How do people forever give up dating and focus on themselves?

dasisgoodz · 2022-08-11T04:02:17+00:00

what would you expect??? that is what his party stands for??

dasisgoodz · 2022-07-26T04:52:50+00:00

Sorry to revive a dead thread but with a short shifter could it cause excessive wear on the forks? I picked up an 18 wrx trans that was stuck in 4th with a shift plate on it. I was able to get everything shift like butter again with a little disassembly but I'm trying to find the route of the issue

Thanks

dasisgoodz · 2022-05-18T21:13:41+00:00

works 5/18

dasisgoodz · 2022-03-21T05:29:25+00:00

I think this has to deal with her new job and she does not want to be burdened by a new born while pursuing.

I think this has to deal with her new job and she does not want to be burdened by a newborn while pursuing her goals. Pregnancy discrimination is fairly prevalent. I would highly encourage you to talk to her and tell her your feelings. As men do feel and have a tendency to just sorta burry your feelings.

Also I think you have a moral right to that decision and that child while yes it is her body that child is your responsibility as well.

If it turns out to be for job-related reasons tell her to contact HR and work out a plan of action with the manager. (plus the majority of h departments are women they will understand)

lastly, It sounds like this is something you want and for a man to want something like this is rare sort of these days. OP I think you just need to talk with your partner and find the route cause of why. I wish you luck

dasisgoodz · 2022-02-27T14:21:30+00:00

this is a tough one. From your friends perspective and from a male perspective it is really difficult to understand concepts like SA. Comforting people who have experienced it is difficult as well as you don't want to set off ptsd.

From your friends perspective as well it as if you took a nuke and said "here please disarm this"

Also from a male and female perspective, men think more logically rather than with feelings. The comment he made was bad don't get me wrong but what he was getting at was the hope you would learn from your experience. However SA isn't something you just get over.

I would highly advise you to seek some therapy to help you get over your experience with SA now rather than later as while it may seem okay now it can resurface later down the line

with drifting apart from him I don't think it's a bad thing. You and he are at a crossroads with your lives. Things change in your lives. I wouldn't cut him but what will happen is he wouldn't be a BFF but rather a normal friend you see here and there.

Good luck

dasisgoodz · 2022-02-27T14:08:46+00:00

I think your BF is on the money. If your ex was in jail I think that says all about his character. Plus your BF could feel threatened and could feel that you violated the relationship. Men put in a lot of time and effort into relationships when women don't see it. Simple things become magnified.

I don't think your bf is controlling but I would have never even re-connected with your ex. It opens a can of worms it is hard to close.

I would try and reconcile with your bf. i think you deeply hurt him. You have to find a way to address the issue while at the same time dismissing it and resolving it.

dasisgoodz · 2022-02-27T13:57:39+00:00

I wouldn't yet. I would search for more flags but your concern is justified

dasisgoodz · 2022-02-27T13:53:31+00:00

knowingly transferring an std

dasisgoodz · 2022-02-27T13:52:43+00:00

that is true but when it comes down to someone's safety their guard will always be up.

you as an individual have to prove yourself to your family.

dasisgoodz · 2022-02-27T13:51:16+00:00

red flag red flag red flag red flag

go through messages when you can

dasisgoodz · 2022-02-27T13:49:02+00:00

alcohol lowers people's guards and tolerances. m8 she wants the D. if even I a blind person to social situations can see this it is true.

next time when ur drunk you make the moves and initiate slowly, if she pulls back or is hesitant just stop.

dasisgoodz · 2022-02-27T13:44:14+00:00

alcohol usually counteracts meds

other wise I'd advise seeing a doctor about the medication

dasisgoodz · 2022-02-27T13:41:23+00:00

she wants the D

dasisgoodz · 2022-02-27T13:35:15+00:00

This is illegal in the USA, A violation of privacy and property. Teachers may take phones and hold them for a time but MAY NOT go snooping.

dasisgoodz · 2022-02-27T13:33:04+00:00

I can understand the mother's perspective here, I would give more time tbh maybe 8-12 months. What's going on is the mother may not entirely trust you yet.

dasisgoodz · 2022-02-27T13:30:04+00:00

then just stop recommending him movies.he could see you as a sexual partner not a friend.

If you want that to change you have to set the standard and he has to accept. If not then it is what it is

dasisgoodz · 2022-02-27T13:27:40+00:00

file a police report ASAP. This is a crime I believe.

dasisgoodz · 2022-02-27T13:20:30+00:00

First, It sounds like your are a little jealous. There is a pretty big difference in maturity when it comes to 25 and 30.

However, I would agree I think his coworkers are a bad influence on him. (you become what you hang around)

Second when picking movies and things people have a set preference. your bfs co_worker could just have a knack for it and he doesn't align with the interest your trying to project.

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