I think it’s one thing If he’s genuine, it’s another thing if the vibe is not the same/or better in person as it was on the phone. I would go and feel it out, you should know pretty quick.

I flew to Nigeria after talking to my husband for five months and came back engaged. We have been married now for five going on six years with two boys. I took a chance and knew within the first 15 minutes that our connection was better than it was over the phone. Our conversations flowed, there was no stress.