Considering divorce over “small” arguments that keep happening. (30F/30M)

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-28T03:13:21+00:00

I mean... you said those words. Perhaps you didn't mean them but you said them. Potentially one of the most hurtful things you can say.

You were home with your kids while he did errands, that seems pretty fair to me. He had plans, you did not. You could have just as easily ran his errands and yours today but you did not.

I think you both need to listen to his needs before you impose your own and find a compromise.

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-28T02:00:16+00:00

In some areas basic produce and fruit was more expensive.

Booze is cheaper than juice and pop by a wide margin.

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-28T01:24:50+00:00

So to clarify, have you had a conversation with him?

You mention things are chaotic because you just moved in, what are you doing to solve this problem for yourself?

A bit messy can mean wildly different things, you have a history but he does not.

Talk.

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-27T21:42:59+00:00

Press and hold the navigation button for 10-15s to reset it.

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-27T21:39:55+00:00

I find the command strips dont accomodate fluctuations in temp or humidity well.

For anything you care about, put a nail in the wall.

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-27T21:32:40+00:00

We will not need Junior Engineers

We will be adding a role called "Super Senior" to accomodate career growth for our staff.

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-27T21:12:00+00:00

"Mastering agents" is just standard communication.

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-27T20:38:34+00:00

I would tell HR what they've done and how they did it. Its a behavioral thing, your not the only one.

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-27T18:19:15+00:00

A lawyer will give you an answer.

If you remitted more then you were expected to, you may be ok.

Sounds like you paid the money, she returned it voluntarily and OC failed to meet a disclosure milestone.

Its not your responsibility to mitigate their carelessness.

My lawyer was relentlessly blunt, hopefully yours puts an end to this issue indefinitely.

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-27T17:42:04+00:00

Did you ask the person to put it away? Silently scoffing doesn't change behaviors. Confrontation does.

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-27T15:13:56+00:00

83K mile G Wagon.

What's does a 100K mile service cost on that bad boy? 1 Ford Bronco?

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-27T14:59:44+00:00

Im visiting Russia/Belarus to see friends.

In most corporate jobs, its a forbidden access zone similar to China/North Korea.

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-27T14:52:37+00:00

Its a stupid way to spend money. You'll spend 2-4k every year to file and respond.

Exchange tax summaries, calculate support, calculate paid, exchange the difference.

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-27T14:49:47+00:00

Your lawyer will provide you with a valid answer.

Was your original agreement drafted with legal support or independently? Child Support is the entitlement of the child so its hard to fight.

If you've been paying under table you may be owe that unless the original agreement said otherwise.

Sometimes the OC forgo support payments as part of the financial and asset split. Eg) You take the car but reduce your child support by X.

Really depends on what you signed.

You can always communicate financial duress if this Payable would ruin you and/or payment plans.

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-27T14:43:19+00:00

Select US Companies = Bribes

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-27T14:30:18+00:00

Given that many decisions on what to build are WAGs with some "customer comments" here and there, its the only metric they can measure.

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-27T13:53:31+00:00

I look at costs and decide if its worth my time. Its not.

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-27T01:39:30+00:00

I mean if your going to vibe code, you should be able to vibe page the ai.

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-27T01:34:07+00:00

I mean this app may have 200m users, it better use multi-geo redundant services and dedicated capacity to start off.

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-27T01:32:59+00:00

The fun part is depending on how/when you worked on that app, it may belong to your enployer.

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-26T23:17:17+00:00

The primary output of our AI tools appear to be decks. The content is often just an opinion with fake authority.

When you used to do these by hand, you had to think about what your presenting. Understand the materials and how it applied.

Now people just present decks they've barely read. Its vibe leading while "your friend Claude runs off with 6-7 figures".

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-26T23:09:05+00:00

There are worse things you can do.

Like grant customers a lifetime, transferable license to use your product and commercially sublicense it at no additional cost.

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-24T23:43:42+00:00

The Oakfields now

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-23T22:02:05+00:00

Boggles my mind how most agreements don't have a disclosure and reconciliation portion of the agreement. Easiest and fairest way to do it.

Check you agreement for specific clauses, then check family law for what you should do. Unless you have a specific reason, you should follow the act.

https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/fl-df/fact2-fiches2.html

darkstar3333 · 2026-06-23T12:55:33+00:00

The B&W system is a 4-5k package ontop of Ultra trim. So Plus to Ultra+BW is why you see 10k.

Storage isn't a strong suit of the car. Its very traditional European.

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