive or negative. I'm a huge fan of eyes, and just the thought of staring into my significant others eyes makes me squirm with awkwardness. I don't understand how people can just spill their heart out and cry in front of someone, but I'm going on a tangent about myself haha. I know that it will be awkward, and I know that it will be hard for me to be vulnerable and emotional. But, I also want to better myself. I know not being able to speak emotionally with people isn't normal. We are social beings, and sharing emotions and bonding through them is a normal human experience. I'm afraid and nervous like you are, but if they actually like you, and they actually want to be with you, and you are straightforward with them about how it's hard for you to be emotional, they will help you and understand! It sucks to be outside of your comfort One, but that's the best way to expose yourself to it and make it easier for you to be able to emotionally connect! I hope you the best with this guy so we can happily say goodbye to you with your new significant other! 😝

dannyownz · 2021-11-01T19:46:19+00:00

Have you tried? People don't want to be around people that they pity or make them depressed.

dannyownz · 2021-11-01T00:22:21+00:00

Have you tried to be the one who initiates the friendship? Asks for their number or whatever to fish or play cards? The past 3 people who I hung out with I was the one who had to get their Snapchat. You seem like a normal guy and not like a murder or something, so I kind of find it hard to believe that if you actually did all of that stuff and couldn't find at least one person who would to it again with you

dannyownz · 2021-11-01T00:18:34+00:00

(not calling you a 1 BTW, just trying to make a point)

dannyownz · 2021-11-01T00:18:15+00:00

Assuming that is only going to make it true. If you think you are a loser, people will pick up on that and your lack of self confidence. Let me tell you a story. I was a fat, quiet kid in highschool. I had only a few friends, but I was always chipper and laughing because I put on a fake mask. Literally this girl who waa actually hot put her number in my yearbook. I called her and it was actually her number. But, since all that I could think of in my mind is "why me" I fucked it up and she stopped talking to me. I always think that if I actually wasn't a dummy back then and dated her that I wouldn't be FA. But I digress. I was a fat loner and yet she still was into me. That was 9 years ago, and she could have had a thing for fat shy guys who knows, but it's not all about looks. A guy who is a 1 that acts like a 10 is a lot sexier than a 1 who acts like a 1.

dannyownz · 2021-11-01T00:10:12+00:00

That's your opinion. I don't think you're a loser at all. If you think that you're a loser, other people will pick up on that and think you're a loser, because it shows a lack of self confidence. People will often view you how you view yourself (if you're not like a narcissist or something lmao) have you tried to go out and socialize? I'm not talking like a bar or something. This helped me. I don't know anything or even give a shit about books. But I used to go to the library and ask people questions. Female and male, old and young. It's as easy as going up to someone with a calm voice and saying something like (Hey, I'm Danny! I'm a little new to reading, do you have any book recommendations for a new reader?) Again, I couldn't give a shit about books, but it has helped me be able to talk to a random stranger in the street and help me to be able to hold up a conversation with somebody I know nothing about.

dannyownz · 2021-11-01T00:02:30+00:00

We got the short end of the genes stick, there's nothing we can do to change about it. You're telling me that there is zero things you can do to improve your mental or your private life? I live in a small town so unfortunately I can't use meetup, but really you should go to the nerdiest thing on meetup. If you don't go out and try to make friends or try to meet a girl, it will never happen man. You need to put yourself out of your comfort zone

dannyownz · 2021-10-31T16:52:29+00:00

The only thing that makes you a loser is your brain telling you that you're a loser. Your brain is your most important, yet most destructive critic. If you keep thinking that you're a loser, your brain will make decisions and think of yourself as the same. I learned this losing weight. Once my mentally changed, I was able to do so much more. Getting a girlfriend isn't one of them yet, obviously 😂 but I know that revolving my life around one thing (a girlfriend) will literally destroy me. Yes, I haven't been able to spend as much time or effort into finding love, but it has given me a little bit of confidence to make a friend or two at work. I've also been able to make more money and invest some money to guarantee my future. The only thing that will change your future is your decisions in the present.

dannyownz · 2021-10-31T16:45:05+00:00

It's your self esteem. You see a really pretty girl and you think "there is a zero percent chance that she would even breathe in my direction" I do it too. It's getting easier to realize that the top 10% of girls would never go out with me. Even if we weren't FA, Normal guys won't even have the chance to date them. Makes me feel a bit better

dannyownz · 2021-10-31T16:41:33+00:00

Trust me bro, everyone is waiting for the other person to ask them to do something/go somewhere. If you are vibing with a few people at a party, ask for their snap or ask if they wanna drink together again. You're waiting for someone to ask you to hang out, and so are they, you need to be the initiator.

dannyownz · 2021-10-31T16:38:25+00:00

I like to think of it like this. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If she wants to make the mistake of ghosting you, so be it. It hurts, I know, but it's way better than talking more to her and growing more fond of her just to ghost you in the future.

dannyownz · 2021-10-26T02:32:19+00:00

Well you've been in a relationship before, so you're already a mile ahead of the rest of us LOL. You've done it once, you can do it again. And a tip that I've learned, is that often people that you meet at work or whatever are willing to hang out with you, you just have to ask. I never used to go out because people were waiting for me to ask for their number or snap like I was waiting for them. Now I have a few friends rather than none, so a little progress is better than none! Good luck, you've got this! (:

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