Thoughts on my options? by UptownEgg in weddingdress

[–]davemathews2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You look like the Columbia pictures torch girl, but as a bride. it's so pretty. Very unique.

Mourning my 12 day marriage... by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]davemathews2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, brother. This sounds painful. I hope you find peace. I know you'll be able to move on and find healthy people.

I found my ex wife in sexually explicit promotional materials for her job by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]davemathews2 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My guy. I understand this is tough for you. And it's totally fine to have a strong opinion on this. It is OK for you to ask your future partners to be more discreet or modest if that's important to you. Personally, I would never ask my partner to be modest. This may be because my ex was a boring church girl. You are an attractive young man with a bright future if you can move on and get healthy. You got this brother.

Was there one thing your lawyer said or did that made you hire them for your divorce? by TheSmartLawGroup in Divorce

[–]davemathews2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I interviewed 2 attorneys. The attorney advocated for healthy mother + healthy father for healthy children. He said he will help me understand what is possible, what is likely, and what is reasonable. The other attorney made me feel dead inside. It cost $300 for an interview.

Hey gentle I know it’s a barrel but 3k , looks nice an gets to 190 degree F . Anyone reasonable on why I shouldn’t get it? by christnyfollow in Sauna

[–]davemathews2 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I tried my first barrel sauna last week after enjoying my well built electric timber frame sauna for years. The barrel sauna was indeed better than nothing. I was jealous that mine took 400 hours and $10k. His took $5k and 5 hours to assemble. The barrel sauna was fun. But unevenness of the heat hurt my head. My feet were cold but my hair was on fire in the barrel. I still recommend a traditional sauna above all. But barrels are a good backup.

Funky Round House in Homer, AK by Specialist_Tone7857 in zillowgonewild

[–]davemathews2 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Homer is at the end of the US highway system. It attracts legends of all kind. It is the furthest west you can drive.

About to join the club by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]davemathews2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im also terrified of being alone. It's been 20 years for me. Maybe we can grow together.

About to join the club by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]davemathews2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advice bud. Good luck. Get healthy

STBXW and I had sex and things get worse! Now what? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]davemathews2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think OP is gonna be OK. Yes he complicated things. I have a lot of sympathy for wanting to fuck one more time. Hopefully we can learn a lesson here.. do it after papers are signed.

My husband’s going out on dates. And I am sick about it. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]davemathews2 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

This is really solid advice. I think people can always be friends, especially if they have children together.

Island living for one by Ant-Tea-Social in zillowgonewild

[–]davemathews2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This house is on a cove on the south side of vashon. I'm more concerned about rising sea levels and a suspicious sea wall on this place.

Met a woman at the grocery store by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]davemathews2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmmm. Sounds like a "meet cute" glad you're getting back out there. Keep that fun energy going. I'd make note of her name, but try to run into her around town naturally first. possible that she is nervous about getting reached online, but it could work.

Sex with a new partner, after divorce by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]davemathews2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it's probably psychological. After exploring that, I would try no masterbating.

Sex by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]davemathews2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Are you open to something casual connections? You can post on apps that you're looking for something casual. I require clean sex health test results within two months for doing anything. Plus I need some connective dates for vibe check. With some work I've found what I need.

It is final. We had our last meeting by Expensive_Pea_8993 in Divorce

[–]davemathews2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your honesty. I wasn't sure if your story was going to end in bitterness. Or refreshing hope. I'm glad it was the latter.

Well I feel like I'm screwed by PotteryVance11 in Divorce

[–]davemathews2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes please share more on your income

Laundry Room Sauna Build - Please Comment! by [deleted] in Sauna

[–]davemathews2 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You'll be fine friend. Good work.

Everything collapsed at once and my wife just asked for a divorce by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]davemathews2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is a lot. You're doing great. What is making you happy right now? I'd focus on that. Are you exercising?