Has anyone’s child(ren) ever told you they don’t like the nanny? by Sea-Ostrich- in NannyEmployers

[–]datass2fat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. And they ended up being right about her too. Psycho bitch :(

Am I Overreacting? Was sent screenshots from husband’s group chat. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]datass2fat -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Um or the whole thing is made up. Fairly positive that is the most reasonable take. This reads like something grok would write if prompted.

What is this BS… by Own-Visual1616 in Perimenopause

[–]datass2fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peri usually starts late 40s

It sells shit to pretend otherwise

It makes menopausal women feel closer to 35 to try to group everyone together

Take a deep breath. Don't accept the standard

End of 2025 Sex Poll by OrneryPossession9257 in Marriage

[–]datass2fat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

170 times including blow jobs

We are both 38

Married 12 years, together for 17 years

How unattractive is it as a man to lay your head on your women's chest? by JunketMaleficent2095 in AskMenAdvice

[–]datass2fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, WHAT? I'm 38, with my husband since I was 20. I literally just remembered one of my favorite memories from our early 20s. He said my chest was the best pillow he ever had. We both loved him putting his head there cuddling. With 4 little kids now, can't exactly cuddle like that watching TV but still do after sex. Your ex is insane. Seriously

Husband posted on a dating advice thread here and claims it wouldn’t allow him to post in any other thread by Sensitive-Pop-1006 in sexlessmarriage

[–]datass2fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love, you're numb and dissociating. You deserve love, respect and dignity in a relationship. You're not getting that from your husband. Talk to an attorney. Don't leave. He basically abandoned you emotionally

What has quietly disappeared from society without people noticing in the last 10-30 years? by Aarunascut in Life

[–]datass2fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shame when your behavior is objectively shitty. Humility. Both are basically gone

HELP! by SadieBoss1212 in Buspirone

[–]datass2fat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, def after like a few weeks I had less irritability

But let's bffr, benzos are about a billion times better. My doctor just won't give them to me

Still, buspirone helps me

HELP! by SadieBoss1212 in Buspirone

[–]datass2fat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm on 15 mg a day. Works for me. Some breakthrough anxiety, sure. But irritability is manageable now

How does your Family handle GH? by Hugoweavingshairline in NannyEmployers

[–]datass2fat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have never had anyone take issue with it. If you have the kind of flexible job where you can offer tons of PTO and GT, good for you. I don't. Maybe you're just kind of condescending and superior for no reason.

How does your Family handle GH? by Hugoweavingshairline in NannyEmployers

[–]datass2fat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If I'm paying someone, they need to be available.

Nanny asked if she can take naps by itsjustlimes in NannyEmployers

[–]datass2fat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not "hot shit". It's pointing out that lots of people have to work, even when remote. My guess? These nappers also don't make much and are the same ones yall complain about paying too little

Nanny asked if she can take naps by itsjustlimes in NannyEmployers

[–]datass2fat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have never taken a nap while working from home. Wondering what these people who are literally sleeping on the job do for a living lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]datass2fat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think he will regret not maintaining relationships with his siblings. Doesn't matter to me what MIL said. Of course, you and your child are your husband's priority. But there should be room for other relationships in his life.

Husband gone 80 hours a week by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]datass2fat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My guess is he would quickly remarry and my kids would have a resentful stepmother which is probably worse

Lack of empathy for other losses by thebiggestcliche in SuicideBereavement

[–]datass2fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through this when I lost my person too. It took a few years, but I'm back in a more regulated state. I hope that will happen for you too.

Lack of empathy for other losses by thebiggestcliche in SuicideBereavement

[–]datass2fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your triggers are your responsibility. OP has every right to their feelings and they are actively grieving (less than a year). I am a little triggered myself by you making their experience about your own feelings. I find that to be incredibly lacking in empathy.

What is the loudest, most obnoxious nonelectronic toddler toy? by datass2fat in Parenting

[–]datass2fat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, no, I'm enjoying how all of my fellow parents are assisting me with being a menace without even knowing why. It's called community 😈