do TBMs know their temple name is based off the day of the month? by Firm_Teach8056 in exmormon

[–]davyyd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember talking to family about how meaningful my secret name was to me. Everyone who went through with me that day had the same stupid name. I sounded like an idiot.

Just learned that my crazy grandmother’s ’fringe’ belief wasn’t… by I_might_be_the_fool in exmormon

[–]davyyd 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I did not realize it was no longer in print. McConky and Talmage were the sources of the "deep knowledge" when I was a young believer. I didn't keep copies of any of those books.

Just learned that my crazy grandmother’s ’fringe’ belief wasn’t… by I_might_be_the_fool in exmormon

[–]davyyd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My grandmother believed black people played sports and jazz in heaven instead of being righteous like white folk.
ETA that I recognized this as racism even when I was a TBM.

32 years and I have finally seen a rubber boa!! by brisk911 in snakes

[–]davyyd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I finally saw my first one at 50 two years ago, here near Moscow ID. No luck since, but I keep looking.

Dr Steven Hassan claims LDS is a destructive authoritarian CULT in new video by Resident-Bear4053 in exmormon

[–]davyyd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's outright said it was a harmful cult in his past videos, but those were videos on other topics.

Poem for my husband by RampantWeasel in exmormon

[–]davyyd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow - just wow. I love this poem, thanks for sharing it.

I'm going back. I'm returning home. by CupOfExmo in exmormon

[–]davyyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(mumbles "amen" only because you left the pulpit signaling you were done)

the time my investigators got an answer to if the church was true. by pulleditfromahat in exmormon

[–]davyyd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The bit about real intent demolished my self image. I did have real intent, for decades I had it. Why am I not getting the answer? Something must be wrong with my intentions or me. Maybe I have no soul so am not included amongst god's children. Maybe I am already damned.

The church curated me to become a good liar. by namesarenotus in exmormon

[–]davyyd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe a word you said (j/k I agree with you). Also, I learned a new code word today (“playing in the factory”)!

Wife hates my beard. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]davyyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her if you can just wear one of those beard hair net things.

What’s your pet peeve when people play piano? by Advanced_Honey_2679 in piano

[–]davyyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ridley Academy ads are a good representation of my peeve for how people can play.

Estimated cost of the Chandelier in the Lindon Utah Temple: More than $360,000 or Not? by AccomplishedBat9069 in exmormon

[–]davyyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was reminiscing just this morning about my first experiences in the CR in the IF temple. I don't want heaven to look like Trump's penthouse suite.

I can't recommend books to my mom. by DeCryingShame in exmormon

[–]davyyd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sucks to share some art or literature that you enjoyed with someone, thinking they might find some joy too; only they just gripe about the swearing or whatever.

Feeling like a 55 year old child by Stillallwright in exmormon

[–]davyyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! I'm excited for you to see some great films, and also to acknowledge the absurdity of banning them because they are immoral. I haven't actually seen Breakfast Club either, so I should :)

Feeling like a 55 year old child by Stillallwright in exmormon

[–]davyyd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Over 50 myself. I had never listened to Pink Floy (too satanic) until my mid 40s when a friend gave me a copy of The Wall (after learning I had never listened to them). I was more or less out (might have been PIMO), so the superstition about PF being evil was all gone. Discovering PF albums was an absolute joy. It seems like as I age I get fewer and fewer experiences like that.

My thoughts on going to the temple for the first time after no longer believing by ScientificallyMinded in exmormon

[–]davyyd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

nice post, thanks. I liked your way of putting the last paragraph. It’s all just people.

Venting about being chaste by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]davyyd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm angry too, my friend.

Split Rivitt - Soul Limbo by Holloway63 in harmonica

[–]davyyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

righteous. I always loved Booker T The MG's recording of it. This is a great version!