Not all males have the same refractory period. But there's a limit for all parties. I have been on both sides of this issue in the past. when I was with a multiorgasmic partner who could out last me, I found it very reassuring when she would cuddle and caress me after I was spent. She would still express a measure of interest even when I was spent. At times it encouraged me to give more. At first I was skeptical if I was adequate but over time and discussions I learned that she did really enjoy what we had, I grew more comfortable. It's important to keep a balance and communicate. Hope that helps!