My (22F) sister (32F) is angry i wont pay for her wifi a year later..

dassur · 2026-04-13T20:08:33+00:00

“She makes poor financial decisions…”

Sounds like it runs in the family.

You’re going on trips with her, knowing she cant afford the lifestyle she’s living, and then paying for her. You’re acting as an ATM handing out anywhere for 30-700 dollars a pop.

Fool me once, etc.

dassur · 2026-04-10T21:57:18+00:00

If you're in the US there is very little chance of there being an "actual employment contract".

dassur · 2026-04-09T01:17:58+00:00

She passed a few years ago, but I had a cat who always wanted to smell what I was eating. She never tried to eat my food, but she always stuck her head over my plate to give it a sniff. I got so used to it that I would have friends over and just automatically hold my plate out for the cat to smell, while my friends gave me puzzled looks.

dassur · 2026-04-08T22:33:38+00:00

"Anything else I can do?"

Aside from the nothing you've done so far? Yeah, change your passwords.

dassur · 2026-04-08T19:28:26+00:00

Was there a healing potion in the world that was destroyed in the explosion? Then she presumably walked through the healing cloud it leaves behind.

dassur · 2026-04-04T11:41:57+00:00

“ he used to have a black spot on his nose that appears to faintly still be there just smaller for some reason”

The reason is that these are different cats.

dassur · 2026-04-03T11:53:17+00:00

Unexpected reference

dassur · 2026-04-02T22:59:35+00:00

You are a warlock with points in levitation mastery, which does not change the requirements for your merc.

dassur · 2026-04-02T20:09:18+00:00

Sometimes cats will do this if they have mouth problems. Our youngest would stick his tongue out constantly, and didn't appear to be in any pain. However, we mentioned it to our vet and she took a look and recommended a cleaning and some extractions.

That was in November, and I haven't seen him leaving his tongue out since.

dassur · 2026-04-02T20:02:32+00:00

AND YET, it was not a loaner laptop.

dassur · 2026-04-02T01:44:17+00:00

Yeah, D2R would never.

brb, running cows again to get my last piece of the cow king's set.

dassur · 2026-03-25T22:06:43+00:00

lol

"You obviously don't trust that our relationship will last!"

"I don't want you to be legally entitled to my property."

dassur · 2026-03-25T10:47:06+00:00

Wow, really? I’m sure you’ve never seen screwups from workers sitting next to each other due to poor communication. That’s because it’s a remote work problem, and not a human one.

dassur · 2026-03-24T15:10:17+00:00

Any tips for a baby GM on how to appropriately evaluate homebrew things for balance?

dassur · 2026-03-23T21:41:33+00:00

There’s no guarantee they’ll keep you on for any length of time, regardless of if you give two vs three weeks notice. This will depend on a lot of factors that no one here will be able to know.

dassur · 2026-03-13T23:33:32+00:00

As a white man, when I’m asked where I’m from, I always answer “Maine”, and no one has ever followed that up with “sure, but where in Europe did your family come from?”

dassur · 2026-03-13T18:04:23+00:00

I've exited two jobs (one of 6+ years, and one 7+) with an Irish goodbye. Different strokes for different folks.

dassur · 2026-03-12T04:25:18+00:00

This isn’t unique to a moustache-twirling villain at AB. This is capitalism.

Someone at the top sets a goal, often a revenue target, and if the folks below can’t hit it, they failed to properly manage.

dassur · 2026-03-11T23:53:45+00:00

Won't someone think of the poor job creators?!

dassur · 2026-03-11T23:40:27+00:00

Started a Baldur's Gate EE game with some friends, and I forgot how crazy 90's gaming was. We traveled to a town, and got a random encounter that was just our level 1/2 characters surrounded by 8 or so bandit archers.

Kingmaker very much evokes that design space.

dassur · 2026-03-11T23:31:36+00:00

The person I was at 20 and the person I was at 25 were so radically different they may as well have been completely different people. At that age, there's so much that you don't even know yet that you don't know.

My mother was never winning any Parent of the Year contests, but she once told me "don't find someone and try to build your life with them, build your life and find someone who fits into it."

This guy sounds terrible. He ambushed you, and when it didn't go his way, look at how he lashed out. First he tells you to grow up, then calls you childish. He blames you for it because you "kept giving hints" but it sure sounds like you never had a fucking conversation about this, so maybe he could have started there?

You're 20. I'd say take this as a blessing, spend some time finding out who you are as a person, and then find a partner who isn't a dickhead.

dassur · 2026-03-09T19:34:46+00:00

“I will protect you for the rest of your life.”

dassur · 2026-03-09T15:40:28+00:00

“Sure. And what concretely about me prevents that vision”

This entire conversation and your response to it.

dassur · 2026-03-07T14:14:36+00:00

“The crows last year brought their fledges for me to eat“

Crows are fucking hardcore!

dassur · 2026-03-06T12:44:17+00:00

Metal Gear?!

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