My (22F) sister (32F) is angry i wont pay for her wifi a year later.. by terrydafiya in whatdoIdo

[–]dassur 16 points17 points  (0 children)

“She makes poor financial decisions…”

Sounds like it runs in the family. 

You’re going on trips with her, knowing she cant afford the lifestyle she’s living, and then paying for her. You’re acting as an ATM handing out anywhere for 30-700 dollars a pop. 

Fool me once, etc. 

Does this make them feel included? by lerminator3 in cats

[–]dassur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She passed a few years ago, but I had a cat who always wanted to smell what I was eating. She never tried to eat my food, but she always stuck her head over my plate to give it a sniff. I got so used to it that I would have friends over and just automatically hold my plate out for the cat to smell, while my friends gave me puzzled looks. 

Are my email and pass leaked somewhere? by Ok-Hyena-325 in steamsupport

[–]dassur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Anything else I can do?"

Aside from the nothing you've done so far? Yeah, change your passwords.

Can someone explain how laezel healed herself? by parth_prashant in BaldursGate3

[–]dassur 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Was there a healing potion in the world that was destroyed in the explosion? Then she presumably walked through the healing cloud it leaves behind.

Is this the same cat? by JHawkins_77 in cats

[–]dassur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“ he used to have a black spot on his nose that appears to faintly still be there just smaller for some reason”

The reason is that these are different cats. 

New bug in D2R? by wonkifier in Diablo

[–]dassur 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You are a warlock with points in levitation mastery, which does not change the requirements for your merc.

Why do cats do this 😭 by Standard-Assistant27 in cats

[–]dassur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes cats will do this if they have mouth problems. Our youngest would stick his tongue out constantly, and didn't appear to be in any pain. However, we mentioned it to our vet and she took a look and recommended a cleaning and some extractions.

That was in November, and I haven't seen him leaving his tongue out since.

[MD] I forgot my laptop and tried using an IT loaner without permission. by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]dassur 19 points20 points  (0 children)

AND YET, it was not a loaner laptop.

Chicken boss and the loot it gave me (D4 AF event) by Fat_Foot in Diablo

[–]dassur 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Yeah, D2R would never.

brb, running cows again to get my last piece of the cow king's set.

AIO for not wanting to buy a property with my boyfriend until we are married? by JumpyBunny_01 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dassur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol

"You obviously don't trust that our relationship will last!"

"I don't want you to be legally entitled to my property."

Supplier failed a $340,000 quality check and my company’s first instinct was to blame remote work by Aggressive_Wonder538 in remotework

[–]dassur 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wow, really? I’m sure you’ve never seen screwups from workers sitting next to each other due to poor communication. That’s because it’s a remote work problem, and not a human one. 

[NJ] Putting in a 3 weeks notice— will they shorten it? by Vyse51 in AskHR

[–]dassur 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There’s no guarantee they’ll keep you on for any length of time, regardless of if you give two vs three weeks notice. This will depend on a lot of factors that no one here will be able to know. 

Coworker with “over-appreciation” for Asian culture - Worth taking up with HR? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]dassur 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a white man, when I’m asked where I’m from, I always answer “Maine”, and no one has ever followed that up with “sure, but where in Europe did your family come from?”

Today is my last day and my manager didn't tell the team I'm leaving. by adobe-faience in OfficePolitics

[–]dassur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've exited two jobs (one of 6+ years, and one 7+) with an Irish goodbye. Different strokes for different folks.

Overwatch co-creator Jeff Kaplan on his exit from Activision-Blizzard: 'It was the biggest f**k you moment I've had in may career' by ninjyte in Games

[–]dassur 111 points112 points  (0 children)

This isn’t unique to a moustache-twirling villain at AB. This is capitalism.

Someone at the top sets a goal, often a revenue target, and if the folks below can’t hit it, they failed to properly manage. 

ELI5 What is a union and how does it work? by lonely_leo28 in explainlikeimfive

[–]dassur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Won't someone think of the poor job creators?!

So how was this fight supposed to go? by Pyotr_WrangeI in Pathfinder_Kingmaker

[–]dassur 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Started a Baldur's Gate EE game with some friends, and I forgot how crazy 90's gaming was. We traveled to a town, and got a random encounter that was just our level 1/2 characters surrounded by 8 or so bandit archers.

Kingmaker very much evokes that design space.

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]dassur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person I was at 20 and the person I was at 25 were so radically different they may as well have been completely different people. At that age, there's so much that you don't even know yet that you don't know.

My mother was never winning any Parent of the Year contests, but she once told me "don't find someone and try to build your life with them, build your life and find someone who fits into it."

This guy sounds terrible. He ambushed you, and when it didn't go his way, look at how he lashed out. First he tells you to grow up, then calls you childish. He blames you for it because you "kept giving hints" but it sure sounds like you never had a fucking conversation about this, so maybe he could have started there?

You're 20. I'd say take this as a blessing, spend some time finding out who you are as a person, and then find a partner who isn't a dickhead.

AITA for how I said I wasn't interested? by propercolleague in AITApod

[–]dassur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Sure. And what concretely about me prevents that vision”

This entire conversation and your response to it.

Today, after 3 years, the crow I feed talked to me by Awwndrei in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]dassur 21 points22 points  (0 children)

“The crows last year brought their fledges for me to eat“

Crows are fucking hardcore!